Ukuba yindoda ethandekayo yomfazi- Ngaba ikhona into entle ngakumbi? Amantombazana aqala ubudlelwane ngokuzama le njongo; Abafazi abahlala kumtshato waseburhulumenteni iminyaka emininzi. Umtshato uphelile ukuba yiholide nje, kuba uninzi luyinjongo ekufuneka ifezekiswe ngayo nayiphi na indlela. Kwaye ngaphezu kommeli weendleko ezinkulu ezindala, kokukhona ebaleka ukuba azibophe njengomtshato. Kodwa, iinjongo zale mihla zikho konke.
Kwaye ke, ukuba ufuna ukuba ngumfazi osemthethweni, zazabalazela ukutshata, phulaphula icebiso. Banceda abantu abaninzi, kwaye ngenxa yoko, ukusebenza kwabo, ngokungathandabuzekiyo ...
Ungatshata njani?
Kusenokwenzeka ukuba ucinga ukuba akukho msebenzi walula. Kufuneka ulandele icebiso lika-gonise kwaye ukhulelwe ngokukhawuleza. Sukungxama ngezenzo, ndikholelwe, le ndlela ayisasebenzi. Akukho mfuneko yokubaleka ube ngumama kwaye ulilolo, chaza ubomi bakho, kunye nobomi bomntwana ozayo bubunzima obukhulu.
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Yiba ngcono kunezolo!
Umfazi onqwenelekayo yindoda ehlala ilungile. Ke ngoko, nokuba uyazithanda i-hysterics, ungayazi indlela yokwenza ukungathobeki - utshintsho.
Umfazi wale mihla uyazi ngokukhawuleza ukuba athathe indawo ngokukhawuleza, ukuze abe ngumfazi, kufuneka uguqukele kwindoda yakho. Kulula ukuyenza, kuba, akukho mntu ngaphandle kwakho uyazi kakuhle kwaye ngokuthe ngqo izinto ozithandayo.
Ukuba uyathanda isidlo sakusasa, waba ngumfazi wasekhaya; Uthandabelana ngesondo - jika kubuhle obanekisayo. Kwaye, ukuba ucinga ukuba yonke into ilula kakhulu, ke musa ukukhawuleza. Kulula ukujika ibe liphupha, kodwa akululanga ukuhlala ...
Ulibale ixesha elidlulileyo - kunye neyakho kunye neyakhe
Asinguye wonke umntu oba ngumfazi wakhe kwimbono yabantu. Kungenxa yoko le nto kunqatshelwe ukukhuthaza izinto eziphambili zokuzonwabisa, xelela malunga neemfihlo zabo. Yintoni kwaye efanele aqhubeke nememori kwaye angaze ahlasele okwangoku. Ukuba udibene, ulwalamano lwakho luyaqhubeka, zonke iimpawu zexesha elidlulileyo kufuneka zibe yimfihlo yenqaba yosapho. Umfazi omncinci uyazi, ukuba ungaphantsi. Ukuba umntu akaqapheli ukuba usengumntu ongcono kunaye, akayi kuba nezizathu zokuba abe nekhwele.Akukho xinzelelo!
Nokuba ungayifumana njani na ukutsiba kwingubo emhlophe, hlala kwi-limousine kwaye uye kwihambo yothando - ungaze uphathe ingqalelo. Thetha nje ngamaphupha kube kanye, kodwa ungasekho kwakhona.
Ukuba ngumfazi uya kuba nakho ukuba nabani na owelizwi, enganiki ingcinezelo kwiqabane elizayo. Ungafuni ukugxotha isoka okanye indoda iminyaka emininzi, ungatsho ukuba ufuna ukutshata. Amagama amancinci- inkulu iya kubangela ukuba!
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Ezi ngcebiso zisetyenziswe ngcono kwizinto ezikhoyo. Ukubambelela nganye nganye imihla, uya kuba kufutshane nephupha.
Kwaye, apha, xa i-uviesm evumayo yenzeka, uya kuza (ngokungacwangciswanga) kwisigqibo sokudala usapho, yenza umtshato, kubalulekile ukusebenzisa izinyuko ezininzi ...
Kukwenze njani uqhawulo-mtshato kunyaka wokuqala?
Njengoko kuyenzeka, nawaphi na amaphupha asenzekayo. Kwaye xa isiganeko esixabisekileyo senzeka, ulonwabo kunye ne-euphoria Qhubeka hayi ixesha elide. Ukulandela iphupha lokuba yintombazana yabasetyhini kunye nabafazi bachitha amandla amaninzi namandla. Kwaye ke, emva kokugqitywa komtshato ukuba ingenanto. Injongo ifezekisiwe, isiphumo se-yonke, akusasebenzi, akukho nkuthazo. Amadoda athabatha into efanayo - bacebisa ukuba kunye nobungqina bafumana iziqinisekiso zokuba bangengawo kuphela ibhinqa eliyithandayo, kodwa nomfazi wasekhaya, ococekileyo.
Ukudinwa komfazi kunye nokuzithemba okungaqhelekanga okungaqhelekanga kwamadoda kwitandem enye kunokukhokelela ekubeni ayisiyo imiphumo emnandi kakhulu. Njengoko izibalo zibonisa, unyaka wokuqala wobomi bomtshato unzima kakhulu. Kungenxa yoko le nto sikubongoza, bafazi abathandekayo, musani ukulahlekelwa yile nto uyihambileyo!
Ukuze angabi nakumtshato uqhawulo mtshato kunyaka wokuqala, musa ukuphupha ukuba indoda ebixinene naye ngaphambili kwaye uyinyamezele, ayiqondanga ukuba ibe yinto efanelekileyo.
Waba ngumyeni wakhe ephepheni, kodwa ebomini bakhe yahlala ingumntu omnye. Kwaye ke, zama ukuqhubeka neengcebiso ezintathu ngendlela yokutshata kubo bonke ubomi. Yabela indima yomncedisi kunye nenenekazi eliqaqambileyo elithule, inkosikazi ethandekayo kunye nomntu othandanayo ngonaphakade. Lungelelanisa zonke iindima - kwaye ke umntu akasayi kufumana. Kubalulekile ukuhlala unyaka wokuqala yonke imihla ngokungathi uphupha ngomtshato.