Izolo Uhlwayele ingoma edumileyo ye-Mlindava no-Apina malunga nobuhlobo bomfazi wokwenene, kwaye namhlanje kukho ukungaqondani ngokupheleleyo kunye nokungakhathali. Awukaze uthandane nendoda enye kwaye ungalwi nokuba kukuphela kwebala lemfashini kwintengiso, kodwa izizathu zokungqinelana kobudlelwane obunobuhlobo ngaphezu kokuba kuthathelwa ingqalelo.
Ngaphezulu komhlobo osenyongweni kukhanya imeko ye "Eks-", isuswe ngonaphakade, ikushiya ngokupheleleyo. Kodwa umsi ongenawo umlilo akwenzeki, endaweni yoko kuhlala kuhlalutya iimpazamo ezinokwenzeka ezinokuthi zitshabalalise imvakalelo eqaqambileyo. Ukuqokelelwa kwamabango aqeshiweyo ngequbuliso kuyavela ukuba ubuhlobo bube kuphela, kwaye intombi iqokelele amabango akho, ungabizizalisi ukukhwaza ngokuvakalayo. Izinto ezingabalulekanga kwilinye icala zajika zaba lusizi komnye. Umzekelo, uhlala uphela ezintlanganisweni, thatha ifowuni kwifowuni yamashumi amabini, nxiba imali, ulibale ukubuyisa ityala. Uluhlu lwe "izinto ezingabalulekanga" izinto eziphumelele ubungakanani, kwaye ukuxhathisa kunye nogcino lomonde wentombazana kwaphela.
Abanye abantu baneentloni zokuthetha ngokungahambi kakuhle, ezinikezelwa ngumntu osondeleyo, ke ubudlelwane buqalisa ukuzinyathela ngokuthe ngcembe. Akukho mntu ufuna ukujonga ngathi yi-rugi yonyawo. Ithontsi lokugqibela lihlala liyinto encinci, emva kokuba iyeke ukususa izithende zentombi yangaphambili ziya kuviwe. Itshintshe uluhlu lwezinto ezinomdla. Ngamanye amaxesha iminyaka emininzi yobuqhetseba ubuhlobo butshabalalisa umdla omtsha ongena ebomini. Ngequbuliso, intombi yaba yinto engumntu othandabuzekayo, kwaye ufumana iimveliso zeprotein. Okanye umhlobo uthathe isigqibo sokwakha umsebenzi onqabileyo, wagxotha ikhulu lendawo yesihlanu yabahlobo kuluhlu lwemidla. Kukho utshintsho olwaneleyo lomntu wamaqela ukutshabalalisa ubuhlobo. Imixholo yencoko incitshisiwe ngokwenyani, ikhefu ixesha elide lihlala litsiba umhlobo wakho othandekayo, nasentlokweni yentloko yabanqolobileyo 'kwaye ndinokuthetha ntoni? " Imvakalelo enkulu enobuhlobo igutyungelwe nge-pelvis yobhedu, kuba iimfuno zamaqela zikwiindawo ezahlukeneyo. Umona
Umona uneentloni ukuqaphela, kodwa imvakalelo engalunganga ikhona, igutyungelwe zizisiphatho ezimnyama. Eli zwi liqitshayo likhumbuza ukuba umhlobo kuluhlu oluthandayo umyeni onothando, igumbi elinamagumbi amabini, umsebenzi onomdla, kwaye ubhala kwinethiwekhi "xa ususa i-boss yomnye umntu kwaye uzoyila ngokuzolileyo umphathi owenzakalisayo. Umfanekiso omuhle otyhidiweyo otyhidiweyo udla ngokubethwa, kuba ubomi bomntu ngaphandle kwegumbi kwindawo yokuqhekeza ngokungxama ngenxa yokungabikho kokukhanya. Imeko ihlala yenzeka kubuhlobo. Intombazana yentombazana isenokungonwabisi enzonzobileni yomphefumlo okanye nje yokufihla ukungoneliseki nobomi. Kodwa umona ugqithisile yonke into. Intombi ayinyamezeleki ukwenza impumelelo yokwenyani okanye yokuqinisekiswa komhlobo, akukho ngcinga azisebenzi.
Ihlala isusa into ecaphukisayo, ekhangela ubuntu obuphumelele ukufumana ubuntu bokufumana i-bubbits kwimvelaphi yabo. Kukho ukhetho olunesibindi lokwenza ingxelo ngqo malunga neemvakalelo zakho kwifomathi "uyazi, ndiza kukutoyikisa, kodwa kuyabiza kakhulu." Emva kokuqwalaselwa okuvulekileyo kweengcinga ezingathandekiyo, kuya kuba lula ukujamelana nohlaselo lweemvakalelo ezimbi. Imbali yobuqhetseba bujongwa iminyaka, amadoda nenani leenyembezi. Eli lilinye nje, isalathiso sokugqibela sihamba ngokukhawuleza kwi-infinity. Wonke umntu unemihla emibi, kodwa uyasilela kasixhenxe ngemini. Umphathi uyahamba, abazali bayancamathela, iitawuli zaphuke, ikati ethandekayo yaphula i-PAD emhento-isizathu sokuba ityhutyha ibhakethi yethutyana. Intombazana yentombazana sele iguqule izixhobo ezimashumi mabini, kwaye ukuhamba kweenyembezi kuyaqhubeka.
Kunzima ukuhlala enyamezela izikhalazo nezikhalazo. Iluncedo onomdla onyanisekileyo kwimicimbi yomhlobo. Ngaphandle koko, musa ukumangaliswa ukuba ukhumbule ngonaphakade. Yenza indlela Othanda ngayo wonke umntu ukuba ufundise, akhulule icebiso. Oyena mhlobo ulungileyo ufumana isabelo sengonyama seyona miyalelo ibalulekileyo. Ngokubhekisele kwindalo engenakukwazi ukukhetha, ukuba yeyiphi na ienwele ukuze ukhethe, yeyiphi na into ekufuneka ihlangane nayo kunye nendlela yokufihla iikhilogramu ezongezelelweyo. Iingcebiso azinikelwanga kububi, kodwa zisabela - ukuphendula - ukungabi nabubele obumnyama ngohlobo lwengxabano kunye nokuhlulelana. Kuyavela into yokuba intombi ayifuni ukutyeshelwa, ngokungeyomfuneko kwaye i-tolstoy ithelekiswa neyona nto ilungileyo njengawe.
Kungcono ukunika ingcebiso xa bekubuzwa ngokwenene ngokujonga ubuchule kunye nembeko nokuba nabantu abasondeleyo. UkwiCaribbean, kwaye wena - eSochi, umcimbi ophekisayo wenzekile: Eyona ntombi ibalaseleyo itshintshile imeko yezemali, ichuma kwezemali. Oonobangela bokugcoba okungekho sikweni ukushiya, jonga iziphumo ezibi. Ngoku awonwabanga nomhlobo, kuba ufumana "ukungakhubazeni" izinto zakho. Ibonisa ityhubhu ye-Lipstick entle, kwaye ufumana ukucaphuka, unika isipho esipholileyo- kwaye ukhathazekile, ukwenzela isenzo sempendulo efanelekileyo.
Kunzima ukugcina ubudlelwane obulinganayo xa butshintsha imeko yezixhobo zabahlobo. Kuya kuthatha isitokhwe sobulumko nomnqweno wokugcina ubuhlobo. Intombazana kufuneka iyeke i-balavia kunye ne-busry, wena -Ukuya kufunda ukuba ungaphili, ungakhathazeki, woyike ukuba ubonakale "ukubonakala" kwisalamane. "
Ubuhlobo buyinto enzima kwaye inomdla. Yena, njengothando, enza ukuba abingelele, alungiselele amakhonkco abuthathaka kwikhonkco lobudlelwane. Abanye bavavanywa, begcina ubuhlobo beminyaka, abanye bayazivelela. Ukukhetha kuxhomekeke kubulumko kunye neminqweno yamacala omabini.