Imiboniso yeTV yeTV okanye amanqaku amaphephancwadi rhoqo alale ngengcebiso malunga nokuba yintoni i-Romantic. Kodwa inyani yile yokuba ukuba ususa iiglasi ezipinki, ke loo ndlela yokuziphatha iya kuba yinto entle.
1. Iqabane elinomona - iqabane elinenkathalo
Kwakukhangela ngokukhawuleza i-axiom enye: intanda ayisiyopropathi. Ungumntu ozimeleyo onobomi bentlalo, ngaphezulu kweyakho.Ukuba iqabane lisoloko linomona, uye wakhubeka ngesiqingatha sakhe sale 'wahlukile "ubomi kuye. Kwaye le ngxaki kunye nengqumbo ayikho kwaphela inxulumene nothando. Oku kubangelwa kuphela kunye nomnqweno wokulondoloza iqabane "ngokwalo." Eli hlakuna linekhwele liyindoda efuna ukwahlukana nomntu omthandayo. Ufuna umhlaba wokusondelelana kwakhe ukujikeleza kuphela ngeenxa zonke kuye, ngaphandle kwendawo yabahlobo okanye usapho.
2. Akukho mida-uphawu lokusondela
Okokuqala kufuneka uqonde ukuba ubukho bemida. Ngapha koko, olu luhlu lwesakhelo sento endiyithandayo kwaye ungawuthandi umntu. Oku kunokubandakanya zombini iintshukumo kunye namagama. Hlonipha inkqubo-sikhokelo yomntu-kuthetha ukubanakho ukumamela iqabane lakho ukuba kungenzeki into engathandekiyo kumntu osondeleyo.
Kwaye akukhathaleki ukuba ingaba lo mboniso weTV uyangqina, amanqaku aneengcebiso okanye izihlobo, isikhokelo kubudlelwane (nkqu nakwizothando) zibalulekile. Ngokwemvelo, sithetha ngemvumelwano ngokudibeneyo malunga noko kwamkelwa kubo bobabini.
3. Ukungqubana okungapheliyo komdla-uphawu lwenkanuko
Olu ngcelele lwamanqaku, iimovie kunye neencwadi zazibonisa umbono wesibini esitshatileyo, ethi lonke ixesha silwa, ikhefu, emva koko iphinde iphinde iphinde iphinde iphinde iphinde iphinde iphinde iphinde iphinde ibuye. Kutyholwa uphawu lwe "Chemistry" phakathi kwabantu: Abakwazi ukuxabana, kodwa bangekhe bayeke ukutsala omnye komnye. Olo lwalamano luhlala luchasa ukuzola kunye "nethenda", ehlala ixhasa omnye komnye. Obo bomi kule meko kufuneka bube boneke, kuba abaze babe neengxabano.Okokuqala, akukho sibini esinye, esingenalo imbambano kwaphela. Okwesibini, rhoqo ukulandela ungquzulwano lomdla kunye neqabane labo akulunganga. Ngokwemvelo, ayisiyonto yokuba awuzange ungcelele ukuphikisana neqabane lakho. Akunakwenzeka ukuthwala intonga kwaye wenze ngalo lonke ixesha.
4. Amaqabane akhubekiweyo kakhulu, kuba basondele kakhulu omnye komnye.
Kukho inkolelo eqhelekileyo yokuba abo bantu bakufutshane ngabo banokulimaza kakhulu. Oku kunokuba yinyani. Ekugqibeleni, umntu osondeleyo kuwe, kokukhona wayengamalungelo awaziyo ukuba ngawaphi amagama aza kuba nawo. Kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba luphawu lokusondela ukusasaza amagama afanayo.
Mangaphi yonke into yabona indlela izibini ezitshatileyo kwiTV, ezithi, njengoko zazindazi ngokugqibeleleyo, zabulala amaqabane abo. Kutyholwa, yonke le nto ithethwayo kwimvakalelo yeemvakalelo xa abantu bengakwazi ukuzilawula. Kodwa inyani yile nto banokulawula intetho.
Kufanelekile ukucinga ngale nto: Nabani na ukhe waziva umonde, zombini ngokunxulumene nentanda yakhe nabasemzini. Nangona kunjalo, xa oku kusenzeka, ngesizathu esithile akanqweneli ukukhwaza nxamnye nabo. Oku kukuzibamba, yiyo yonke loo nto.
Ezo. Thetha izinto ezigwenxa- ayisosiphumo sayo yonke inkanuko. Olu luphawu olucacileyo lwetyhefu.
Amaqabane atyhefu iyagcuma kwaye ahlambe amaqabane abo. Le yindlela yabo yokutshabalalisa ukuzithemba kweqabane lakho ukucinga ukuba ayilunganga ngokwaneleyo ukuba kunye nomnye umntu. Kwaye akukho thando malunga noku. Kubalulekile ukuba uqonde-ukuba wonke umntu uzama ukuveza kwimbonakalo yothando yingozi ngokwenene.