Isiqingatha sokuqala sobomi silinywa kwi-stereotypes - ukwenzela ukuba sizame ukukukhulula ngoncedo lwe-psychotherapist ngoncedo lwe-psychotherapist. Sicebisa ukuba sisindise abantwana bethu imali kunye nexesha, kwaye sizame ukukhula kwiindibano ezizidenge. Ngapha koko, akunzima kangako, njengoko kubonakala.
Ngepinki - ekunene, ngeblowu-ekhohlo
Ngaba ucinga ukuba intombazana yenza ukuba intombazana ibe sisiketi esipinki, kwaye inkwenkwe yiblue? Okanye ngaba amakhwenkwe angabiliki, kwaye amantombazana akakhweli imithi? Ngokuqinisekileyo bayayeka ukwenza oko ukuba bayathintela. Ukuthembeka, ungayinika intombazana inodoli apho ingananzala, kwaye inkwenkwe yipistol endaweni yehashe lakhe elithandekayo. Ukusebenza ngakumbi - ukukhusela intombazana kubugcisa bonke, kwaye inkwenkwe ivela kuyo yonke imihla.
Kwenzeka ntoni ukuba intombazana izakufezekisa amakhadi kwaye ikhe icofe iesile kwi-vottel, kunye nenkwenkwe, iNkosi ihlazo, ilungene nedoli. Kuya kuza kwenzeka ntoni kuye? Unokukhula ... Bawo!
I-thewotypes yesini yenye yezona zinto zingaqhelekanga kwaye ziyingozi. Sukumda umda umntwana ngesiseko seengcinga ezingengobuxoki amakhwenkwe kunye namantombazana avela kwindalo emibini eyahlukileyo. Akukho phando lulungileyo lwesayensi luqinisekisile ukuba ingqondo yendoda ityekele ekukhangeleka ibalulekile kwaye iphantsi kwengqondo, kwaye ibhinqa lililolo lokucoca kunye nokuhambisa i-pop.
Umdla ongaqhelekanga
Umntwana ngaphandle kokutsiba uvelisa iTriton, wakhela inkanuko yekhephu kwi-gulum kunye nentlanzi yakhe emnandi, kwaye kunyaka omtsha unxibe i-vampire? Umakhulu endaweni yeSkihar Burns Bram Stor kwi-Cottage, i-Wbbing: "I-Psychopapathis ikhula, ikhuthazi ..."?
Umdla olahlekileyo kunye nomehluko omkhulu kukuba umxholo "wobuhle" uzaliswe ngokuxhomekeka kwiminyaka yobudala, ihlala inyanzelisa abantu abadala ukuba bavale umxokelelwane ". Izilangazelelo zabantwana zibhengezwe azifanelekanga, kwaye umntwana ngokwawo uhlwempuzekile kwaye uphantsi kokulala kwibhedi yovavanyo lwentlalo.
Intsapho ingakhathali 'inyamakazi ilungelo ", kwaye ngenxa yoko kwaye umntu ongonwabanga, ongalindelekanga ukuba anike into eluncedo kuluntu oluluncedo. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, inkqubela phambili isusa imibono emitsha kunye nokuhamba ngemigangatho. Kwaye hayi kuwo wonke umnqweno wokuthobela imigaqo yokukuthatha kwaye ukhuthaze intloko ukuba uyafana nomntu wonke. Ngwevu, ukhathazeka, woyikisa.
Imidlalo eyingozi
I-Bonneres, ihlahla nge-Aqualing equleni, parachutes ezivela kumaphepha kunye ne-tarshwanking ngaphezulu kwe-cliff ... yonke ingozi kakhulu. Ingakumbi xa umzali ethula i-ndlest adokohlwayo kwaye ayalela yonke into - bonke. Abantu abadala kulula ukuthintela imatshisi, kunokuba uchithe iiyure ezimbalwa ukufundisa uvimba omlilo, kwaye ungabaqonda - thina sonke sifuna ukuba nje sisemva kwethu.
Kwaye nangona kunjalo oku kunjalo kakhulu xa kungenakwenzeka ukuba isebenze. Kuyinzuzo ngakumbi ukuyeka umlilo we-bonbore ngomlilo kwindawo ekhuselekileyo ukubonisa ingozi yesenzo kunokulahlwa kwi-umnwe yomkhenkce kunye nokufuna, kodwa umntwana ogudileyo. Musa ukuthintela, kodwa ukufundisa ukuya kwingozi kwicala lasekunene-nantsi isifundo esibalulekileyo ekufuneka sifundwe kwisizukulwana esinye.
Izakhono ezingenamsebenzi
Umzali uhlala ekholelwa ukuba umntwana ufanele abe sixakekile, uphuhliso. Ngenxa yoko, uninzi lwethu lukhuthaza ngokuvumayo isibakala sokuba kubekho ukuzisa izabelo kunye nokuzithethelela ixesha elichithwe, kwaye kubhekisa ekucekiseni iiklasi zabantwana abangenamsebenzi. Kwijika ngalinye, sifuna ukubona isandla somculi we-primitivist, kwikhekhe nganye yesanti - uyilo lomyili, okanye umyili. Kungenjalo, kutheni iyonke?
Konke oku kukomeleza ukuzithemba ukuba ungalinika umhlaba ngokwakho. Kwaye ayinamsebenzi ukuba iya kuba yinyoka yamaphepha esisidenge, ikholaji ye-sloppy okanye i-Matshi yenziwe kwiimbiza. Kubalulekile ukuba lentembelo yeyona nto umntwana wakho osentlungwini aya kukwazi ukuxhomekeka kwixesha elizayo. Kwaye ke ayiyi kujika ibe ngumbhali, othintela uthando olukhulu olwakoyika iminyaka engama-20 ukuba inikele kuye emhlabeni, ifoto engafezekanga, yona isisiseko esithile.
Okanye nokuba ayikhathali ubuhlakani. Oku akubalulekanga kangako. Myeke abhale ibali elibonakalayo kwaye azalise eyona mifanekiso ibalaseleyo ehlabathini, nangaluphi na iimeko zonxibelelwano nehlabathi ngolwimi lwakhe ziya kumzisa ulonwabo. Kwaye olu lonwabo yinto engenakoyikelwa nangayiphi na indlela. Ayinakho kwaye konke.
