Bonke abantu abanjalo, banokwahlulwa kuba ziindidi ezinemiqathango. Abanye babo balulungele ubudlelwane obukhulu, nabanye kuya kufuneka basebenze, kodwa kukho oku kunxibelelana nento ekufuneka uyikhuphe ngaphandle kokucinga. Kweli nqaku, malunga nokuxela, kunye nendlela yokubala.
I-tyran ecacileyo
Mhlawumbi ngolona hlobo lubalaseleyo lwamadoda. Ibhinqa liyamthemba, liyasebenza kwakhona kunye nokukhathalela, kwaye, kwaye, endaweni yokubonisa uthando kuye, kusebenza ifowuni kwaye ihlazisa. Lixesha lokuphosa i-stereotype "ukubetha" - inyani, yonke into ilunge ngakumbi Ewe, ngokuchasene noko, ukuba ingabakho kwaye nangakumbi ayihloneli. Khumbula ukuba kanye, ukuba umntu aphakamise isandla sakhe kube kanye, ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kuba ngamaxesha alandelayo, nokuba angayikhanyela njani.Akubanga soyike ukunxibelelana namapolisa, ungacingi ngendlela "ngubani oza kucinga ukuba" - impilo yakho kunye nentlalo-ntle yakho kufuneka ibe kwindawo yokuqala. Kwaye ungaze ukholelwe ukuba "oku akusayi kwenzeka kwakhona."
Indlela yokubala
Uhlobo olunjalo lwamadoda lwalunqwenela ukuthambisa ngokuhamba kwindawo ethe tyaba, ngamanye amaxesha kunye nezandla zokudubula. Enye into eyahlukileyo yaseTirana ibonakalisiwe kuba uthanda ukuyeka isiqingatha sakhe ngenxa yeentsilelo zakhe, nangona umfazi ebandakanyekile kule nto. Waphulwe ngumphathi-uza kudlala kwisiqingatha sakhe, wayengapheleli ngomhla wakhe - kwakhona uya kudlalwa kwinenekazi lakhe. Kwakhona, iTyras ihlala ingathandi xa umfazi wabo edibana neentombi zabo, abahlobo kunye nezihlobo.
Ungayifumana njani
Kufanelekile ukutsho ukuba ubudlelwane obunjalo abunakukhokelela kwinto elungileyo. Ngokungathandabuzekiyo, ukwahlukana neTeran yoyikisa- ukuya kulo mfazi ukuqala ukuphakamisa isoyikiso kwasemva kokuthintelwa okuncinci kwicala lakhe. Kodwa akukhathaleki, kufuneka uqonde nje ukuba loluphi uhlobo lwesihogo oluya kutshintsha ubomi, ukuba lenzekile - ngalo lonke ixesha kuya kuba nzima - emva kwayo yonke loo nto, iTiran, iya kubhalisa yiza kumsindo omkhulu ngakumbi. Ngokubanzi, unokuhlala uqhagamshelana namapolisa azokubonelela ngokhuseleko.I-Wielred Tyran
Ngaphandle kokufihla kwakhe, la madoda anengozi. Umsebenzi owuthandayo wokucinezelwa kwetyhefu-ubuqhetseba. Kumntu, kusenokubonakala ngathi ungaqhelekanga, kodwa abameli bomeleleyo besini banokuqalisa ukukhala, bavalelwe kwi-angle okanye benze enye into engaqhelekanga, ukubangela ubumnene, umzekelo, kwaye ufumane impilo, kwaye ufumane i-felt. Kuyahlekisa, kodwa kukho udidi lwamadoda afikayo engaqondakaliyo, kwaye ukuba uthethe ngayo, ingcinezelo ivuka kuyo.
Indlela yokubala
Ukuba emva kweengxaki, endaweni yokucombulula ingxaki, indoda iqala ukuzibandakanya, ingenalo ngokupheleleyo imvakalelo, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ide ikhala - ukuba le yenzeka rhoqo, ngaphambili kwento oyithandayo. Kwaye nokuba unetyala longquzulwano - indoda enjalo ayisoze izokucela uxolo kuqala, okanye iyenza ukuba inqabile.Ungayifumana njani
Ukuba uthando lwale ndoda lukhulu, ke ungacebisa ngaphandle kwe-hike kwi-psychologist, kwaye kungcono ukuya kuye ngesiqingatha sakho. Kodwa akuyi kuba lula ukwenza oko, loo madoda akatshisi ngomnqweno wokutyelela "uMozgopu". Kodwa kungcono ukuyeka nje ubudlelwane betyhefu, kwaye wenze kancinci ukuze umntu omthandayo akaphuli.
Umntwana wanaphakade
La madoda anjengobomi bobunganotshemtha abafuna ukuhlala ebuntwaneni - ngenxa yoko, abanakwenza usapho, kuba eso sizathu sokuba iingxaki ezisemsebenzini kwaye zinoluntu. Intsana yeyona ngxaki yabo inkulu.Ekuphela kwento abanomdla kakhulu kukuchitha ixesha lokuchitha ixesha kwaye ungakhathali nantoni na. Amadoda anjalo ahlala ekhulula nabahlobo, bayathanda ukuhamba ngeeklabhu zasebusuku, bahlale phambi kwekhompyuter kwimidlalo kunye nokudlulisa imali. Kodwa yonke into ekhathaza umsebenzi noxanduva lwabo yi-Akin kwi-akin kwi-busuku. Ukuba usazi isigqibo sokwenza umfazi isigwebo, emva koko ke ukuze anyanzelise uxanduva ngobomi bakhe ukuze afumane imali, ethandana, ngelixa ethanda zonke izibonelelo.
Indlela yokubala
Indoda enjalo ayikwazi ukuzinyamekela, kwanokoyika izigqibo ezincinci. Rhoqo basoyika ukubiza abantu abangaqhelekanga okanye embuthweni. Abakhathaleli ukunceda umfazi ojikeleze indlu, kuphela ukuba ngokwakhe akayiceli. Unxibelelwano nabantu lunikwa kakubi (ukuba ungadidekisi ngokuthambeka), kwaye kwakamsinya nje ukuba umbuzo uza emtshatweni, izama ukukhawulezisa ngokukhawuleza le ncoko.
Ungayifumana njani
Ayizukuthintelwa ngumsebenzi kunye nogqirha wezengqondo, kuba ngokunjalo ngokuziphatha kwabantu kungenxa yokuba babehluthwa ubuntwana babo, ngoko bazama ukubamba. Ingcali iya kunceda ukusombulula ingxaki kwaye ibeke yonke into kwiindawo. Olunye ukhetho ngumfazi ukuba ufuna ukusondela kwindoda enjalo, kuya kufuneka uthathe inxaxheba ye-mama kwaye ungakhathaleli kuphela, kodwa malunga nentanda yakho. Kukho enye inketho-kwinxalenye kwaye uhlale wabahlobo. Kuyahlekisa, kodwa kunohlobo lwamadoda okuhlukanisa kube lula, kwaye ngokwenene ngaphandle kweengxaki zihlala zingabahlobo.Unyana kaMamieneKin
Ilizwi likaMama la madoda. Nokuba umtshato wakho uhamba iminyaka eli-10, umama wam uza kubaluleka kuye. Nokuba unolwalamano oluhle nomamazala kwaye uyondla ezona mvakalelo zilungileyo kuwe, usafuna unyana wakhe ukuba aphile kufutshane nengubo yakhe. Kwaye apha, indlela, ingxaki inokuhamba ngomama wakhe, onokuba ngumsebenzi ofihliweyo.
Indlela yokubala
Kulula kakhulu ukuba uqaphele njalo, njengoko sele kwathiwa, uhlala enomakazi kuyo yonke into, kuyacetyiswa kuye, kwaye akubangathathu (wena nonina). Kwaye kwiimeko zempikiswano, yena nge-99.9% yamatyala asecaleni komama wakhe, engabi nako, nokuba icacile ukuba icacile.Ungayifumana njani
Ukuba uhlala phantsi kophahla olufanayo- kufuneka ucinge nzulu ngalo hambo. Ewe kunokuba yingxaki, kodwa kungenjalo ayiyi kwenza nantoni na. Olunye ukhetho kukwamkela nje kwaye bangenise ukuba umama wakhe uya kukhokelela ngobomi bosapho bakho. Gcina oluhlobo olunjalo kunzima, kodwa mhlawumbi, ngenxa yoko, ngenxa yoko ufuna le nto uyifunayo kwaye yintoni eya kuba ngcono, uncedo lwengqondo.
Ivila elinobungozi
Kwindoda enjalo, ibhinqa ngokuqinisekileyo liya kucinywa, kwaye lipheke, kwaye licoceke, kwaye okwangoku liya kusula umngxunya ebhedini. Akasoze aphakamise inqaku lakhe lesihlanu ngendawo ethambileyo lelona lize linenekabo laya eleliweni yakhe, ugqiba kwelona binzana lidinwe. " Inokuthelekiswa netywina, kuba Udla kuphela, ukulala kunye nexesha lamaxesha ngamaxesha ukuya emsebenzini.Indlela yokubala
Ilula kakhulu - uhlala evila kakhulu ukuhamba nawe. Akufanelanga ulindile izenzo ezithile ezisebenzayo, kwaye nangakumbi sisinceda. Uhlala phezu kwento yonke ivila.
Ungayifumana njani
Ukuze ngandlel 'ihlazeleni intlonipho enjalo, ayizukubakho inkoliso yokurekhoda kwindawo yokuzivocavoca- i-Hormone yeHormone yeHormone, eya kuthi isebenze ngakumbi. Kukumnqamle nje ukuba amtyhafise ukuba angabi lula.
Ungazama ukumfundisa ukuba asebenze ngokuthe ngcembe, esenza kancinci kancinci. Kwaye olunye ukhetho kukuthatha indima yomkhonzazana kwaye umkhathalele, yiza nokutsala yonke into ayibuze yona.