Ngokuqinisekileyo ngalo lonke ixesha kwaye nokuba siyintoni na isizathu, kodwa umbuzo uhlala uwufanele. Ngaphandle kokufumana umntu ukuba ufuna ntoni. Umntu othile uthi: "Abanye andifuni nto," bakhumbula abanye amaphupha abo, ekunzima kuye ukuba samkele (umzekelo, i-tattoo kuyo yonke ngasemva), njl. Azisoloko zonwabile ngezipho eziluncedo, kuba zifuna i-console yomdlalo, kwaye imali ikwayiyo inketho, kuba baya kuhamba. Ke usakhetha njani into abayifunayo?
Sabelana ngezinto ezinomdla
Ndixelele ukuba uhlala kangakanani uchitha ixesha nomyeni wakho okanye umntu? Kwaye hayi nje uhambo lokuhambahamba, oko kukuthi, ukuchitha usuku lokuthanda kwakhe? Siqinisekile ukuba ixesha elide. Mqelele iholide kwaye uchithe usuku olunye, kwaye mhlawumbi okuphela kwakhe kuye. Oku kuya kuba luhlobo lwesipho, kodwa kuphela ukuba awuyicombululi nto. Makawonwabele igunya lakhe. Ngokungaqwalaselwayo, uya kumkholisa kwaye ufunde amathuba amaninzi obunomdla. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, kunokwenzeka ukuba umntu athande ukudlala imidlalo, kodwa ekhaya kukho uluhlu oluyimfuneko. Kule meko, kufuneka uthenge le mali okanye unike ubhaliso kwindawo yokuzivocavoca. Uya kuyibulela ngokuchanileyo. Ukuba wayeyithanda imidlalo yevidiyo, unokumnika i-snoy godstation? Ngapha koko, thabatha izipho zamadoda ngosuku lokuzalwa okanye nayiphi na enye iholide akunzima kangako ukuba uyazi malunga nezinto azithandayo. Ngendlela, ukuba amandla emali akhawuleze anqweneleke, ke akufanele uphumle. Ayinyanzelekanga ukuba isebenze "ngeyona nto iphezulu". Ukuba umntu uthanda ukuhamba, kwaye akukho mali ininzi isipho, ke akuyomfuneko ukuba unike uhambo kwaye unyuke uye kwiityala, zimenzele iKhadi leScratch kubahambi. Apho uya kuba nakho ukubhiyozela onke amazwe kunye nezixeko ezazityelele. Ndikholelwe, uya kuyithanda ngokuqinisekileyo, kwaye uya kubonisa ukuba uyayixhasa kwaye uqonde.
Gxininisa ubudoda bayo
Into ongayenzanga mntu, kodwa uhlala engummeli wesini esomeleleyo, umkhuseli. Ke ngoko, akunyanzelekanga ukuba unike oko kuthoba isidima sakhe. Ungaze umnikezele umrhumo ofanayo kwiklabhu yezemidlalo ukuba akaboni umdlalo. Nokuba kukho naziphi na iingxaki ngokwendlela yayo yomzimba, ke kufuneka aziqonde ngokwakhe. Kwaye kufuneka uyixhase ngexesha elifanelekileyo. Kodwa ukuba akafuni, isikhumbuzo simthoba kuphela. Kwaye awuphumeleli?
Kodwa "izipho eziqhelekileyo" ziya kuxabisa ngokuqinisekileyo, kuba ziya kubona ukuba zipholile kwicala labo. Oku akuyi kunyusa kuphela ukuzithemba kwabo, kodwa kongeza iibhonasi ecaleni kwakho. Umzekelo, ikhithi ye-barbecue ye-whisky okanye i-poker ayizukuhlala ingabonwa.
Ukuba awazi ukuba ungahlala ntoni, emva koko fundele isigebenga sezipho ze-steep kwiivenkile ezikwiivenkile. Kukho into oza kuyithenga phakathi kokubini, kunye ne-connoissers yedigri, kunye nezahlulo. Kulula kakhulu xa uluhlu lweenketho lukhawuleza kwi-intanethi. Ewe, kwaye awuyi kufuneka ujikeleze zonke iivenkile zesithili, kungcono ukulungiselela isidlo esimnandi seholide. Ngapha koko, into, kodwa bahlala befuna ukutya.