Inkolelo enjalo ihamba abantu ukuba amadoda ayiyonto yonke into yokuba amadoda ayivuyisi inyani yokuba abafazi bababuza imibuzo - kodwa siqinisekile ukuba eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukubuza ukubanakho.
Kwizinto zethu sicebisa ukuba ufumanise ukuba loluphi uhlobo lwemibuzo ekufuneka icelwe ukuba itsale ingqalelo kwaye ibangele umdla.
Amadoda lale mihla akayiyo yonke inyathelo elithi "inyathelo lokuqala", ke ngamanye amaxesha abafazi kufuneka bathathe yonke into ezandleni zabo. Amadoda amaninzi, ngokuchaseneyo, abongile kakhulu ngamanenekazi anokuqala ukuthetha aze angene kwincoko. Nangona kunjalo, ukuze le ndoda inomdla kuwe, kufuneka wazi ukuba uza kuqala phi.
- IMIBUZO YOKUFUNDA-IMIBUZO YOKUGQIBELA. Buza, ukuba awukwazi ukudibana naphi na (nokuba uyazi ukuba ayiyonyani). Landela imbonakalo yakhe - amadoda ane-tinge yokuphuculwa kunabafazi. Buza ngokuthe ngqo, nokuba ukhululekile - abafazi abazizidenge bahlala bephumelela emadodeni. Buza umbuzo malunga nohlobo lokuqonda kwakhe - wayebona okanye i-kineette.
- Imibuzo ukugcina incoko. Ukuba sele ukwazi ukutsala umdla kunye nenzala umdla wakho wokunxibelelana, unokufudukela kwimicimbi enokukunceda ukwandisa umdla wakhe emntwini wakho. Umzekelo, mbuze ngomfanekiso wobomi bakhe, malunga nezinto azithandayo kubathandi basekhaya, malunga nohlobo lwe-cinema kunye neencwadi, ukuba ziyipende. Unokubuza umbuzo obalaseleyo - malunga nokuncama kakhulu ebomini okanye kwiindawo ezingaqhelekanga, apho umntu onxibelelana khona naye onesini esiwuthandayo, loluphi uhlobo alumkele kubudlelwane.
- Imibuzo ngokukhanya. Olu hlobo lwemibuzo lulungele iqabane, elisele likubudlelwane-kuba abo bafuna ukubuyela kubo ukuba bakhawuleze okanye bayikhuphe okokuqala. Buza umntu wakho ukuba, ngokombono wakhe, utsale kakhulu kuye, makancame yena. Into acinga ngayo ngawe xa ungekho kunye, zeziphi iingcinga ezimtyelelayo, leliphi icandelo lomzimba elimtsala kakhulu ukuba liluncedo kuye kubudlelwane.
Into ephambili ayoyiki ukubuza imibuzo efanayo. Yilahla ukuthoba kunye nobunzima, vumela umntu owukhethileyo ukuba akonwabele ukuzithemba kunye nokuncoma umtsalane wakho. Ewe kunjalo, akufuneki ulibale ukuhamba nemibuzo yakho ngenkangeleko yokuhendela kunye noncumo oluthambileyo, olungaqondakaliyo. Ukusuka kumxube ovuthuzayo, akukho mntu unokumelana.