Kunyangwe rudo ruzha rwunotungamira kumamiriro emufaro, achiperekedzwa nekunzwa zvakanaka uye nekufara, hapana chinhu chinogara chakanaka, uye kazhinji zvinhu zvese zvinopera nemanzwiro ekutambura. Hupenyu hwakanyanya EpaMerna kuti uzvishandise pakutambura nekuda kwekushayikwa kwerudo, rudo rusina kukwana kana rudo rusingagone.
Kana munhu ari murudo, anotanga kuzvinyengedza, uye anodaro vamwe: Oscar Wilde
Nei uchipa hupenyu uye ugoda munhu mumwe, kana zuva rega rega iwe unogona kunakidzwa nehukuru hwehupenyu, ipa rudo kune vese vanoziva, shamwari nevamwe vanhu, vasinganyanye kunzwa kwegodo, kusuwa kana kusuwa kana kusuwa kana kusuwa kana kusuwa kana kusuwa kana kusuwa kana kusuwa kana kusuwa kana kusuwa kana kusuwa kana kusuwa kana kusuwa kana kusuwa kana kusuwa kana kusuwa kana kusuwa kana kusuwa kana kusuwa kana kusuwa kana kusuwa kana kusuwa kana kusuwa kana kusuwa kana kusuwa kana kusuwa kana kusuwa. Kana mumwe munhu akafunga izvi, anofanira kuedza kudzidza zvakakura kubva pazuva rega uye teerera kumakirasi anotevera ayo achange aine dambudziko kana munhu "achipinda murudo."
1. famba uchitenderera nyika
Hapana chikonzero chekupotsa mumwe munhu kuti apotsa chero munhu, anonzwa kuremara kana kusurukirwa. Mushure mezvose, zviri nani kuenda kune iyo nzvimbo munzvimbo idzodzo kwavaigara vachida kushanyira, kana kuendesa bheji pamusoro pefudzi uye kungoenda "uko maziso anotarisa" kuti adzivise iyo meso ekudzivirira kushamisika. Ichi chimwe chezvinhu chaunogona kuita muhudiki. Munguva yekufamba, iwe unogona kudzidza zvakawanda nezvetsika, tsika, chikafu nezviuru zvenzira dzakasiyana dzekufunga kupota pasi.
2. Funda Mitauro
Iwe unogona kutora nguva yangu yese yemahara nemabasa anogadzira zvechokwadi, izvo zvisingazobatsiri mune ramangwana iri mubishi, asi zvakare kugadzirisa basa rehuropi uye basa rekushanda kwenzita. Kudzidza kwemutauro mutsva kunogona kuve kwakaoma uye kuita sekutanga kusabvumirana, asi kana iwe ukaedza kuita, uropi hunotanga kutora pfungwa itsva uye zvichagadzira dzimwe shamwari kumashoko nemitsara yemumwe mutauro.
3. Chiyira makosi ayo aigara achida
Pasinei nebasa kana zera, hazvina kumbononoka kudzidza chimwe chinhu chitsva. Kana mumwe munhu achidaidzira kutamba kwemazuva ano, kubheka, nyeredzi kana kufungisisa kwechiBhudha, aifanira kusaina zvidzidzo zvekutanga uye pakupedzisira akaedza zvagara zvichikonzera kuda kuziva. Kana pakupera kwekosi inozoitika kuti kufarira hakuna kunyangarika, zvinogona kupokana kuti munhu akanyatso kufumisa hupenyu hwake.4. Edza basa rekuzvipira
Uye zvino kwechipiri tichafunga kuti nguva iyoyo yose yave kushandiswa pahukama hwapfuura, nematambudziko avo ese uye kusanzwisisana, aigona kushandiswa, semuenzaniso, kubatsira avo vese vevose vanozvida zvese. Semuenzaniso, wadii kuva chiremba wepasi rose, kubatsira vanhu pasi rese kana munzvimbo dzekupokana. Iwe unogona zvakare kufamba nekutsigira zvirongwa zvekuchengetedza zvemamiriro ekunze, chirimwa chirimwa chiri kukura, kuchengetedza mhuka dzesango zvinotyisidzirwa nekunyangarika kana kushanda mune dzimba dzemhoteredzo.
5. zvizere kuzvipira kune ako ezvekuita kwako
Chokwadi vamwe vanhu vaifunga kuti vaigona zvakanyanya mune imwe nzvimbo, semuenzaniso, mukutsoropodzwa kwefirimu, mimhanzi kana mimhanzi. Uye zvirokwazvo ndizvozvo. Kunyangwe zvikaita sei kuti uve wekutanga, maitiro chete uye kutsungirira zvinogona kushandura munhu mune iyi nyanzvi mune chero ndima yeruzivo. Uye zvinotora nguva yakawanda, asi zvese ndezvechokwadi.6. Svika pakuziva vanhu vazhinji vakasiyana
Hapana chikonzero chekuenda kune imwe kuguma kwenyika kuti usangane nevanhu vazhinji, imwe neimwe ine nzira yayo yepfungwa, zvirongwa, pfungwa, etc. Zvichava nyore kuwana kuti munhu wese ndiye akasarudzika nyika , uye chii chekubatana nemumwe munhu zvinonyanya kuoma kupfuura zvaungafunga. Saka zvichaita kuti uwane maonero akadzika uye akakosha epasi.
7. Kuti uzive
Zvinonzwika chete, asi kuita kuzviongorora chaiko uye kudzidza zvakawanda nezve iwe - izvi zvinongova zvinhu zvinodikanwa nezve izvo zvinokanganwa munharaunda yanhasi. Kuziva zvaunofarira, kupindwa muropa, pamwe nezvinhu zvese zvakashata zvinokanganisa hunhu hwako, kwete kubatsira chaizvo vanhu vatinoda kuve navo, asi zvakare tichabatsira kuita sarudzo dzakarurama uye, pakupedzisira, farira.
8. Shamwari
Kana munhu akazviona iye anenge achimutsigira, hukama hushamwari hunowanzo kupera, uye nguva idzodzo dzekunakidzwa, kuyedza uye zvavaishandiswa nevanhu, vavaishandisa nguva zhinji, vava zvishoma kana kungopera. Zvakakosha kunakidzwa neshamwari dzavo, kukosha kweushamwari uye nguva dzese idzo kana iwe uchikwanisa kunakidzwa uye kufara pasina kudiwa kwemumwe wako.
Izvo zvinobva zvaitika kusurukirwa - iyi yakanaka nzira yekunakidzwa nehupenyu. Naizvozvo, zvese zvehupenyu zvinofanirwa kuonekwa sezvazviri, uye edza kuwana nguva dzakanaka mune zvese.