Ndichiri ndega ndichichema kuti nyika yemhuri yaparadzwa, vamwe vanotaura kuti anovhunduka, achipindura matambudziko enguva, uyezve kuti mhuri yataimbofunga nezvenguva yekurehwa uye zvekare, panguva imwechete yakaonekwa panzvimbo imwe yemhando yemhuri hukama.
Pano zvingave zvichikwanisika kutanga munhoroondo munhau, asi isu hatizodaro. Izvi zvakapfuura kubva kwatiri hazvizoregi, zvakanyanya kunakidza kugadzirisa zvinokurumidza kuchinja zviripo. VaCociologists pavanotaura nezve rudzi rutsva rwemhuri, amai vevamwe amai vasina murume nemwana vanouya mundangariro, imwe - yeRuchidzai, yechitatu - imba yakaenzana. Asi pane imwe mhando nyowani. Yaoneka nekuda kwekupararira kwekurambana. Zvino kurambana kwacho hakupedze kwete nekuda kweumwe neumwe, iye aimbova nevaroorani kazhinji, otsigira hukama hwakanaka nemumwe, uye iye oga mai nababa vemwana vanowanzogara padzimba mbiri, vazere rudo ruzere Vese vabereki uye hushamwari hwehushamwari nevanun'una nehanzvadzi dzakasarudzika.Takakumbira vakadzi vana kuti vataure nezve kuti mhuri dzadzo dzakabva kubva vaviri vaviri nevana vavo rirarame sei.
Moscow
Ini nemurume wangu takarambana makore matanhatu apfuura, makore mana apfuura ndakaroora, ipapo akaroora. Tine vanasikana vaviri pamwe naye (makore 11 kusvika 9), kumukadzi mutsva wekare mwanakomana (makore masere), isu tese tichifunga nezvevana vatsva mumichato mitsva, asi hatisi kuona mukana wemari. Ndipo apo vana pavanenge vachikura uye ivo pachavo vanozoita basa, neimwe nzira vanopa zvavanoda, ipapo, zvimwe, uye vatanga.
Vakuru vese vane hukama hwakanaka, kwete kuti rudo-rudo - rudo uye hushamwari ndihwo hushamwari, tinongozviona semhuri hombe, uye kunyange vabereki vedu vakajaira. Izvi hazvireve kuti tinogara pamwe chete: uye dzimba uye mabhajeti isu tine zvakasiyana. Vasikana vangu vanopedza husiku pakupera kwevhiki, zvakakwana ipapo vanoshandisa nguva nehama dzakasanganiswa (iye asina "Svondo Dzedo" kwete).
Isu tinobata mazororo ese pamwechete (tendeuka pandiri uye ini ndine), isu tese tinogona kubatana kuti titsigire mumwe munhu kubva kuvana kutaura, mumakwikwi emitambo. Murume wangu akagadzira mune zviitiko zvakadaro kupfeka izvo zvigunwe zvakafanana, zvinoita sekunge isu tiri boka rako rezvevana vevana. Vana vanoenda kune mamwe madenderedzwa (kushambira, AIKIDO uye modeling ivhu) uye ramba uine hushamwari. Zvichida mhuri yedu hombe inowanzo kuve neushamwari kupfuura namaitiro angu. Zvichida chokwadi ndechekuti isu tinorarama pasi, uye vabereki vangu nehanzvadzi yangu - kune mumwe mugumo weMoscow.
Rosostiv-on-don
Takarambana nemurume wangu kwapera makore gumi apfuura, tine mwana, ane makore gumi nematanhatu) uye vana vanobva muchato matsva (ndine mumwe mwanakomana, ane makore 7, ekuzvarwa kwemwanasikana, ane makore mashanu). Mhuri dzedu dzese dzisina kurongwa, pamwe mune ino kesi, asi zvaive nyore kuti isu tigamuchire kuti tiri kune rimwe degree kune rimwe hama. Uyezve, takakurumidza kuwana kuti zvinobatsira - kuchengetedza hukama hwemhuri. Kutanga, isu pamwe chete nemurume wedu wekare aive imba yekugara; Hatina kuigovana, asi masimba akajairika aibvumidzwa uye akazorora muzhizha, kusanganisira mumwe chete, kusanganisira mwanakomana wemurume wangu wandiri kubva kumuchato wake wekutanga (ane makore 11).
Kana iwe uchitungamirwa nehupfumi hwehupfumi, zvinozoitika zvakanyanya. Chinhu chikuru ndechokugovera nzvimbo dzemutoro, kuti dzisabetserei, dzichitevera mukicheni, semuenzaniso. Isu, sekutanga timu, taurirana zvese, nekukurumidza kusarudza kuti ndiani uye chii, uye zvese zvinoenda zvakakwana. Patakawana kuti muzhizha, pakurasikirwa kwekutenga kwekutenga nekubikira chikafu, isu tinopedza mari shoma, takasarudza kuita chikamu chekutenga kwegore rose, muhuwandu. Uye zvakare, dzimwe mbatya nematoyi kubva kumwana kuenda kumwana, zvakaringana uye nehupfumi. Mwanakomana chaiwo pakupera kwevhiki haabvi kwandiri kwete kubva kuna Baba, asi kushanyira ambuya uye sekuru nasekuru - vabereki vangu, vanomuda zvikuru. Mwanakomana wangu wemurume wangu mazuva ano, achiteerana, achavata usiku. Vana vanowirirana pamwe chete, kunyangwe musiyano wezera remakore quadric kuti vabatwe. Asi vese vanonzwa kuti vane mhuri, vanhu vavo vanogara vachitsigira, zvakakosha.
Kiev
Ini ndaive nemurume akaomarara, asi ini ndinokurumidza kuburitsa hanzvadzi yake uye hanzvadzi dzemhuri, ivo vese vakazaruka, vanofara uye vane hushamwari, kusanganisira vabereki vehama yemurume wake uye muzukuru wangu. Nemurume wangu, isu takarambana zvakanyanya, uye ini handisati ndanyatso kudhonza naye, uye haamubudimani kuti ataure nemwanasikana wedu (makore matanhatu). Asi mushure mekurambana, hanzvadzi yekare yakati yakabva yangodaro kuti ndigare shamwari yake naamai vomberi vake uye vaizomufara kana ndikafara kana ndikagara ndichiramba. Uye hanzvadzi yekare uye mhuri yake yese yakatibatsira uye kutibatsira, kwete mari chete (ini ndaneta, ndakaroora kuroora, ndakatanga kugara nemwana - ipapo hapana dzidzo futi), asi zvakare.
Isu tinowanzoenda kune mumwe nemumwe kushamwari, isu tinorarama padzimba dzemukati, tinobatsirana kubuda. Tine kudya kwemanheru nemwanasikana wangu pamasvondo ipapo, kudya kwemanheru uye amai vake naamai vake naamai vake vanowedzera, vachienderera mberi nekuita izvi, vanokurukura nhau idzi. Anenge mwedzi miviri yadarika, ini ndaive nemukomana, uye akagamuchirwa kwazvo, dzimwe nguva anopinda kuti ndishanyire mhuri yehanzvadzi iyi kwevhiki yevhiki. Kwete mune chero mhuri hombe kuve yakanaka, ini ndinofunga, asi mune hushamwari uye kufara, seizvi - mufaro chaiwo. Gore rakatevera, vanasikana vedu vanoenda kuchikoro pamwe chete, tinoda kuvanyorera mukirasi imwe.
St. Petersburg
Tine nyaya isinganzwisisike kazhinji. Murume wangu aimbova murume uyu aimbova shamwari dziri nani, saka vakaroora, mumwe makore mashoma vakadanana nevamwe vese vakadzi, ndiko kuti, murume wangu wekare akaroora mukadzi wekare wemurume wangu iyeye. Pakutanga, mamiriro ezvinhu aityisa, nguva dzose dzakanzwisiswa, asi zvobva zvashandiswa neimwe nzira dzakanyungudika pasi, kurambana uye kurova. Uye ivo vakaziva kuti hatidi kurasikirwa mumwe nemumwe, nekuti isu vese vakanaka vanhu vanofanirwa kurapwa.
Muwanano yekutanga, isu takanga tisina vana, ikozvino takave takabereka takabereka mwana, ndine musikana, kumukomana wangu wekare, ivo vanenge makore matatu. Isu tese tinogara mune imwe yeyadhi, uye nekukurumidza nemukadzi wemukadzi wangu akachinjika kuti atarisire vana, zvakapa mukana wekuzorora. Varume vakangochinjika kubika. Mukuwedzera, isu tinoita chikamu chekutenga pamwe chete, semuenzaniso, katsi dzedu dziri nyore kutenga chikafu muhuwandu, zvigadzirwa zviri nyore zvakare uye zvakachipa kutenga mapato makuru. Kana vana vakura, isu tinoronga kuenda kuzorora pamwe chete kumwe, saka zvinofanirwa kunge zvakachipa. Vabereki vedu vakashamiswa pakutanga, asi vabereki venguva yangu yazvino uye vaimbove vashamwari kwenguva yakareba, uye vakadzi vangu vekutanga vakasarudza kuti nyika yakatetepa pane kupokana kwakanaka, uye nekumwe kusimbiswa uye ne isu nevanhu vese. Ivo havagone kutibatsira zvikuru, uye isu tichiri nachowo.
Gore Idzva Isu tichazosangana nhungamiro: Ini, murume wangu, murume wangu wekare, mukadzi wangu aimbove (iye aimbove murume wangu) nevana. Muchokwadi, ichava gore idzva rekutanga, iro mumwe nemumwe wedu asasangana kwete mumhuri yevabereki. Ndinovimba izvi zvichave kutanga kwetsika yemhando yemhando yemhuri. Dzimwe nguva tinobvunzwa kana tikasaramba tichirara nekare, asi isu takaronga kwenguva refu nehukama, hatiburi isu. Hatisiwo vamwe vanhu uye tinoda kuti zvirambe zviripo.
Chinyorwa chakagadzirira: Lilith Mazikina