Campu kunze: Mashandisiro andakaita Amai Akanaka

Julia Xianto - amai vechidiki uye Dowla, vane mavara pamusoro pekuneta kwehunyengeri (akabata zvakakwana) Isu takaburitswa nguva yekupedzisira, uye akafambira mberi nezviuru zvekugovana. Uye chinyorwa ichi chine chekuita kuti vasikana vanozvityaira sei muakingi, vachiedza kuva amai vakakwana. Uye nei zvichikuvadza kwazvo kuedza kuve vakadaro. Iko hakuna kunaka. Kanganwa iri izwi.

Munguva yemimba, hongu, vaitenda kuti zvese zvaizove kwandiri sehunyanzvi hwekuzvara kwemwana nemhosva uye mubereki. Kuberekwa kuchava kuremedza, nekukurumidza, "kwezana rimwe". Pakarepo rusununguko mucheche pachipfuva uye ucharara kwemakore maviri mukumbundira. Uye hongu, kune mumwe nemumwe mutsvuku - zvakare mazamu, uye hapana pacifiers. Uye isu tichafamba muchifuramire nehafu pazuva, uye hazvo mune iyo scarf! Kuti uwedzere ... Uye apo paakanga uchiri mberi maawa akawanda akareba kurwa uye fenzi. Vachiridza mhere uye kurwadziwa. Kuzvarwa kwakazova kwakaoma, kwete pasina muChirungu, kuda kuberekwa mwana kunonzi "vashandi" - basa. Uye mwana wangu paakazvarwa wanga zvakanaka, zvechokwadi aive nemufaro mukuru "wakasungirirwa" pachipfuva chake. Ndizvozvo chete, kana kuti pane, chipfuva changu chaive chisina kugadzirira chokwadi chechokwadi, uye manheru ezuva rekutanga ndanga ndichifamba kubva pakurwadziwa kwekupaza. Ipapo ikoko kwakatevera mwedzi wese wekugadzwa kwekuyamwisa uye zvakanyanya, misodzi yakawanda nemeno anoyera panguva yekudya.

Vhiki shanu zvese zvakapfuura, uye kudyisa kwakava mufaro uye kushamwaridzana kwakakosha, asi zvaive zvisiri nyore kwatiri. Ini ndangorega kukanda mapfumo pasi nekuti ini ndaive neruzivo uye ndisingachareki kutenda mandiri uye kutsigira nharaunda.

Uye moms mangani asina kana imwe? ..

Uye pazuva rekutanga rehupenyu hweMwanakomana wangu, kumaawa matatu mangwanani havana kumira zvakanaka uye kurwadziwa uye vakaburitswa kunze kwekona yemumwe munhu akapiwa nipple. Saizi ye "12 m +", chinhu chakakura chousabha, icho chisina kuperekedza mumuromo mangu haana kumisa mucheche akasarudzika kuti aende. Asi izvo zvaakange achiyamwa uye pakupedzisira akarara. Uye isuwo, takareruka uye tinogomera zvishoma kupomerwa.

Takabva tatidzidzisa mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro kupa kuyamwa chigunwe chako kuti tirege kupambadza kubatwa, nematambudziko edu nekuyamwisa zvaive zvakakosha. Asi .. kubatwa kwave nani, matambudziko acho nekudyisa akakanganwika. Matambudziko nekurara kwakamutswa kunge chando chechando.

Mumwedzi mina, ndakaedza zvakare kupa nipple (yatove muhukuru, hongu) yekurara, uye mwanakomana wangu akangoerekana atanga kurara, nekukurumidza uye nyore nyore. Uye kurara kwenguva refu. Takabvunza uye takasarudza kuti tsinga dzemhando dzemisodzi nemisodzi zvinonyanya kudhura kwatiri, uye ngavaswedesha pazviroto, asi isu tichararama tisina nyonganiso idzi.

Isu takanga takatarisana neguruva !!! Ndiani anopa nipple - akangoshanda! Ehe, hatimbofi! ... Chaizvo kusvika husiku hwokutanga. Zvatakanga tiine mafungiro akanaka. Ndakati - takarara kwazvo panguva yekuzvitakura. Ah hongu, uye, chokwadi, hope dzakabatana ndiyo iyi yendarama muviri wechibereko chisikwa. Kwete, ini ndichiri kufunga kuti inotonhorera kwazvo kurara pamwe chete. Asi isu hatina kushanda. Kwemwedzi miviri yekutanga ndakanga ndisingakwanise kupa chikafu, ndakarara parutivi rwangu. Kubatwa hakuna kubudirira kubva muShoko zvachose, ndakarwadza zvakanyanya, mwanakomana wangu zvakare wakavhiringidzika uye nekutsamwa. Pukuta akagara pasi pesimba, ndokushandurwa zvinyoronyoro.

Iniwo ndakanga ndisingakwanise kurara kweanopfuura awa nemwana ari pasi pepadivi - zvese zvakapwanywa, ndakamuka ndikamuka uye kumuka uye mwanakomana wangu.

Mukuwedzera, ini ndakanga ndiine postpartum autoimine tyrotid (iyi idanho rekurwara), uye chimwe chezviratidzo zvake ndeche kushaya hope, matambudziko nekurara uye kurara zvakanyanya. Zvakanaka, iwe wanzwisisa, hongu? ....

Mwedzi wekutanga wemwanakomana akarara pakati pedu kana kubva pamubhedha wepombi. Asi isu takatamira kune yakakwira kureba kuti tirege kupa Mwari kuti tirege kunetseka uye kwete kumuka. Ipapo, paakamira akarara masikati mumutsara mumutsara wekumutsiura (uye ndakanga ndichine boobs panguva iyoyo, kupa vese vakarara pamusoro pangu pamusoro, dumbu kuna Jehovha dumbu.

Ndakaverenga, ndakavata pasi, tauro, ndokurara - zvese zvaive zvakanaka. Uye manheru, akatanga kurara pakarepo muzvidimbu zvake neparutivi rutivi rwakabatanidzwa kudivi rangu remubhedha. Mumasendimita makumi mashanu kubva kwandiri, asi zvakadaro zvakasiyana. Uye ndakatanga kurara husiku, zvimwe neimwe nzira. Mumwedzi mina, akange akarara mune yechiBrib uye masikati. Uye akarara ipapo zviri nani uye akareba, akakwenenzverwa, murima uye nerurukine ruzha. Uye ndakanga ndine yemahara, yangu pachako, nguva.

Saka isu takazvipira nehope dzakabatana, mimbi uye zvifeve. Zvakanaka, nezve slings. Ndaipfeka nemufaro wangu katatu nehafu kana makirogiramu mana emufaro mumwedzi wekutanga mune scarf. Kamwechete pasvondo. Ipapo mwanakomana akangoerekana atanga kuyera kilos katatu, uye ini ndangowana yako jaira neusina simba, kudedera maoko, kupenga, uye dumbu rinorwadza.

Uyezve, mwana iyeye haana kufarira kuve achinetsa, akabva atanga kuchema nekubuda, uye ini - ziya uye kutya. Dzimwe nguva inovhurika yakakombama kuti akakurumidza kudzika mumugwagwa, uye dzimwe nguva akagara pamba. Kushaikwa kamwe kamwe kwakava kuparara nemhete. Nekukurumidza, nyore, nyore. Asi zvadaro ... zvisere kwete makogiramu emicheka nemhete, pabendekete rimwe nerimwe kupfuura kuchitoro? ... Kazhinji, ndakazova nhare chaiyo uye tinoshanda slingoma kana takura kune dzimba.

Uye mashanga, izvo zvandakasarudza uye ndakatenga mune nhumbu ... kunyepa, kwakanaka. Nguva pfupi yadarika, zvisinei, ini ndakatanga kuzvitazve uye kudzidza kupfavirira - chirwere chakatsauka, mwana akakura ndokutsungirira. Asi mabhureki achiri kusarudza kwedu mune 95% yezviitiko. Uye Baba vanovapomera nemufaro.

Iwe haufungi, ini handigunun'una. Kana zvandinofunga kuti mai vangu vakatadza. Kwete, ndinoziva zvechokwadi kuti ndiri amai vakuru kumwanakomana wangu. Iye akanaka, akadzikama uye asina kugadzikana mwana.

Uye kunyange pane kudaro - ndinofara kuti zvese zvakaitika kwandiri. Kuti uwane chirwere chevana, vakanzi "Kuda" Kukwana "zvachose kwakaramba kwakapfuura.

Isu tese tinoita sarudzo yedu, yakanakisa yezvazvinogona mune imwe neimwe mamiriro.

Mumwe mukadzi anozosarudza kumirira kubereka kubereka kuti akunde, uye mumwe - "akazviisa" kune vanachiremba mumavhiki 42, nekuti panjodzi dzaro hadzatenderiki. Zvese zvinogona kunge zvine rombo uye kwete. Yechitatu ichaita Kesariya akarongwa pamavhiki makumi matatu nemasere, nekuti ane chirwere cheshuga uye pelvic fungidziro. Chechina pamwe chete neicho chichava chakamirira iyo yekutanga yekutanga yekubereka uye kunyengetera.

Chishanu chinobvuma kuyamwisa kare mukuzvarwa kwezuva rekuzvarwa, "kuitira kuti murege kushivirira," uye wechitanhatu - paCesarea chikamu chevachinjika, nekuti "iyo Ultrasound yakaratidza kutuka." Ivo vanoteerera yakanga isiri munhu wekupa ruzivo ruzere, ratidza mhinduro dzekutsvagisa, hug uye kubatsira kutora sarudzo yavo. Vakanga vasina sarudzo iri nani pane kubvumirana nechikumbiro chouchiremba. Kwete.

Mumwe munhu anofunga kubereka kumba uye ari oga, uye mumwe munhu anonzwa akachengeteka muchipatara chehuma, akakomberedzwa neboka renyanzvi. Njodzi dzekutanga kuti dzive "zvakasikwa kusarudzwa", wechipiri - akabatwa nehasha. Ivo vaviri, zvisinei, pane mikana yakanaka kwazvo uye zvakasarudzika kubereka.

Vamwe amai vachatenga chinyararire stroller, imwe yacho haina kuderedzwa kupenya. Yechitatu ichatenga gurenushku kazhinji - Akaverengawo kuti kupfeka mwana pachako kunobatsira pakukura kwake! Zvingangoita ergonomic kupfeka pakanga pasina izwi uye iye haazive izvo zvinoitika zvakasiyana. Iwe unonyatsofunga kuti mumwe munhu anotakura mwana mune zvinokuvadza zvakananga, achiziviswa nezvekukuvara kwemucheche? .. Ndiani achauya achibva kuchipatara chehunyanzvi hwatove ne pacifier uye hahuparidzi makore maviri kusvika maviri, mukuenzanisa zvakakwana uye pasina anoyamwa. Chipfuva. Uye mai veumwe havangambomurova pahasha, asi havangabudisi mukuyamwisa. Kupfuura zvese, zvinoitika.

Mumwe mukadzi anozopepa kubva pakutanga mitemo yekutanga muchina, achikurudzira murume wake patsva, uye imwe inorarama munyika kwausingakwanise kushanda mwedzi mina chete mushure mekubereka mwana. Uye kana ari amai vasina murume? Mwana wake achaenda zvakachengeteka kune vakachengeteka, nekuti anofanirwa kushanda, uye vazukuru vachiri vadiki uye ivo pachavo vanoshanda pachavo, uye kazhinji hapana mamiriro ezvinhu munyika, uye hazvibviri kurasikirwa nebasa. Mhuri yemukadzi mumwe ichange iri nzwisiso uye kutsigira, yakagadzirira zivo nyowani uye yakavhurika pakukurukurirana. Amai vake vachauya, vabuda, bika uye tora mwanasikana sezvazviri. Amai naAmai-mukwasha vanozorima uropi hwayo hwese hwezvisingabhure mvura, haripi pipi nenyama, hazvirume uye hazvitore muwiricheya. Uye kana mukadzi achifanira kukurumidza kushanda kana, Mwari anorambidza, enda kuchipatara, uye ndega kune imwe nzvimbo yekutarisa muhomwe yemwana? .. Mumwe nemumwe wedu anogona kunge aine zvikonzero zvavo zvechinangwa chedu Kuti mumwe munhu angaita sezvisina mhosva.

Zvirwere zvako, zvepanyama uye pamweya. Zvakakomberedza, kuomarara uye kwete kunzwisisa. Kushaya ruzivo. Mamiriro ezvematongerwo enyika munyika. Kushaya rubatsiro. Vamwe vana vanoda kutarisirwa uye hanya. Kufa kwevadiwa. Matambudziko epfungwa.

Kuongorora uye kushora mumwe mukadzi kubva padivi - une chokwadi here kuti iwe unoziva mamiriro ese? ..

Ndiye uyu mai vese - anozviitira zvakanakira iye nemwana wake, anokwanisa panguva ino chaiyo. Haana kuve amai vakaipisisa nekuti akasarudza chimwe chinhu, uye kwete izvo zvingadai zvakasarudza iyo "yakanaka" amai.

Makore maviri gare gare, mumakore gumi, nemumwe mucheche, uye kunyange murume wake, anogona kusarudza chimwe chinhu chakasiyana zvachose. Asi panguva iyoyo akagadzira chinhu chakanakisa chinogona. Zvandaive ndaziva.

Iwe, saka imi, hungu, imi! Iwe, amai veichi mwana! Uri kuita zvakanaka! Iwe uri amai vakanaka nekuti iwe haupiwe, haupi kupetana, usacheme nzara, uye kunyange kupfeka mumamiriro ekunze ako. Iwe unomuda zvakanyanya, umuchengete uye ita zvakakura zvekuti iwe unogona, nekugara kwake zvakanaka, hutano uye mufaro, zvakadaro? Zvese! Zvakwana. Iwe ndiwe amai vakanaka! Huya pamusoro pezvinyorwa. Iwe hauzombove amai vakanaka, asi zvakashata zviri nyore kana ukasamira kufanirwa nekufunga. Iwe uri seni. Uye mwana wako akakusarudza kudaro, akauya kwauri. Iye anoziva zvauri mukati uye iye anokuda chaizvo. Kana - pamwe naye uye naye.

Kuva iwe pachako ndicho chidzidzo chakakosha kwazvo chaunogona kudzidzisa mwana. Usapfeka masks, usaye "edza."

Chokwadi, izvi hazvireve kuti iwe unofanirwa kugara pane sofa, kuti ubate fodya uye upindure zvirevo zvese: "Zvakanaka, hongu ndiri panguruve!". Kwete. Vandudza, dzidza, gara uchiedza nekuvandudza iwe nepasi rose - izvi zvakare mwana anozodzidza kubva kwauri. Asi iwe haudi kuzvienzanisa nevamwe. Enzanisa newe yapfuura. Iwe unoziva here nhasi kwemashoko matatu zvakanyanya muChirungu pane yekupedzisira Muvhuro? Kirasi! Vakadya zvepipi zvishoma zvishoma? Super! Iwe ungadai usingakwanise kupinda mukukurukurirana kwemukuru weanoshanda naye? Gamba! Uye kana - kana uchigona kubereka mushure memaKesarea? Isu tinofudza zamu remwana wechipiri, kunyangwe paine vekutanga "pakanga pasina mukaka"? Ini handina kudzidza kusapwanya uye musozoparira kuvana? Wow! .. uye zvakangofanana. Uye vana, idzi diki dzekopi mota, ivo vachadzidza kubva kwatiri. Kusanganisira mufaro uye kugamuchirwa. Uye kutsvaga kwekunakirwa kweumwe munhu uye hakuna kumbobvira ndafara.