Vatori veMutori Gabriela Erman mumakore mashanu apfuura, mifananidzo yakapfurwa yevanhu vane vabereki, vese vari vaviri vabereki, vari voga, vachiri veLBTK, uye vane marudzi avo. "Amai vangu vane lesbian," anotsanangura kudaro. "Asi ini ndaida nguva yakawanda kuti nditaure zvinonzwika." Kuna Erman, maitiro ekuita kuti amai vake vaive "nguva inorwadza uye yakaoma."
Haana kujairana nemumwe munhu akaunzwa neine ngochani kana lesbian. Anoti, "Nyaya yacho yakanga iri taboo kunyange mumhuri yedu isina kujairika uye inobatanidza," anodaro. "Mwana mudiki akasangana nemanzwiro akafanana, asi isu takaramba hurukuro ine musoro." Pakupedzisira. Mifananidzo uye kubvunzurudzwa kwakaratidzwa muErman Erman "vana ava" vachiedza kuuraya kunyarara. Vana vevabereki ve "vasina kujairika kutarisisa" havasi vamwe "hypothetical", ivo chaivo, uye zvakajairika.Tariro, Rose muNew York mumhuri yemadzibaba maviri
Ini ndakakwanisa kuona mhuri dzeshamwari dzangu nababamunini nababamunini, uye ini ndaiziva kuti vanhu vane chimwe chinhu chinonzi amai, asi ini ndakanga ndisingakwanisi kuva nevashoma. Ini ndaifarira mhuri yangu yemazuva angu, kunyanya amai vangu, asi, ndichifunga kuti ndakakura sei, handinzwi kuti ndakatambura. Ini ndinofunga vabereki vangu vakaita basa rakanaka, richikura mukadzi akasimba kubva kwandiri, uye kana ari mubvunzo, kwandakabva - dzimwe nguva ini ndichiri kufarirwa, uye imwe nguva yakati isingakoshe.
Allison, yakakura muClucticut uye vermont naamai uye pamwe naye
Ndichangobva kuona kuti kushamwaridzana kwehutachiona uye ngochani kunogoneka muchikoro changu chitsva, ini ndaishamisa ... Zvaishamisa, kuziva kuti kune vamwe vana vezera rangu ... kuti vazivise kuti vanotsigira LGBT. Ini ndanga ndisiri iye ega aiziva Lesbian uye ngochani, uye yakanga isisiri muchivande wakasviba, izvo zvinofanirwa kuchengetwa.
Kerry, akarerutsa muNew Jersey Papa uye Amai, avo vakaziva kutarisisa kwake apo mwanasikana ari gumi nemaviri
Ini ndinorangarira hurukuro naamai vangu paakataura, sezvandinoda kugadzira mhuri nemumwe mukadzi. Pandaive mudiki kwazvo, ndaida kuroora nemusikana wepamusoro, saka ndati izvi: "Ah, takafanana naSara sei?" Uye iye: "Kwete, kwete sewe naSara."
Zack, Rose muNew York Undervation yeVaviri Vana
Mumhuri yangu, vese vari kugamuchira. Ini ndaive nematambudziko mashoma nenyaya yekuti moms maviri pane kuti uzviwane iwe uye, iwe unoziva, nemarudzi uye nyika.
Kuruboshwe: Paloma, akura muNewton, Massachusetts, mumhuri kubva kuna baba naamai vake, avo vakaziva kutarisisa kwake apo Paloma aive gumi nemaviri
Kurudyi: Aaron, anobva kuBerkeley, California, akakurira aine moms maviri uye, mushure mekurambana kwavo, zvakare naBeternather
Aaron: Moms angu akatiza pandakanga ndimwe chinomwe, nekuti amai vangu vekubereka vakadanana nemurume. Ndakaziva mhuri yangu yakasiyana nevamwe, asi yakanga isiri yakaipa mutsauko, yaingova mhuri yakakosha yemhuri.
Zach, akakurira muIowa mune maviri mom
Ini ndinofunga kuti mhuri yangu inotsanangurwa nenzira kwayo kwete seLGBT, asi semhuri. Ukatarisa kune uyo ari amai vangu, kana mhuri yangu yese, iwe uchaona kuti ini ndinodaidzira kuti momsbia Lesbian vaviri hapana kana maviri evashandi vepapa. Tsanangudzo idzi dzese dzeMams angu ndezvechokwadi.
Jamie, akakura pasi peChicago naamai vake uye nevaroorani vayo
Amai vangu nevabati varo vakarererwa, uye vazhinji vevakaroorana nevasikana vavo uye vasikana vari muhupenyu hwangu, kuti ndinonzwa sekunge ndakandimutsa vakadzi vazhinji.
Mako, akakurira muPennsylvania naAmai naBaba, avo vakaziva kutaridzika kwake kana mucherechedzo vakadzidza mukoreji
Baba vangu ndiro ngochani. Muchokwadi, ichiri mukuziva izvi. Ini ndinowanzofunga kuti baba vangu vaive ngochani kubva pakutanga kwenguva. Ini ndaigara ndichiziva kuti ndiri quir, uye zvinobatsira. Kubva ndichiri mudiki ndakaona kuti baba vangu vanovanza vakadzi vake chaizvo sezvandakaita, zvinoita sekunge kunoedza kuyambuka makumbo uye kusataurisa mukutaura.
Elizabeth akakura muBoston naamai naBaba, avo vakaziva ungochani paaidzidza mukoreji
Iye akati: "Inguva yekuti ndisangane nechiso kutarisana nadzo nokuzivikanwa kwangu," uye ndakabvunza kuti: "Uri ngochani?", Uye akati: "Zvakanaka, ndakanga ndisina ruzivo rwakadaro kuti ndive nechokwadi." Uye, zvinoita sekuti mazwi anotevera, andakatuka, aive achiti: "Baba, ndine chokwadi chekuti muri ngochani."
Johani, aigara muNew England naamai uye takagwinya nababa, avo vakaziva kutarisisa kwake apo Johane aive maviri, uye mumwe wababa
Nguva yekutanga pavakazotaura nenyaya iyi, ndipo paakatenga amai iri, "Iye anogara nababa pamwe chete."
Kuruboshwe: Moshe, Rose muNew York State ne vaviri amai
Right: Lauren, Great muKansas, Missouri, naAmai naBaba, avo vakaziva ungochani kuti ave 7
Moshe : Moms angu agara ari pedyo zvakanyanya, asi, zvirokwazvo, pakanga paine chikamu chakadai mukuyaruka, kana ndichivenga amai vangu. Iye zvino ari kwandiri - rutsigiro chairwo, rwaigara pedyo. Ndinomuda.
Lauren : Kwandiri, kukudzika kukuru ndiko kwaida kuti vabereki vangu vanokandirwa pane chokwadi chekuti baba vangu ngochani. Ini ndinofunga zvakanaka kuMwanakomana wangu, anokura nemana miviri uye haazive kuti pane chimwe chinhu chakakosha nezvazvo. Baba vangu havasisiri sekuru vake kupfuura mumwe wake, Mwanakomana ari kukura vese, uye vakaenzana zvachose muhupenyu hwake saakunda.
Vanessa, akakurira muVirginia naamai vake nababa, avo vaimuziva ungochani paaive 28
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Kwatiri uye hanzvadzi, manzwiro ainyanyofadza kuti takanga tarara kwenguva yakareba kupfuura kutarisisa kwevanhu.
Darnel, akarera muMenlo Park, California, vaviri amai nababa
Ini ndinogona kutaura kuti ndaigara ndakakomberedzwa neLesbian nguva dzose uye kwandiri yaive yakajairika. Ndine ndangariro isinganzwisisike, sezvo ini ndichiteerera mimhanzi para radio uye kamwe kamwe anoona kuti mutambi anoita kunge ari kuimba nezveimwe yebonde.
McCen, aigara muLine Spring Lake, Michigan, mumhuri yevaviri mom
Vanhu vanogara vachindibvunza kuti: "Vari chii? Zvinotaridzika sei? ", Uye ini ndiri, zvakanaka, ivo vanongova vanhu vamwe chete. Ivo havana kutaura zvinoputika kana muraraungu mureza pamhepo. Tine mhando yekufinha mupfungwa iyi.
Diana, akakurira muOsing, New York, naAmai naBaba, avo vakaziva ungochani pavakadzidza kukoreji
Baba vanoti kana ini ndisina kumufonera hurukuro, angadai achirarama hupenyu hwangu hwese, achihwanda tarisiro. Zvinoratidzika kunge afunga kuti haambofaniri kuudza chero munhu.
Lucas, akarerwa muGiwaesville, Florida, akakanda baba naAmai, avo vakaziva kutarisisa kwake paakanga ari gumi nemashanu
Idi rekuti amai vangu muLesbian, ndaigara ndiri nyore kwandiri, nekuti ndakanga ndakamutsa kuti ndakatora vanhu vese. Zvaive zvisina kujairika, asi kwete tini. Kana mamiriro ezvinhu aive akaipa kuna amai vangu, kana iyo lesbian yakaoma kuva kupfuura iye zvino, ndinofunga kuti ndaizoteerera zvakanyanya kurwira kodzero yake.
Karen, akakurira muSouth Oregon naBaba vake naamai, vaimuziva kutarisisa kwake apo Karen aive makumi maviri
Kuziva kwehupenyu muNew York kwakaita kuti ndigamuchire. Zvakava nyore kwandiri kuti nditaure nezvazvo. Kwandakakurira, hapana akataura pamusoro pevakadaro. Asi pano munhu wese, wandinoziva naye, ungochani uye munhu wese anotaura pamusoro peizvi nezvose zvakanaka.
Kunobva: Theatlantic.com.