Pakupedzisira, hukama hwako nomudiwa wako hwakachinja kuita nhanho "zvese zvakakomba," uye pamwe kunyange kuti watove wanzwa kupera kweMendelsoh. Kusiri kure nemakomo kuzivana nevabereki, vamwe vanombouya vanyori, kunyanya. Musangano uyu unoitika pamberi pako uye haupi rugare? Kana kuti iwe wakadzikama, unofunga zvine chivimbo kuti "kwete kuoma kuroora"?
Chinhu chikuru hachisi chekupamba chekutanga uye chakazotevera, nekuti gare gare, sekuratidzira kwematare, zvakaoma kwazvo kugadzirisa iyo yakasarudzika stereotype, zvakaoma kwazvo.
Saka, kune zvimwe zvinonyengera zvinogona kukuratidza mune zvakashata.
Urikuedza kutamba imwe mhando yemutorwa kwauri kuti ugowana masimba
Mune mamwe mazwi, hausi iwe. Favorite anokuudza kuti amai vake vanofarira kubika uye vanoremekedza varidzi vakanaka. Iwe uchakanda pakarepo keke kune chitofu uye chakakamisa zvakanyanya kuomeswa kwekicheni dzakasiyana siyana. Muchokwadi, iwe haufarire kubheka, kutenga zvigadzirwa zveSemi-wapedza uye unofarira kuraira pizza kuimba. Asi zviri nani kupaza mukeke kuti aratidze amai vanotevera amai kuti iwe uri musimboti unoshamisa uye unofarira.
Vanhu vese panhau interuitive vanonzwa kunyepa, uye kana amai vachiri mukuru, zvirokwazvo, vakangwara, muchakuunzira mvura yakachena mumabhiri maviri. Chokwadi, hazvina basa kubva pachikumbaridzo "chema chokwadi-chiuterus" nezvekukanganisa kwako, asi zvakare kucheka, kurwisa matarenda ekufungidzira, hazvina basa. Zviri nani kusimbisa masimba ako ose, pamwe, kune vakadaro. Kana iwe ukatenga keke rakagadzirira-rakagadzirira patafura, hapana chinotyisa chichaitika.
Usaratidza chero hanya kana kuremekedza vamwene.
Iwe hausi kufarira musoro wenyaya wekubereka dwarf chinchillas, uye hauvanze. Iwe uri munhu chaiye, wakavhurika, taura zvaunofunga, asingadi, ngaarege kutaura.
Iwe uchafanirwa kuzviberekera zvishoma. Munhu wega wega anofanira kuziva nezve kukosha kwake, anonzwa kuremekedza munhu wake. Ratidza kungwara zvishoma. Kuregererwa uye kutendeseka kwakanaka, asi mukati memiganhu inonzwisisika. Hapana chinotyisa hachiitike kana iwe ukaisa mibvunzo yakati wandei mimwe mibvunzo yakati wandei yauya kune yaunofarira yaunofarira. Icharatidza kuti hausi hanya naye. Senzira yechinyakare, ndapota oneke naro pamusoro payo pamusoro pemifananidzo yemurume wako anodikanwa mune zvinyoro nyoro. Panhengo iyi, iwe uchave uine chimwe chinhu chekutaura nezvemudiwa wako.
Iwe unokanganwa kukorokotedza vamwe-mukwasha nemazuva akakosha
Kwete chiratidzo chakanaka kwazvo, otomatiki anoderedza yako chiyero. Mazuva ekuzvarwa, makarenda matsvuku ekarenda, misi ine chinangwa, zvakananga, zvevamwari vavo mumberi - haupi kukosha uku. Zvinogoneka kuti amai vemudiwa wake, kushandisirwa kweimwe tsika kwakakosha. Kana iwe uchiziva kuti vamwene vako munguva yakapfuura vaive mudzidzisi, kunyangwe zvino zvichave zvine musoro kuti zvinomukomborera nezororo rehunyanzvi. Iye achaona zvaunofunga.
Rekodha kwete chete misi mikuru mu diary ine matsvuku matsvuku uye usakanganwa kufonera "kukwazisa kwechipiri".
Runyorwa rwako rwekuremekedza ruchaisa imwe mutambo pamwe. Uye chokwadi chekuti vamwene vanotungamira pauri "dossier" havagone kukahadzika.
Iwe unonyunyuta nezve mudiwa wako, senzira, yechokwadi naye
Iwe wave uri shamwari dzakanakisa dzevasikana vane dzidziso yemberi, govana zvakavanzika, enda kunotenga pamwe chete. Wadii kunyunyuta nezveMwanakomana wake? Zvinoitika iwe kuti usanyanye kunyatso, asi nemukana. Rangarira, chero kuchinyunyuta pamusoro pemwanakomana wake kubhuroka. Zvisarudze mumhino, moyo wemamongi unoshingairira kwazvo kutsoropodza kwevana vako. Uku ndiko kumutsa mukomana asina mhosva, akakwana. Kana iwe uchinyunyuta kana izwi rinoti, iwe unokurumidza kuenda muchikamu chevavengi.Hakuna kusekwa kubva kumubatsiri "Vladik pachake, dumbu rakadaro," uye zvichingodaro, pane rondedzero. Vamwene vachayeuka izvi uye vanokuyeuka iwe pese nyaya. Kana kuti pamwe unongofunga kuti uri shamwari, uye ivo vanounganidza kukukanganisa pauri. Iyi sarudzo inowanzo kuwanikwa apo amai vekunyengera kwemurume wake uye kungwara, uye vanofarira "chengeta vavengi vari pedyo kupfuura shamwari."
Unoda kuti waunofarira, akadzidza nezve majee ako anopenya kana huwandu hwevateveri?
Zvirinani kuchengeta rurimi kuseri kwemeno uye kumbira vamwene kuti vakurudzire, munzira dzose dzinokurudzira, iwe unotarisa, uchazviti, uchiti, uchikupa chokwadi chinonakidza.
Iwe unoedzawo edza kufadza, chaiko "kunze kweganda kukwira"
Nditende, maitiro akadaro maitiro anoonekwa kune wese munhu akatenderedza. Wagadzirira kumhanyisa musangano webhizinesi kuti utore vamwene vako muchitoro, yekutanga yakakandwa pamusoro pekumberi, kana amai vacho vachiratidza kudaro. Zorora pakupedzisira. Izvo zvinodikanwa kubatsira, asi kana zvikasafuratira pane zvako zvaunofarira.
Kana iwe wagadzirira kuve musikana pamabhururu, nezvekuremekedza vamwene kuti vakukanganwe. Ndeapi amai vanoda kuona padivi pemwanakomana wake, mukadzi mune isina kupisa uye yakapfava-ruva? Zvichida mumwe munhu anoda chidho chehupenyu, asi mufaro kwauri uchinangana naamai vangu mukwasha havazouye. Tichagara tichikwezvwa nevanhu vakasimba, vatezvimbisi avo vaizoti, ndizvo chaizvo hunhu hwakadaro hunoremekedzwa, kunyangwe kana munhu asingabvumirane kutamba kumimhanzi yetsika yedu.
Kazhinji, chinyorwa cheRigeon uye vamwene-mukwati vanofunga zvakawanda kwemakore mazhinji. Kana mubvunzo wasvika kuhukama pakati pevakadzi vaviri, zvisingawanzo kubva kuna iye waunogona kunzwa nyaya dzinofadza. Iwe unofanirwa kuzvidayira vamwene nezve iye wauri. Dambudziko diki re data ravo rinobvumidzwa, guruva diki reguruva riri muziso, asi kwete zvimwe. Kana amai vako-mukwati vakangwara uye vanozvikwanisa vanokwana, anokukoshesa chaizvo, achikuziva iwe kodzero dzese.
Kana iwe usiri rombo rakanaka, haufanirwe kugumbuka, nekuti mudiwa wako akada chaizvo, uye vamwene vangu ndivo, asi havangowedzerwe zvakanyanya nemurume wake.