Zvese zviri muchiedza ichi, zvinoitika pakati pevanhu zvinoita sekunge isu nekusingaperi. Mushure mezvose, uye muzana ramakore regumi nemashanu, mukadzi aida murume, uye mugumi nemanomwe - amai vakada vana vana, uye muvanhu vechigumi nemapfumbamwe vaive shamwari nemumwe.
Muchokwadi, chiratidzo chakadai, chokwadika, manyepo. Shoko rerudo harina kuchinja, asi iye amene akaita. Uye rudo rwezera reJapan reHayene rwaigona kukuvhundutsa mukurovera naye mukuita. Kunyangwe murudo rwevabereki zvino uye, semuenzaniso, makore makumi matatu apfuura, pane marudzi akasiyana-siyana ehukama. Nezve izvo zvinodiwa neruzhinji zvekuchengetwa kwevabereki zvinogona kunyarara zvachose. Asi isu hatizodaro. Isu, pane kudaro, isu tichakuyeuchidza kuti moms manganwanda mamiriri evasere - makumi mapfumbamwe kubva kuvabereki ve zero uye chegumi zvakasiyana kwazvo.Mwana Angarwadziwa!
Zvinoratidzika kunge zvinoshamisa, asi mukati mehuduku hwedu hwakazara hwevakuru muchichema, kupopota, kunetseka kwemwana nekurwadza kwekurapa kana kuti, semuenzaniso, kutambanudza kumatenderedzwa ekutamba uye nejira racho kwaonekwa semapoka uye whims vanofanira kukunda. Nekuti izvo zvaunorwadza, makaswededzwa! Uye munguva yedu, vechiFadiatrician vechizvarwa chitsva vanoti ruzha, kuti kana massage zvakanyanya kurwadza, haingangodaro chete, asi, pane kudaro, zvinokuvadza, zvinorwadza. Vazhinji varairidzi vanoramba zvakatsemuka maitiro ekutambanudza uye kuenda kune zvakafanana kune vakuru mune nzvimbo dzakasimba. Uye vabereki vakazotanga kunyaradza vana mushure mekukura kana humwe hunhu husingafadzi.
Tymiezochka
Isu tinoziva mutsara uyu wakanyatsoripo kwemakumi emakore uye uine muchetura hupenyu hweusina isu. Asi kupenga kwakadai kwakakomberedza chokwadi chiri nyore chemwana wechikadzi akange asati amboita. Mumakore makumi masere uye negumi nemapfumbamwe eTyshsotos, ivo havana kungoisa rudo rwemitambo uye kungoita kuti mitambo yemitambo, yekudaidzira, kurwa kwekupfeka madhiri uye kusarongeka kune pink, lilac uye lilac maruva. Pane vasikana vazvino, zvinoita kunge vakasimbiswa nemapango asingaonekwe.
Maonero ehutano
Vabereki paavhareji vakanyatsonaka nekuda kwehutano hwevana uye zvakanyanya kuenderera mberi mune zvinodikanwa zvekurapa, apo munhu anovharwa asati aona, naamai vake nababa vakatowana zvisinganzwisisike. Zvichida chikonzero cheizvi ndechekusaziva kuti kana chirwere chazotangwa, zvichaita kuti uwane kurapwa kwakajairika. Kunyangwe mune makumi mapfumbamwe pamupamhepo mushonga unotarisira zvakanyanya kupfuura izvozvi.Pelainka
Vabereki vedu vaitenda kuti mapere machena haafanire kubata mwana. Kunyangwe achirwara, kana chimwe chinhu chinotyisa. Uye nhasi riri kuwedzera kuteverwa nedare rePediatric kuti vadzivise kuiswa kwemucheka wepazasi nemubhedha wevana: Saka, ivo vanoti, ganda riri nani kufema mariri. Uyezve, iyo tarisiro mamiriro mudzimba medu zvakanaka uye zvakaoma mapoka, nekuda kwekugara kwekugara kwemucheka, hapachina zvimwe zvinyoronyoro mushure mekuoma.
Chirongwa chechikoro
Mumakore makumi masere nemakumi mapfumbamwe, vaitarisira kuti chikoro pachake chinopa zivo. Zvakanaka, pamwe unofanirwa kubhadhara mudzidzisi, kuti mwana azive mutauro wekunze uri nani kana kugadzirira zvidzidzo zvemabhiza kuti ubatane neyunivhesiti. Ikozvino kubhadhara kwevatongi kana madenderedzwa maererano neyakajairika chikoro kurangwa (uye kwete zvachose zvekudzidza zvakadzama!) Izvo zvinosanganisirwa mumabhajeti emhuri mazhinji, uko mwana ari madhiri kuchikoro. Nomuzvarirwo, nguva nemari pamatenduru emafaro zvinoramba zviri zvishoma. Vana vanofanirwa kuenda kune izvo zvekuita izvo zvinogona kudzidziswa pavhidhiyo paInternet, uye kushandira pamwe mumagariro network kugovera zvinoitika uye kuzvirumbidza mhedzisiro yacho.Chikafu
Iyo motto yevasere - mwana anofanira kudya zvakasimba. Muzina makumi mapfumbamwe, mwana aifanira kudya, uye kuti arege kugadzirisa chikafu. Iye zvino chinhu chikuru ndechekutora kushandiswa kwehutano. Chips mumaoko emakadhi ekutanga anokwanisa kukonzera migove yakawanda yakakomberedza. Kweminiti, vamwene vaamai vanofudza amai kweminiti vanotambura nekuzvikuka kwehana. Fungidzira nezve achiri kuyaruka, yakazara cholestrol yakakangwa huku, ichaita kuti fungidzani yekutsamwa. Chikafu chevana (uyezve, kwete zvachose kune vese vana vezera reNashnoy), zvinokwaniswa, zvakakurudzirwa muInternet. Asi hapana mumwe anokuomesa.
Kukurudzira
Vazhinji vevabereki vedu musimboti havana kufunga pamusoro penzira yakadaro yekudyidzana nemwana. Izvo zvinodikanwa - zvinoreva kuti zvinodikanwa. Iwe uchadzidza zvakaipa - iwe uchave muJustor. Iwe uchadzidza zvakanaka - iwe unozova mudzidzisi uye iwe uchawana semuchete, asi kushanda kudziyirwa. Uye haudi mbichana? Vana vedu vanoziva vanoita kunge vanongova vanodiwa. Eya, kureva kuti, zvakafanira kugonesa izvo zvinonyatsodiwa, uye kazhinji tsanangura chikonzero nei. Inotora nguva yakawanda uye simba, asi kunyangwe inoshanda zviri nani pane yekare kutyisidzira - kusvika kure chete kuti uzive. Masayendisiti akashamiswa kuti kushushikana kwechiedza kunobatsira kudzidza kwetsva. Chiedza, isu takati.Vana vane mafungiro
Hazvidikanwa kubvumirana naye, uye vazhinji havana kukurumidza kufunga, asi hazvisisiri kuramba sechokwadi. Mubvunzo "Hongu, chii chaungave uine mafungiro, mukirasi yechitatu?" - Cherekedza paudiki hwedu, asi, nerombo rakanaka, kwete mwana wedu.
Hapana kiyi pamutsipa
Mumhuri zhinji makumi masere emakore, vana makumi matanhatu nemapfumbamwe, aikura uye asati afamba achitenderera guta kana kugara pamba ndega, akanyarara cutla cutlets kana masangweji ane mararini uye shuga. Iye zvino paInternet, vabereki vanoti vana nemutemo havana kodzero yekusara vasina vakuru kusvika makore gumi nemaviri. Uye zvechokwadi, kuti vaone vane gumi nevaviri, vanyararire mumigwagwa ine mugwagwa mumigwagwa, zvakava zvakaoma. Kunyangwe mutemo uripo, kunyangwe zvese zvatinotenda mariri.
Nzvimbo yemunhu
Iyo nzvimbo yemunhu yevana ichiri kutyisidzirwa nevabereki pachavo, asi kazhinji, zvirinani inozivikanwa. Kuvapo kwekamuri yako kana kona yemwana kwakatanga kufungidzirwa kuti kunofanirwa kufungidzirwa - isu takanamatira, kwavakakwanisa, kazhinji vakaroora vane hama kana hanzvadzi), ipapo vabereki vakasvika ipapo vasina kugogodza uye unonetsa. Iyo para imba inotevera, ivo, zvinoreva, uye imbawo, takangopihwa ipapo kuti varere uye vagare. Kana tikikawana diary yemwana uye tikatarisa mariri, tichazotambudza hupfu hwehana. Diariari dzakatarisa kugadzikana kwevaverengi pakunyorera.Taura nezvechengeteko yebonde
Vabereki vedu vanoita sekunge vachitya kuti kana iwe uchinyevera nezve pedophiles, kushamwaridzana, nezve kuti zvese zvinoitika, sei kuti tinofarira kuita zvepabonde uye nekukurumidza enda panze muchifeve. Uyezve, kazhinji, kana chokwadi chekutakura kana kubatwa chibharo, kuvasikana vechizvarwa chedu uye kurapwa, sekurohwa kwakaomeswa, zvisinei nekuti vakakuvara. Zvakanyanya kufarira kunyarara. Isu takazoita kuti tirege kutarisisa kubva kune akabatwa pane chibharo pane chibharo (kanenge kana munhu akabatwa aive ari mwana wedu) uye, Mekay, achipa, achibhururuka uye kupusa, kutaura kwekudzivirira
Takapona sei?
Mubvunzo unodiwa kwazvo kuti ushamiswe muInternet uye dzimwe nguva iwe waunoda kupindura: Chishamiso. Iyo poindi haisi yekuti vabereki vedu havana kuedza. Icho chokwadi ndechekuti, chekutanga pane zvese, iyo Soviet Pedagogy yakatariswa mwana zvakanyanya kwete somunhu, asi seyekugadzirira kwevakafunda munguva yemberi. Zvese zvakakanganisika kubva pakugadzira maitiro emuvaki wacho ainzi sekondari, uye manzwi ari mukudzivirira kwehumwe hwekuziva kuti hauna kusimba uye kutya. Uye, chechipiri, vabereki vedu vaive pasina nguva. Muma1980s, vanaamai vazhinji vaiita zvavakawana. Kwete, kwete ponte jean uye tepi zvinyorwa, asi zvakakandwa zvakakandwa pane iyo counter: bhutsu, miriwo kana michero, muchimbuzi, uye hupenyu, uye hupenyu hwakawandisa kupfuura zvino. Kuseri kwemusha-kugadzirira-kugadzirira (zvese neruoko uye kubva pane zvakagadzirwa zvisvinu zvemidziyo!) Nguva uye simba kuvana hazvina kuramba zviripo. Pakupedzisira, izvi zvakabviswa kwatiri, isu takabatwa uye takapihwa. Muzvipfumbamwe, vabereki vaiita mupfuurire mhuri. Vanaamai vazhinji vava vasina kuroora, uye vazhinji vari "vashoma" uye vatengesi vemusika vane zuva rekushanda risingaperi. Isu takapihwa zvakanyanya sezvavaigona. Sezvatinoita iye zvino, zvichibva pamikana yedu yakawedzera uye matambudziko matsva enguva (matambudziko nedzidzo, semuenzaniso). Mubvunzo hauna kunyanyisa kuedza, mapenzi anomutswa ... Uye masayendisiti akatanga kutaura kuti vana "vanhuwo zvavo, semuenzaniso, njodzi diki yekufamba mune zvakasikwa kana mikana yakapa nzvimbo yekutamba, tsvaga mikana mitsva yengozi. Zvakawanda zvine njodzi kupfuura zvatinotarisira. Zvichida chizvarwa chinotevera hachizabvunze kuti "Vabereki vasingaiti vazotinyadzisa here?", Uye "Nei watitazunza?" Uye uuye kubva kune dzakawanda dzevakakomberedzwa edu uye dzinotyisa nzira. Ndiani anoziva.
Asi, nokutendeka, zvichiri zvakanaka kuti ikozvino mwana ane mafungiro uye nzvimbo yemunhu.