Kazhinji, vakadzi vanotsvaga kuroora nekukurumidza kuti vave pasi pekudzivirira kwemurume akasimba uye akavimbika. Izvo zvinongo "kufara", kunyanya imba yekutanga inoitika chaizvo. Uye zvese nekuti nekuda kwechishuvo "nekukurumidza", vakadzi vanokanganwa nezve chinhu chakakosha pamusoro pazvo.
Mutori wenhau Zoya Atiskova akaburitsa Runyorwa Rwakarodza Post Intiridzo Yakatemerwa Mazano / Vakarambana Vakadzi Vanopa vakadzi vasina kuroora. Iyi post yakave yakakurumbira kwazvo pakati pevakadzi - mumwe munhu anozvidemba kuti aisaziva nezvazvo, vamwe vanotumira rugwaro kuvanasikana vavo kuti varege kuuya kuzotora chirwere chimwe uye vakavaka hupenyu hwavo.
Izvo hazvidikanwe kuroora chete kuitira kutiza kubva mumidzi yemukati - zvakaoma kuwana wanano yakaipa kupfuura izvo zvinopedzwa pakuve mudiki kwazvo. Ipapo, kune rumwe rutivi, miganho icharamba ichiputsa miganhu, uye neimwe murume mudiki mitsva, uyo anofarira basa rake "remhuri."
Kutanga iwe unofanirwa kuzviwana muhupenyu huno "ndini ini" ndiri "," zvandinoda kubva kune chinangwa changu "uye chandichaenda mune chimwe chete chimiro - iwe unofanirwa kuzviziva iwe, simbisa zvaunokoshesa Uye tsvimbo yomukati.
Iwe unofanirwa kuedza kurara nemumiganhu yayo yose inobvumirwa. Iwe hausi kufara ivavo vakadzi chete ndivo vanongoziva chete varume "" "," kuvonga kwavakaodza moyo mubonde uye vachiramba vachifunga "mushure mekunge wangopfuura ..."
Iwe unofanirwa kutanga hupenyu hwakanakisa mumharidzo yako pachako - kurarama kanenge makore mashoma - Hungu, zvirokwazvo, makore angu, kwete kwemwedzi yangu, zvangu. Gadzirira chete zvaunoda iwe pachako, uye kwete cutlet "inonaka zvakafanana, saamai vake." Nzwisisa uye ugadzire imba ine mamiriro ezvinhu mukuravira kwako, uye kwete "mbichana ichamira pano, uye pano hove giya - bvisa muchina wekusona urege, unodzivirirwa pano."
Inofanira kudzidziswa kuzviremekedza, kuda kwavo uye mararamiro, uye kwete mumwe munhu. Unoda kushandisa manheru ekutarisa zvaunotevedzana zvaunotevedzana nekapu yetii inonhuhwirira? Munogamuchirwa! Uye usayedze kugutsa chishuvo chake, nekuti zvakangoerekana zvachinja, zvirongwa zvachinja, ini ndichauya kwauri izvozvi "kana" Ndiri murume, uyo unoreva izwi rangu mutemo newe, ini mukadzi, ndinazvo "kurega."
Rangarira, hapana mumwe wemukadzi wechiedza cheChido haana kuburuka - iwo akazara navo uye anokosha.
Nenzira, nyatsotenda kwete chete zvido zvako, asi zvakare kuzviziridzira. Rangarira kuti iwe une kodzero yakazara yechimwe chinhu chisingade uye kuti usazviita. Kana iwe usiri kuda vana izvozvi, kana kuti haudi kuenda kumusangano neshamwari dzake, kushanyira amai vake, kana iwe uri mupikisi wenyaya anal kana chimwe chinhu chakajairika uye chaicho. Iwe haufanire kuuya pahuro mangu uye ubvumidze, saka zvaigara zvakanaka. Kudzidzisa kuperetera kwakasimba "kwete" pasina kusangana nehana uye kukanganisa. Chii chichafunga kana kutaura vamwe matambudziko avo.
Ziva kuti basa rako pachako rakakosha kwauri kupfuura basa remumwe womumwe wako. Hapana chikonzero chekuvaka basa rimwe chete kune maviri, kunyanya kana iri basa racho. Iwe unofanirwa kudzidza kuitisa bhajeti rako pachako, usachengetedze zvakawandisa, asiwo usaparadzira nemari. Unyanzvi hwega hwega hwekufunga mari yaunoshandisa pamunhu uye kumutungamira. Hazvina kudikanwa kufunga kuti kana akabhadhara bhiri muresitorendi uye anofanira kunge ari ezvekuti ari kutendeseka uye zvino zvakafanira kubhadhara bonde - Aiwa! Iwe wakashandisa mari pane cosmetics, bvudzi kubvisa, kupfeka, shangu, nezvimwe. Uye zvese kuitira kuti uonekwe pamberi pake neunako - iye, zvakanyanyisa, kuveurwa uye kurota mweya.
Zviuru zvako - saizi yakakosha kwazvo! Kanda kunze kubva mumusoro wePfungwa yekuti "rudo ndicho chinhu chikuru chatinacho, uye ndichazvidzidzisa kuita zvepabonde uye zvese zvichave zvakanaka." Haazoiti!
"Rudo" ruchawa parutivi nekukurumidza sekusagutsikana kwebonde kuchapfuura zvese zvinotenderwa.
Dzidza kuda mitambo - kunyangwe ikasakara zvachose, ingoedza kutsvaga iyo ichafanirwa kuravira. Uye, hongu, gadzirirai chokwadi chekuti murume anodzivirira aya makirasi munzira dzose.
Paunenge uchinge wakasununguka - dzidza mumwe mutauro wokumwe. Zvino chinoratidzika kwauri kuti hapana nguva yakakwana - ndiani achinyatsotarisana nekushomeka kwenguva, saka uyu ndiye mukadzi wake uye mamaamai vachangobva kugadzirwa.
Dzidza kushamwaridzana nevakadzi uye kukoshesa ushamwari uhwu, nekuti ipapo kana nguva yakakwana ichauya muukama - ichabatsira chaizvo.
Kucherechedza nemaonero ako pane hupenyu. Nekuti kuvaka hukama nevaya vasingagovane zvakanyanya uye hazvigoneke, uye zvakatonyanya kuoma kuva nevaya vanomisa nyika yavo.
Dzidza kuda, kuremekedza uye kukoshesa muviri wako, tsvaga hutano hwako. Mune ramangwana, paanoda kuve amai nemukadzi wake - zvichauya zvakanaka.
Bvisa zvese zvimisikidzwa nezvechikwereti chevakadzi, nyata uye zvakadai kubva mumisoro yavo. Rangarira, iwe unofanirwa chete chirongo chandakatora chikwereti uye chero munhu upi zvake.
Ive neshuwa yekuzvironga wega nheyo yekuchengetedzeka kwemari uye usataure nezvake, kunyange murume / mukomana. Panofanirwa kuve nemari yakawanda kwazvo pane iyo bank account kuitira kuti vakwanise kukwana kwemwedzi mitanhatu yehupenyu. Izvi ndizvo zvakaitika kana iwe uchifanira kutora mwana mumaoko ako uye kupinda chero kupi zvako. Mhosva mumhuri dzakasiyana, uye dzimwe nguva dzinowira nekukurumidza nekukurumidza.
Usati waroora, iwe unofanirwa kuedza kuchena dzimba dzako pachako, uye kwete kuisa mari mubatanidzwa. Kana imba yacho yakatengwa kuroora - ndeyako chete uye yekurambana ichagara yako. Asi izvi "ngatitengeswe zvako, tora imba yakakura mumutengo," inogona kushanduka kuita matambudziko mazhinji.
ZARUBUBE pachako pamhino - kamwe pasi pemamiriro ezvinhu chero api, homutore zvikwereti zvevamwe vanhu, zvikwereti uye mamwe maLiglists. Mumigwagwa inofamba yakawanda yevarume vakarambana nemotokari, zvikwereti izvo zvinoramba zvichiramba kubhadhara vashati vavo. Asi kunyanya NAive MEDIA yakakwanisa kuzviitira chikwereti, uye mota pana "mudiwa".
Kana murume asingabvumire kuti iye mugove wakaenzana achatarisira mwana, kuti afambe naye porridge, enda kumisangano kuenda kuchikoro, kuti ndipinde mumhirizhonga, uye dzimwe nguva kuti amai vake inogona kugara nevasikana vari muCafe - hapana chekuita nemurume akadaro.
Pakutanga, murume anofanira kunzwisisa kukosha kweshamwari yechikadzi, kunyanya iyo inogara kubva achiri mudiki. Kana ari kuedza kusimuka pakati pako nemusikana - kumudzinga. Yeuka kamwechete kwenguva dzose, zano rakaipa kwazvo, sarudza iwe kuva varume vekare uye chaiwo sidelles, vanopindwa zvinodhaka uye zvavanoda zvezvinwiwa zvinopisa, zvisinei nekuti vanoratidzika sei. Uye chii chinonyanya kuda - kubereka kubva kwavari.
Kuti udzidze kuzvidzivirira - zvese zviri mumuviri, uye nenzira yepamutemo - vakadzi vazhinji vangave vanobatsira kwazvo.
Kuti udzidze kanenge kashoma kuziva uye kucherechedza hunhu husina-hunotaridzika muchimiro cheAltphony, Dafffodils, manipulors uye zvimwe zvipembenene pasi pemapoka evarume. Nguva dzose, iwe unonzwa, gara uchitarisa - usambofa uine njodzi yako pachako hutano, uye dzimwe nguva hupenyu. Uye murege kuti "arega arega kuteerera" kana kuti "kunzwa kwakarasika" - hutano hwako hwakanyanya kukosha kupfuura kunzwa kwake. Kanganwa nezve "mazuva akachengeteka" - manhamba akawanda pavari zvakadaro.
Muchisarudzo chekuzvara kana kutora kubvisa nhumbu - gara uchingotora maonero chete oga. Vana mune ramangwana vanogona kunge vasiri newe - kwaari hachisi dambudziko, anogona kudzima chero munhu. Uye panguva imwe chete inosimudza mwana, kana kamwe kamwe mudiwa achitya zvisungo, zvakare. Mutoro wese mune chero nyaya dzinowira pamapfudzi emukadzi, zvinoreva kuti sarudzo yekupedzisira inofanira kuitora.
Uye yekupedzisira, kusabereka mudiwa wako, nekuti Amai, nezvimwe. Usaberekere kusvikira iwe uchida kuva amai. Munhu mupenyu anoonekwa pachiedza, uye aberekwe naye chete kuti afadze mumwe munhu - zano rakaipa kwazvo.