Varume havawanzo kufunga nezvese zvavanotaura, nekuda kwezvavanotenga zvakakomba uye vanotuka. Uyezve, vazhinji vevamiriri vepasi vakasimba havazvione zvakakomba, vakafuridzirwa nekuomerera kuti havana kutaura chero munhu. Asi vakadzi vanoona mitsara yechirume nenzira yavo uye voita mhedziso yavo. Uye zvisinei nekuti varume havatsigiri sei nehasha dzakapusa pfungwa, mimwe mitsara iri nani kusazvizivisa, neimwe nguva yakaoma muhukama.
1. "Mukadzi anofanira kuteerera murume wake pazvinhu zvese."
Mukadzi anofanira kuita munhu wake munhu, iye anofanotaura naye iye. Zvese zvakanaka zviito, kutarisirwa uye kushungurudza kunofanirwa kuve kwechokwadi, uye kusamanikidzwa, kana zvisiri rudo. Munhu haafaniri kurayira mudiwa wake, kumumanikidza kuti azadzise mirayiro yake, achimuridza kana asingateerere, nekuti mumeso ake akakurumidza kutendeuka mumudzvinyiriri ane rudo. Uye mutsara uyu werccissist haazorangariri zviito zvemurume, asi chete uchangobuda mumukadzi uye kumuita kuti afunge nezvenyaya yekuti aive asiri munzira ine masimba ekudzvinyirira.2. "Vakadzi vese vakafanana."
Iyo inonyanya kufarirwa, benzi uye jasi reVakadzi mutsara. Kupfuura zvese, kana vakadzi vese vakafanana, saka nei murume akasarudza mukadzi akanaka, akashamisika, uye asiri iye ainomirira nguva dzose, ainyatsoda kunwa uye kufamba munzvimbo ine ruzha? Saka pane mutsauko? Uye pakuonekwa uye mune zvemweya, vakadzi vese vanosiyana kubva kune mumwe nemumwe, maererano nezvimwe zvakanaka uye hunhu hunhu. Kana murume asinganzwisise izvi, anofanirwa kufungidzira mamiriro ezvinhu apo mukadzi wake anotaurwa zvakafanana nezvake. Achave akanaka here? Zvisingaite.
3. "Unganzwisise chii, iwe uri mukadzi!"
Kana mukadzi asingade kuenda kunobata hove, tarisa bhora kana kuita gym, hazvireve kuti akapusa, saka haazombofi akakwanisa kuzviona. Izvo zvinogara zvisina kukodzera kuratidza munhu paupabonde, nekuti hapana zvido zvechirume kana zvechirume, kwese kune kunze kwezvinhu. Naizvozvo, kune vakadzi vari nani kupfuura varume vazhinji vakadzora mumishini. Uye kune varume vasingagoni kushivirira hove, nekuti vanosarudza kushandisa nguva yakawanda shingairira. Munhu wese ane zvido zvake uye zvaunofarira, saka haufanirwe kumupomera kana asina kunzwisisa chimwe chinhu.4. "Ichi hachisi chinhu chechirume."
Vamwe varume vanotenda zvakanyatsotenda kuti havana kugadzirwa kuitira kuti vashambidze pasi, vanogeza nguo kana kubika chikafu, nekuti hahusi basa rechirume. Asi, kana murume akaramba achizviraramira? Achabhururuka zuva rega rega muguruva uye tsvina, ine ndiro dzisina kuvharwa uye kutyaira mapepa nemapakeji kubva pane zvigadzirwa nekukurumidza kubheka? Mutsara wakafanana murume anongoruramisa usimbe hwake, kusachena uye maitiro kumukadzi senge dhishi. Heano maitiro uye haasi bhizinesi rechirume.
5. "Ehe, kana ndonzwa ..."
Munhu akanaka anogara achitsigira mudiwa wake uye kazhinji anomubatsira, achiwana kuonga kwake, rudo uye zviitiko zvekupindura. Asi haazomborururudze mukadzi pane zvaakaita kumakore mashanu apfuura, kunyangwe ichi chiitiko nenzira yakanyanya munzira yakakurudzira hupenyu hwake. Mushure mezvose, rudo rwechokwadi rwemwoyo wose rwunonzwa harude chero chinhu mukudzoka. Naizvozvo, kutuka kwakadaro pachikamu chekuparadzanisa, mukadzi anotora mumabhajeti, sezvo zvisingade kunzwa mhinduro hupenyu hwangu hwese, ini handidi kuti chero munhu anobva kune vamiriri vebonde zvakanaka.