Hazvizove nhau kune chero munhu anobatirana, mumweya wekunzwa kwerudo kunopenya kunowanzo kutsvoda. Kubva pakubata kwechiedza chemiromo yake kuenda kuChiyenzi kune Super-tre-Art French kutsvoda ... asi vamwe vakadzi havanzwisise maitiro ekuziva kana mudiwa achivatsvoda muhuma.
"Kutsvoda muhuma kunoratidza kushamwaridzana kwakasimba," anodaro Laurel Steinberg, chiremba wehunyanzvi, kiriniki sexologist uye Psychotherapist. Uku hakusi kwaziso kana kushaiwa simba rekukwezva, pane ichi chisiri-chidiki chidhiro chinoshatisa chimwe chinhu chakadzika.Ngatipei zvikonzero zvitanhatu nei munhu anogona kutsvoda pahuma.
1. Vaviri vane hukama hwepedyo zvakanyanya
Kutsvoda muhuma kubva kune mumwe munhu wadanana kutaura nezve chimwe chinhu chakasiyana zvachose pane icho chipfambi munzeve mumba yekurara. "Ndichiri kutsvoda kurwa nemiromo, kutsvoda kwepabonde, kutsvoda muhupfumi kunoreva kushamwaridzana kwehukama," anotsanangura Steinberg.
Ndokusaka vabereki kana vanasekuru nasekuru vatsvoda pahuma - ichi chiita chiratidzo chiratidzo cherudo rwepamoyo.
2. Partner anoda kutsvoda mweya
Muchokwadi, kune chaiyo nharo chaiyo kubva pane zvekutarisa maonero ekuona kuti nei kutsvoda muhupfumi kwakakonzera kupisa mukati. Kudzvinyirira uye kumanikidzwa kwemiromo yemumwe munhu pahuma kunomutsa gland yePrand iyo inosimbisa makemikari anokonzera mufaro uye kusimudza kwepfungwa. Iyi yemugodhi yemumwe musangano mukukosha inotsvoda pfungwa ye mudiwa, mazano aakagovana naye, uye iye somunhu, uye kwete muviri wenyama.3. Mukadzi kwete chete sexy chinhu
Hazvina basa kuti, iyi ishamwari isina kumboona kubva kuICithergarten, kana kuti murume mutsva - kana murume akatsvoda musikana ari pahuma, unogona kuva nechokwadi chekuti iye panguva imwe chete iye anofunga nezvake (kunyange zvakanyanya yakanaka) muviri. "Kutsvoda muhuma kunoratidza kuti mukadzi uyu anotariswa kwete chinhu chete," anodaro Steinberg. Iyi inhema, kwete nzira yebonde yemumwe wako kuratidza kunamatwa uye kuremekedza mukadzi wake.
4. Partnerwo anodawo kunzwa rudo
"Vakabatana vanowanzotevedzera maitiro akanaka avanoda kuwana," anotsanangura Steinberg. Achitaura, kana murume akatsvoda mukadzi zvinyoronyoro muhuma yake, anotarisira kuti achapindurawo rudo.5. Kukwezva kwepabonde hakupo
Kana iye mumwe wako achitsvoda muhuma, zvinogona kureva kuti kufarira zvepabonde muhukama kunoenderera mberi. Nekudaro, zvakanyanyisa kubatana nezviri kuitika pakati pezvese zviri zviviri. Kana musikana asina chokwadi kuti chii chiri kuitika muukama hwake, zvakakosha kuyedza kutsiva miromo yake pasi pekutsvoda uye kuona zvichaitika shure.
Kana iye mumwe wako akabviswa kana zvinoita kunge asinganzwisisike, inguva yekutaura nezve zvakaitika. Uye kana mushure meizvozvo izvi zvichizotevera kutsvoda kubva pahuma kubva kuhuma kubva kumubvunzo, zvinogona kureva kuti iye akapedza nguva zvakakwana, asi haadi zvimwe kubva kuhukama.
6. Partner "kupemberera kukunda", kutenda kuti ane rombo rakanaka kuwana mukadzi akadaro
Kana iwe ukawana mumwe wako ane zvakafanana manzwiro, iko chaizvo chiitiko chaicho, mushure meizvozvo pfungwa yekukunda inogona kuoneka.
Zvichida ndosaka mapikicha uye mes nekutsvoda mumuhupfumi ave achizivikanwa mu Instagram. "Kuve nechokwadi chekuti mumwe munhu anokufunga iwe uye mafungiro ako anokosha iwe pachako, kugona kukuru, uye vanhu vanodada kuratidza kuti vanogona kuratidza," anodaro Stainberg.