Vamwe vakadzi vari kuedza kuita murume kumwoyo chete kuburikidza nedumbu rake. Hakuna chakavanzika icho vazhinji varume, sezvakaita vakadzi, vanoda kudya zvinonaka. Saka, vamiririri vazhinji vakanaka zvepabonde vanofunga zvakanyanya kuti kana vanonaka kubheka, ipapo murume haazosiyire chero kupi. Ivo zuva rese vari mukicheni, vanotarisa macomputer mapfundo, bata anodikanwa nekufadzwa kusingazivikanwe.
Chaizvoizvo zvakanaka, zvakanaka, asi iyi haisi panacea kubva kusurukirwa. Edza kupa murume anorarama chete nedumbu rayo chete. Chokwadi, zvese zvaavo vainditeererawo kuti dumbu iri rinozadza sei. Pano, kune mumiriri akadaro wesimba rakasimba, hunyengeri uhwu hwaizokanganisa chaizvo. Asi murume, kwete mamwe amosh, anofunga nezvekudya zuva rese. Saka nei vakadzi vazhinji vachiedza kuchengeta murume nechikafu uye nemwoyo wose kufunga kana vachivakanda?
Kupfuura zvese, murume haafanire chete chikafu chinonaka, kunyange izvi zvakakoshawo. Ngatitarisei mukadzi anotenda zvakanyanya kuti nzira yemoyo wemunhu akarara mudumbu rake. Anokanda simba rese rekudyisa murume uyu kuti afe. Uye pakarepo kukanganisa kukuru, asi kwete kana mumwe.
Kutanga, iwe haufanirwe kubata murume nechikafu, uye chimwe chinhu. Nei uchimukudza. Haasi musungwa wevamwe? Varume havadi kana vachiedza kuchengetedza simba, ivo vanoshandisa matani. Ukama hwakadaro huchiri kukundikana pakutanga. Kechipiri, mukadzi anogadzira makuru okudya pane chinonaka chikafu, achikanganwa zvimwe zvinhu zvakakosha. Uye pfungwa ndeiyi: Kana paine chikafu chinonaka patafura, ipapo mumwe murume wacho achavhara maziso ake.
Anopedza zuva rese mukicheni, achikanganwa kubhadhara nguva yacho pachako uye nhamba yake. Kupfuura zvese, anofanirwa kuedza zvese izvi zvinonakidza. Pasina kuravira kwakadaro, hauzove akanaka chef. Mukadzi anongozvidya zvinodya zvinopfuura zvakajairwa.
Zvakanakirawo pano ndezvekuti: Culinary kuvandudzwa, chishuvo chekuita murume. Iyi nzira chete inofanira kushandiswa mune yakaoma kunzwisisa. Hapana chikonzero chekunyungudika mumurume uye nekurarama chete nezvinodiwa zvawo pakudya. Uyezve, mumwe nemumwe murume ane zvayo tsika. Haasi munhu wese anotora hunyanzvi hwenyanzvi hwevakadzi vanobika. Semuenzaniso, kana mukadzi ari nyanzvi ine hunyanzvi mune imwe nzvimbo, uye anowana mari yakanaka, ini handifunge kuti murume achazotadza kubheka.
Kuvapo kwemari kunogadzirisa zvachose dambudziko iri. Bvumirana, hazviratidzi kukiya mukadzi mukicheni, kana achigona kuwana mari yakawanda panguva ino, yakawanda zvakaringana kwenguva yakati wandei kuresitorendi. Munhu wega wega akasarudzika, saka, nzira yekunaya inofanira kunge yakafanana.