Hushamwari chinhu chakakosha kwazvo, asi hazviwanzo kubatsirwa, uye hazvisi zvese ishamwari, iyo iri tsika nekutadza. Inofanira kufarirwa, asi mune dzimwe nguva kunyangwe pane yakareba uye "yakasimba" hushamwari "iwe unofanirwa kuisa pfungwa. Zvakanaka kana muhukama hwako neshamwari / musikana pane chimwe chinhu kubva pane rondedzero pazasi.
Mushure mekukurukurirana neshamwari / musikana, wako mhepo inodonha zvinonzwika
Isu hatisi tese nezve izvo zviitiko apo munhu akagoverana kushungurudzika kwake uye iwe, kukwikwidza kwaari, kurasikirwa nemanzwiro ako. Inofungidzirwa kuti mamiriro ezvinhu asina kunaka anova shamwari yenguva dzose yekukurukurirana kwako. Semuenzaniso, iwe wakangoerekana waona kuti mushure mekutaurirana nemusikana uyu, zvishoma nezvishoma unotanga kudonha kuzvivimba - mushure mezvose, zvinogara zvichitaura kuti munhu wese, zvisina kufanana newe, ndezvemabasa.Yeshamwari yako, iwe "uri" nzeve ", inogara ichitambudzwa
Akimi maitiro emunhu nerubatsiro rwako anogutsa zvake zvinodiwa kuti narcissism, uye maitiro aya anonyanya kutaurwa muushamwari hwevakadzi. Asi kutaura zvazviri, kunyangwe "kufungidzira" kwehupenyu hweshamwari, anoedza kuzvitsaurira ivo pachavo nekukurukurirana kwakadaro. Zvichida iye haasi chivimbo muhukama nemurume wake, uye pamwe akaroora kana kwenguva yakareba haaite mitsara yake - panogona kunge paine zvikonzero zvakawanda. Chero zvazvingaitika, munhu, saka Yaro achiratidza chete zvinhu zvakanaka zvehupenyu hwake, achiedza kuvanza kusagadzikana kwavo kwemweya.
Shamwari inogara ichipa chikamu, ane hutsinye uye akaoma matipi
Kazhinji, maitiro akadaro hunhu hwevanhu vasiri muhukama. Saka, semuenzaniso, kana uchisangana neshamwari nguva dzose nenyaya dzakakamurwa: "Ungafara sei kwaari? Ivo vakafamba pamativi ese mana! " Vasikana vakadaro vanombotadza kubva muhukama uye mhuri, uye hapana hushamwari hwakanaka hunotungamira kune chero chinhu chakanaka.Yeshamwari iwe unotamba chinzvimbo che psychotherapist
Kana imwe neimwe yemisangano yako kana hurukuro pafoni ichinyanya kunge chirongwa chepfungwa, ichi chimwe chiratidzo chekuti hushamwari hwazara. Iwe unogara uchifanira kuchengeta musikana, unomunyoresa uye kunyaradza? Hazvina kunaka. Mumwe munhu anogona kupokana achiti: "Ushamwari haudiwa here?". Muzviratidziro zvese, chiyero chinodiwa - kuchengetwa kwekuwirirana pakati pe "Tora uye upe".
Kana nyaya dzako pamusoro pematambudziko, kubva kudivi remusikana wenguva dzose richisvika pfupi: Haana hanya nezvinoitika kwauri, uye anokushandisa iwe sechiputi. Naizvozvo, zvinonyatsotaura zvinokoshesa, zviitire iwe pachako, nguva yako uye nokungwarira sarudza shamwari dzako.
Shamwari inokushuvira iwe nguva yese yemahara iwe yawakamboshandisa naye
Maitiro akadaro muushamwari anotaurwa pakati pevachiri kuyaruka, asi vanhu vakuru vakatarisana neizvi kazhinji. Pano pane kutyora kwakajeka kwemiganhu yako pachako - shamwari iri kuedza kudzora imwe neimwe yenhanho yako: "Uri kuenda kupi? Uye riini? Naani? Nei uchienda ikoko? Uye nei usina kundifonera neni? " - Iyi ipercoontrol, asi zvirokwazvo kwete hushamwari.
Hushamwari hunobva kuzasi
Munhu wega wega ane maitiro akaipa, kwete ese ane njodzi kupinza pamusoro pavo. Asi kana shamwari yacho inotungamira zvakajeka mararamiro asina hutano, haitsvage kukura uye kurarama semunhu akajairika, uye iwe, uchiri munharaunda yake kuti unonzwa kuti divi rakaipa rinoitwa pedyo naye - mhanya kubva kushamwari dzakadai. Parizvino, kuziva kuchiripo uye hakuchina zvese kugadza zvese.Ushamwari hwako haichisimbiswi, uye une tsika dzakasiyana uye maonero.
Iyi ndeimwe yezviitiko zvishoma kana hushamwari husingafanire kumiswa zvakapusa - zvakaringana kudzora zvishoma nezvishoma kutaurirana nemisangano kune zvishoma. Iwe haudi kufuratira nemaune munhu, wakavanda kwaari panguva yekukurukurirana, rega mhinduro idzi zvidimbu uye zvisizvo, usabvunze mibvunzo iwe kuti urege kuunza dialogs kwenguva refu. Maitiro acho anorwadza, asi hushamwari chaihwo pakati pevanhu vakasiyana zvakanyanya hazvizomboshanda.
Shamwari yakakutengesa uye inozvibata zvisina kutendeka
Mamiriro ezvinhu echikadzi ari kushamwaridzana ishamwari uye ari kuyedza kuratidza kuti anoyevedza, anodakadza, akangwara uye akaenzana, zvirinani pane zvese. Uye kuti ufakazi uhu hwatsanangurwa seyakawandisa, zviri kugara uchiedza kukwezva kutarisisa kwemukomana wako / murume. Uye kana maitiro ayo ari pachena pamberi pako, zviri nyore kwazvo kufungidzira zvichafanira kushure kwako.Shamwari inyonganiso yekunyepedzera kupokana mumhuri
Kufamba kuti mumhuri yako, kuparadzwa, shamwari yakadaro inogara ichikwikwidza murume wake uye inotanga kuratidza kushingairira nezvake. Semuenzaniso: "Nei uchimuridza kudaro?" Une wakanaka kudaro! ". Mune ino kesi, musikana uyu anotungamira kuvengana kwakavanzika - ari kuedza kuratidza hukuru, husina hunhu hwehushamwari chaihwo.
Shamwari inoramba nguva dzose yaunokwidza rubatsiro
Kana musikana webasa racho achigara achibatsira, asi pane dzimwe nguva haana chaanokwanisa kubatsira kubatsira - izvi zvakajairika. Asi kana pasi peganda reshamwari, pane munhu anogara "akabatikana", haambofi akauya kune mari, asi munzira yayo inoda kutarisana zvakanyanya - uku ndiko kushandiswa kwakanyanya kubva kwaari.