Rudo runogona kuve rwumwe rweanonyanya kufadza, yakasimba uye inoshandura zviitiko zvezviitiko izvo munhu anogona kuwana. Uku kunzwa kunochinja chero munhu mukati nekunze, pane imwe neimwe nhanho. Kana mumwe munhu akawira murudo, maitiro ake ari kuchinja zvakanyanya.
Nekudaro, manzwiro aya akawandisa zvishoma nezvishoma, uye akazosiya munhu "akasvinuka uye akaipisisa" kana kuyerera kwemanzwiro anopera. Mukukosha, munhu anodzokera kunzvimbo iyoyo muhupenyu hwake, paaive asati awira murudo.Saka, iyo sainzi yemazuva ano inotaura nezverudo.
1 rudo
Izvo zvese zvinotanga neyekutanga spark inoshanduka kuita murazvo wakazara murazvo - uye izvi zvinonzi rudo. Chaizvoizvo, kuyerera kwe neurotransmitters, izvo, "zvinowanzoitika" uropi uye kumanikidza vanhu kurara kusvika pakati pehusiku, kufunga nezveumwe neumwe maawa makumi maviri nemana pazuva uye zvichingodaro. Sezvineiwo, sezvazvinotariswa, vamwe vanhu chete vanogona kukonzera imwe yakafanana mune mumwe munhu, nekuda kweizvozvo "pane chimwe chinhu chisingawanzoitika uye chakakodzera." John Gottman muongorori mubasa rake "nheyo dzerudo" dzinozviti vanhu vanofanira kunhuhwirira uye vanonzwa "vakanaka" (pamwe chete neyakajeka) kuti vaise kuyerera kweuropi muuropi hwavo. Mune mamwe mazwi, havasi vese vanogona kukonzera manzwiro aya, uye izvi zvinoda zvimwe zvinhu mumunhu. Muchokwadi, masayendisiti zvino haana zano kuti chii, asi zvinozivikanwa kuti kune zvinokonzeresa rudo.
2 phenetylamine
Fenethylamine, anozivikanwawo sePea, inzvimbo yemakemikari inowanikwa mune zvakasikwa uye inogadzirwa muuropi hwemunhu. Fenetethylamine hydrochloride, kana phenetshamin hcl, inotengeswa pachena munyika dzakawanda. Chii chinonakidza, fenethilam chinomutsa tsika yehurongwa hwekutya, saka kana mumwe munhu akambofunga, apo simba rakawanda ratorwa panguva yerudo - mhinduro iri nyore ... Pheromones ndiwo makemikari anogoverwa nezvisikwa kuti zvinomutsa kuita kwezvimwe zvisikwa. Zviri nerubatsiro rwavo kuti masvosve anotaurirana, uye vanhu vanotaurirana pamwe chete pachiitiko chebonde, kwete kunyange kutaura izwi. Iko kusanganiswa kwemakemikari aya ane mwero ane simba ane chekuita nekuonekwa kweinoyerera kwemanzwiro ayo vanhu vanonzwa kana zvatanga kudanana nemumwe munhu.3 dehydroepondrosterone
Dehydroepaandrosterone inozivikanwa zvakare seDhea uye imwe imwe ine simba hormone, iyo inobatanidzwa muuropi, kana munhu atanga kudanana nemumwe munhu. Iyo inonyudza, uye mahormone precursor, iyo pachayo inoita zvishoma, asi inogona kushandurwa kuita mamwe mahormone ane simba rakasimba pane muviri. Dhea inzvimbo yepanyama yeAphrodhi inowedzera chishuwo chebonde. Iyo inotengeswa munzvimbo zhinji seisiri-mishonga-mishonga inowedzera nekuda kweichi chikonzero. Dehydroepaadrosterone "anowedzera" munhu pamazinga ese, kusanganisira immune system yake, iyo inotora chikamu chinonakidza murudo, pamwe nekuyeuka, kusvinura uye kugona kugona.
4 oxocin
Oxytocin, imwe yeiyo hofori dzakakurumbira dzakabatanidzwa mune zvese zviitiko zvemanzwiro akapfava, parizvino ari kudzidzwa nekuda kwehunhu hwamunhu (kubatana kwehormone uye kuvimba kwevanhu). Oxytocin haingoongorore mufananidzo wekufunga, kushandura munhu mune akanaka kwazvo muchiedza chezvisikwa. Iyo inogadzirwa zvakare panguva yekuzvitakura uye inofumisa ganda. Oxetocin anoshandura chaizvo pfungwa yevamwe vanhu, zvichiita kuti kufunga nezvevamwe zviri nani, uye zvakare vanoita basa rekuti vanhu vanosarudzika nevaya vanofarira sei, kubva kune avo vasingade. Oxytocin anotanga kuyerera muuropi kunyanya mune yakakura yakawanda panguva yebonde, inobatsira kutanga kuvimba nehukama nemudiwa. Izvi zvinoitwa zvinogara mavhiki mashoma mushure mekunge rudo rumwe norumwe rusina simba uye runonyanya kusimba muutsva, hukama.5 estrogen
Estrogen kazhinji haagone kurangarirwa zvine chekuita nebonde nemazuva, asi zvinonyatsoita basa rakakura mu "jongwe" ye organic compounds iyo inogutsa uropi mushure mekutanga kwehukama hurefu. Estrogen anonyatsobatsira kuwana iyo yaunoda mhepo uye yakagadziriswa mune yakawanda yakakosha huwandu kana munhu akawana mumwe munhu anokwezva. Estrogen inogadzirwa nevarume nevakadzi mune huwandu hwakasiyana (vakadzi vane huwandu hwayo pamusoro), vachichinja manzwiro avo, izvo zvinosimbisa basa rinokosha remudiwa murudo uye kuyemura kune mumwe munhu.
6 Vasopressin
Vasopressin inonyanya kunakidza hormone, iyo inoita basa mu mbiri-tie monogamy, uchiunza pedyo nevanoda uye kugadzira hukama hwepedyo pakati pavo. Iyi hormoni inonyanya kushanda muvarume. Vasopressin, musanganiswa neOxytocin, inotangisa masaini kune uropi, kutaura kuti iwe unofanirwa 'kudzikamisa "uye mukadzi chete ane munhu mumwe chete, icho chinhu cherudo. Chidzidzo chinonakidza chakaitwa muSweden chakaratidza kuti maRs3 334, izvo neimwe nzira inokwirisa vahedheni vechiVazopress, vanogona kuona mwero wekushamisika kweshungu kubva kune varume vane huwandu hwakakura. Iye murume anogona kunge aine makopi mumwe chete kana maviri eRs3 334 gene (kana kuti arege kunge ari ese). Chidzidzo icho chakaratidza kuti avo vane makopi emuGene vanoedzwa nekunyangadza kukuru kweMonomy uye "kugadzikana." Ivo vanogona kunge vasingaroore, uye zvakare vane huwandu hushoma hwekuvimbika uye rudo kune avo vanobatana navo. Varume vasina kopi imwe yeRs3 334 Gene, asi pane zvinopesana nekuroora, zvisungo uye kugadzirisa. Varume vaive nekopi imwe chete yeGene, pane imwe nzvimbo pakati pemapoka akasiyana siyana. Naizvozvo, genetic mharidzo uye huwandu hwemahomoni dzinogona kukanganisa zvakanyanya maitiro erudo.7 kuchiva
Makemikari muuropi akabatana, achigadzira chokwadi chekuti Dr. Helen Fisher, anthropologist kubva kuYunivhesiti yeVarimi, anodaidza matanho erudo: kuchiva, kuda uye kudanana uye rudo. Maitiro acho anotanga nekuchiva, ayo anonyanya kuratidzwa neyekumusoro-soro ye tesosostone neEstrogen mumuviri. Ichi chikamu chinoitika pasina kudiwa kwemumwe munhu mumwe wake, uye anenge chero mumwe wako anoikonzera. Makemikari akawirwa neuropi uye aite murume anotsvaga varoorani, mukadzi uye murume uye nekuwanza, uye zvakare kutsvaga munhu waunogona kuenda naye padanho rinotevera mukufamba kwenguva. Pfungwa yekutsvaga mumwe wako inogara ichingoita zvese zvinoitwa nevanhu.
8 Zvinonakidza
Iyo iri panguva ino inodarika inotanga kupisa pakati pevanhu vaviri. Chikamu chekukwezva ndipo apo murudo unotanga kutarisa pane mumwe munhu kunyanya. Kazhinji, panguva imwe chete, murudo anowedzera, nguva yese yekufunga nezveshuwa. Muchikamu ichi cheRudo, Dopmine uye adrenaline chete "kuchera", kupa kunzwa kwekusvirwa uye kuzadza simba. Nyanzvi dzepfungwa hadzive neiyi chikamu chisina kufanira, vazhinji vanozviita kazhinji. Ivo vanopokana kuti chikamu ichi chinodiwa kuti ubudise rudo. Sezvaunoziva, "rudo rwa" Rgepa ", uye munhu murudo anoona chido chake chakakwana uye chisingakanganisike, kanenge kwenguva yakati. Vanhu vazhinji vanoramba vaodzwa mwoyo kana iyi nhanho ichipfuura, asi nyanzvi dzinoti zvakakosha se "shanduko yeTransitional Incless" kune inotevera nhanho.9 kubatanidzwa
Iko kubatanidzwa ndicho chikamu chekupedzisira cherudo kana hukama nemudiwa uchienda kune yakadzika nhanho. Kubviswa kweDopmine uye Adrenaline makore, uye Oxytocin anouya kuti adzorere, uye vasogressin, "Monogressin," monogamoushore ", iyo inopa chiratidzo chekuti nguva yasvika yekuzorora uye, zvimwe, iva nevana. Zvinonakidza kucherechedza kuti mune mamwe marudzi epasi rose, chikamu ichi chinozivikanwa "kuchengetedzwa kwendima", izvo zvine musoro zvinogona kufananidzwa ne "kuvaka kwemhuri" nepakati. Mune imwe nzira, kubatanidzwa kunogara kuri kwehupenyu hwevanhu sekuratidzwa kwerudo. Semwana, mwana akasungirirwa kumhuri uye neshamwari. Izvi, zvechokwadi, ari kuchinja muhupenyu hwake hwese, apo vanhu vakasiyana vachionekwa mariri, izvo zvakazopedzisira zvapera nekubatanidzwa naiye mudiwa. Ipapo kubatana kwevana kunoonekwa.
Psychoanalyst Sigmund Freud yakarondedzera maitiro emukati murudo, achishandisa kukosha kwevanhu vanoda uye nezvavanenge vachichengeta vari kuwedzera. Zvekunze chikamu chakakosha kwazvo cherudo rwerudo, chinowedzera chinosimbisa kubatana kwevanhu, kunyange kazhinji zvinoitika zvachose kusaziva. Panguva ino, vanhu vanoenderana nezvinotendiswa, tsika, pfungwa, zviito, tsika uye zvakawanda zveumwe neumwe. Iyo iri panguva ino iyo yekubatira kune munhu inova yakasimba kwazvo zvekuti kunyangwe zvinhu zvidiki zvakanyanya zvinonaka zvinoita kunge zvine musoro. Iyo XIX Philosopher Friedrich Nietzsche kuti zvinokurudzira zvekuti munhu akakosha emunhu akasimbisa zvinhu zvakakosha kwaari, uye kana zvisiri zvekushandisa seyakaomesa pfungwa dzehupenyu, zvishoma nezvishoma zvinova chikamu chemunhu. Chokwadi, kuburikidza nemaitiro ekunyorwa, vanhu vaviri vanogadzira imwe pfungwa yemazambiringa, pfungwa, zvido, tariro uye zviroto zvavanogona kuvaka hupenyu hwamangwana.