Mubyukuri, hari ibintu byinshi bishobora kwerekana imibanire myiza, yishimye izamara igihe kirekire. Kwizera, kwizirika no kubaha nimwe mubyiyumvo byingenzi kubashakanye. Ariko, hariho ibindi bintu byinshi byingenzi bidahora bigaragara. Rero, dutanga ibimenyetso 15 byizerwa wabonye umuntu wawe.
1. Nukumva amarangamutima yawe.
Niba udakunda ibyo avuga, cyangwa urwenya rwe, azahita ahagarara. Byongeye kandi, ntazigera akubwira ko "ibintu byose bizashira" mugihe wumva wihebye.2. Ntashaka guhora ari ukuri
Ni ngombwa kuri we ko atari uburenganzira bwe, kandi ntazamurwanirira "ku kanwa." Niba tumuhaye impaka mubibazo, azemera.
3. Ntagerageza kuguhindura
Uyu mugabo aragukunda neza icyo uri cyo. Kubwibyo, ntazigera arota ahindukirira undi muntu.4. Ariko aracyagutera ibyiza
Nubwo adashobora guhindura uwo uriwe, aracyagutera inkunga yo gukura. Byinshi muri byose kwisi arashaka kugufasha kuba verisiyo nziza yanjye, uko ushobora kuba.
5. Yumva nkawe murugo
Kuba hafi yawe, yumva ari byiza. Ibihe byawe byishimye cyane nigihe kimaranye mugihe wumva ususurutse, umutekano, kimwe numukunzi wawe.
6. Atuma utekereza neza kuri wewe
Umukunzi wawe aragusenga kuruta uko wabitekereza. Kandi azakora byose kugirango usobanukirwe nibyo muri mwe neza. Iragukunda kandi irashaka nawe kwikunda.7. Birakinguye nawe
Bitandukanye n'imibanire yashize, izi zubatswe ku kwizerana. Nta banga, nta kinyoma, nta guceceka k'ukuri. Irakinguye nawe muri byose, nubwo tuvuga ikintu bidafite akamaro kuburyo bimubaza.
8. Kandi urakinguye
Nkuko asangiye nawe byose, nawe urakinguye rwose. Uramwizeye kuruta abandi bose mubuzima bwawe.9. Buri gihe ashaka kumenya byinshi kuri wewe
Nubwo utekereza ko azi ibyawe, azakomeza kubona uburyo bwo kubona amakuru menshi kuri wewe. Kubera ko uri umuntu ashaka kumarana ubuzima, arashaka kukumenya bishoboka.
10. Asaba imbaraga zo kumarana nawe
Niba afite icyumweru gihuze kumurimo, azagera kurya muri wikendi. Niba ibintu byose mubyumweru bike bishize ntaruhuka, noneho azakoresha byibuze nijoro murugo hamwe nawe. Tutitaye kuri byose, kumarana nawe umwanya nikimwe.11. Aragutera inkunga
Iyo utarushijeho kuba mwiza, ahora yiteguye kugutera inkunga. Aragutera inkunga mugihe utari muri wowe, kandi ugatera imbaraga zo kudacogora.
12. Arakomeye mubyo ufite intege nke
Umuntu wese afite imbibi zayo, kandi nayo irakureba. Nubwo bimeze bityo, wowe na mugenzi wawe wuzuzanye neza kuburyo mwembi mwuzuza intege nke z'undi.13. Yumva rwose
Iyo uvuze, ntabwo aruruti kandi yitwaje ibitekerezo. Ibinyuranye, yumva buri jambo, kuko ibyo uvuga bifite akamaro kanini kuri we.
14. Arakureba nkaho ntamuntu uhari umuntu uwo ari we wese
Ndetse no mubihe bidasanzwe azareba mumaso yawe, kandi uzumva uko agukunda. Mu bihe nk'ibi, yibuka gusa uko yagira amahirwe ko yagusanze.15. Arategura ejo hazaza he
Ikimenyetso cyingenzi wasanze "ibyawe," nuburyo ateganya ejo hazaza. Niba ugaragaye muri buri gahunda ye, urashobora kwizera udashidikanya ko iyi ari isano izamara igihe kirekire.
Mugihe utangiye kubona ibi bintu 15, uzumva ko aribyo byukuri. Mugihe kimwe mumibanire yawe ureba umukunzi wawe hanyuma umenye ko uyu ari umuntu ugomba kuba. Hanyuma, uzabona ko iyi ari umubano uzambaza ubuzima bwawe bwose.