Hamwe no kuvuka kw'abana bawe, inyungu zababyeyi beza bahaguruka inyuma. Umwana ahinduka isanzure ryose, namategeko yayo, ibyifuzo nibyo bakeneye. Ababyeyi bashya bashinzwe kumara igihe cyabo cyose kandi bamarane imbaraga zose zo kurera umwana, gerageza urebe ko byose bikenewe mubuzima no gutanga umubare ntarengwa wibice byose. Ariko igihe kirageze mugihe ufite cyo kurenga uko ibintu bimeze. Muri kano kanya haje igihe abana bakura, kandi ababyeyi babi kandi bafite ingufu barashaje.
Abantu bakuze ntibagihangana nibibazo byo murugo, ntibakeneye kwitabwaho no kwitabwaho gusa, ahubwo banabitaho, ahubwo banabishyigikiwe namafaranga. Abana b'ibyatsi baracyasaba kwitabwaho, amafaranga, amafaranga. Hariho amakimbirane yinyungu - umutungo wabuze na gato.Nibo uruhande rwabo ruhinduka, ukunda kandi uhangayikishijwe cyane, nigute utabura ikintu gikomeye mubuzima bwabana kandi kigatanga ababyeyi bezewe kubabyeyi?
Ibi bibazo byose bikunda kugwa ku bitugu byumugore. Niwe uharanira kuba umukobwa mwiza, akomeza kuba nyina utagira inenge. Ariko komeza kuringaniza ntigishobora kugorana! Kandi ibihome byose byuzuye ingaruka. Niki? Ninde ufite akamaro - abana cyangwa ababyeyi? Ninde uzabaho atabitayeho kandi amfasha?
Bizagenda bite uramutse uhaye umwanya uhagije kubana?
Hitamo hagati y'abana n'ababyeyi biragoye. Biragoye cyane kubafite ababyeyi beza. Nubwo rimwe na rimwe bisa nkaho guhitamo biragaragara. Abana batangira kure. Bafite uruziga rw'itumanaho n'inyungu zabo. Gushimira kubabyeyi ni byiza.
Ababyeyi batanze ubuzima, baha imiturire, batanga uburezi .... Urutonde rwicyubahiro rushobora kuba kitagira iherezo. Ibyiza ababyeyi ni ababana, bakomeye cyane, kumva inshingano no kumva ko bafite inshingano. Abana bagerageza kwishyura inyungu rimwe na rimwe ndetse no kubangamira ubuzima bwabo n'inyungu zabo bwite. Kandi muri ako kanya, abana bakuze, bafite ubuvuzi bw'ababyeyi n'urukundo, birashobora kuba byinshi, byahagaritswe, byahagaritswe, barababara. Kwirengagiza ibyo akeneye n'ibyifuzo by'umwana birashobora guteza amakimbirane ahoraho mumuryango, biganisha kubibazo bikomeye no kudaha agaciro kwihesha agaciro. Kugirango ukureho abagezena, barashobora gukenera ubuzima bwawe bwose.
Ingaruka zo kwitondera zishobora kuba:
- Ubujura;
- ubugome;
- Hysterical;
- igitero;
- kwiheba.
Mubyangavu, iyo umwana afite ibitekerezo bitari ngombwa, aba ashishikajwe nibikorwa byihuse ndetse no kwiyahura. Kubwibyo, burigihe ni ngombwa kuba iruhande rwabana, kumenya ibibazo byabo, ibyifuzo byabo, ibyo bakeneye. Ku gihe, ijambo ryiza, guhoberana neza, imyidagaduro ihuriweho - icyiciro cyingenzi mugutezimbere no gushiraho abana. Ntushobora kubura iki gihe. Ni ngombwa kuba hamwe gusa. Buri mwaka, ukwezi, umunsi, isaha ... Iki gihe ntigishobora kwerekanwa cyangwa cyishyuwe.
Kubwibyo, abana bagomba kuba ba mbere. Ubuzima bwabo buratangira kandi buterwa nawe uko bazabaho. Ugomba kuba hafi yabana burigihe. Kuruhuka hamwe, akazi, wige. Kandi ufashe ababyeyi bageze mu zabukuru. Kuberako kubaha abantu bageze mu zabukuru n'ababyeyi, harimo, bagomba gushirwa mu bwana. Kandi amasomo meza ni amasomo yubuzima. Erekana abana ku karorero kawe, nkuko bikenewe kugirango wubahe abantu bageze mu zabukuru, ababyeyi bageze mu zabukuru. Igisha abana bato gusoma abasaza basoma abasaza, kandi ingimbi nubaha no gufasha ba sogokuru. Gukurura abana kwita kubabyeyi bashaje, urashobora kwishyura igihe nibindi icyarimwe.
Abana bagomba kumenya ko ubusaza ari igihe kitoroshye mubuzima, iyo hashize intege, abantu batagira kirengera, badashobora kwiyitaho, guteka, guteka, farumasi, sura abaganga. Isano ineza irashobora kwerekana ubufasha kumubiri gusa, abana badashobora guhora bafite, ahubwo banatera inkunga inkunga, uruhare, urukundo.
Ni ngombwa kutabirenga!
Gutanga ubuzima bwiza kubabyeyi nubuzima bwiza kubana, ni ngombwa kwibuka ko hariho ubuzima bwumuntu. Ntibishoboka kwirengagiza ibyifuzo byawe, inyungu n'ibikenewe. Kubwibyo, birakwiye guhamagarira imanza zimwe na zimwe zijyanye no kwita kubabyeyi bageze mu zabukuru kwambura bene wabo.
Ntabwo ari ngombwa gufata rwose ibibazo byose bikikije inzu, udasize ababyeyi bawe, nta mahirwe yo kwigarurira ikintu. Akazi koroshye, amasomo yoroshye abaha amahirwe yo kumva akenewe kandi afite akamaro. Ababyeyi barashobora gufasha abuzuyo amasomo amwe, gukora ubukorikori cyangwa ibishushanyo. Igikorwa cyawe ntabwo ari ukuvunika hagati yabana n'ababyeyi, ariko kwiga kubana muburyo bwose bworohewe. Umuryango munini, winshuti ntabwo arimpano, ahubwo ni akazi ka buri munsi hamwe nimbaraga. Niba ufite ababyeyi beza nabana beza, ntugomba guhitamo.