Rimwe na rimwe mubuzima bibaho ko tugomba gutandukana nigice cya kabiri kubera ibihe byubuzima. Ubu ni ubwoko bwihariye bwimibanire, busaba kugenzura no kugenzura amafaranga menshi.
Urukundo ni iki kure kandi kibaho rwose?
Umubano uri kure ni ubwoko bwo kugenzura ibyiyumvo bya buriwese. Akenshi ibi bibaho iyo umwe mubyumba asabwa kugenda kuva kera. Ntabwo ari ngombwa kwiheba muri uru rubanza. Umubano nk'uwo ufite ibyiza n'ibibi.
Amashyaka meza yimibanire kuri kure arashobora kwitwa:
- Reba ibyiyumvo kubwimbaraga. Mubuzima, bibaho ko abantu batekereza gusa ko bakunda igice cyabo, rimwe na rimwe ni umugereka wa Balil, uzanyura kure;
- Kugenzura umufatanyabikorwa mubudahemuka;
- Uziga gushima buri munota umarana, ndetse no kuganira kuri terefone;
- Buri nama mubuzima izuzura amarangamutima ibihumbi bitandukanye.
Ibibi by'Imibanire ku ntera:
- nta kuvugana namake. Gukoraho no kunuka bigira uruhare runini mubucuti. Utari kumwe bizagorana gukomeza urukundo kure;
- Igenzura ryinshi kubera gutakaza ikizere. Ibintu bisanzwe mugihe amanotongana abera kubutaka bwishyari, ikubiyemo ingaruka zidashimishije;
- Ingorane zamafaranga. Rimwe na rimwe, abakundana bafite amafaranga ahagije ku ngendo. Byiyongera cyane kubibazo;
- kwifuza. Iyo umubiri wumuntu uri mumujyi umwe, numutima nubugingo mubindi, noneho biragoye kubaho.
Ni izihe nama zo guha abantu bagifite kugirango barebe ibyiyumvo byintera?
1. Wizere kandi ureke ugukurikirane bitagira iherezo, bizaganisha ku gikona kinini kiva mu gipimo.
2. Gerageza kubona kenshi. Reka amasaha abiri, reka ubwoya, ariko amateraniro nk'iyi azahungabanya ibitekerezo n'ibinyugunyugu mu nda.
3. Dukoreze buri gihe uko bishoboka. Reba kuri firime imwe, muganire muri resitora zigenda iyo ubonye kandi ubwoko bwa Mugs bugure murugo rwawe. Vuga kenshi!
4. Kwirukana. Reka bitubereke, nko gushima kuri terefone, cyangwa ibaruwa ukoresheje iposita, rero umukunzi rero azaba akenewe no kure.
Kandi ikintu nyamukuru ntabwo ari ugukora hamwe no mubisobanuro birambuye. Kuba inyangamugayo no gufungura mubucuti ahantu hatonerwa. Urukundo no gukundwa!