Ntibyoroshye kubona imiryango yanjye. Birakenewe kurengana, ntabwo binyuze mumibanire imwe, kugirango ubone uburambe bukabije kandi umara umwanya munini kugirango ubone ubugingo bugereranije. Kugirango tutamarana umwanya wawe w'agaciro, turaguha ibimenyetso 8 ushobora kumva ko umugabo atagukwiriye.
Arakubeshya
Ntawe uvuga ko hari ikinyoma ku gakiza, ariko ubu ntabwo aribyo. Ibintu byagenwe mugihe umugabo yafatiwe ku kinyoma, kigaragara nabi mubucuti kandi gitakaza icyizere kumugore. Abaterankunga bagira inama ikinyoma cya mbere cyo kubabarira - twese turi abantu kandi tumaze kwibeshya - ariko niba amahirwe ya kabiri yo kuba kimwe no kunanirwa kuvuga, noneho hamwe numuntu nkuyu ukeneye kuvuga utandukanye rimwe na rimwe. Ariko icyarimwe birakwiye guhangana nimpamvu zitera ibinyoma byabagabo. Kimwe nabana, hasi gukomeye barashobora kubeshya gusa kuberako bikwiye kuvuga byose uko biri, kandi umugore atangira guca umuntu. Kurinda sisitemu yawe ifite ubwoba, biroroshye kuri lift. Niba nta mpamvu y'ibinyoma - Iki nikindi kibazo.Ukora nk'umukiza
Niba umugore, aho kuba iby'umugabo, kugirango asohoze uruhare rw'abagore gusa, akuramo umukundwa ahantu hatandukanye n'amasosiyete ashaka niba agerageza gupfuka imyenda no gukinisha - uyu mugabo rwose ntabwo ari we. Nibura, muri ubwo buryo, umukecuru azahita atangira gutesha agaciro, kandi nta muryango usanzwe ufite umutekano ntuzabigeraho.
Ariko hariho ibyiciro bibiri byabagore batekerezaga nkana umubano nkuyu, bashakisha nkana abantu badakomeye kandi batunzwe. Bamwe kugirango bavugane konte yabo, mugihe abandi bakoreshwa gusa gukurura umukandara winshingano zose kuva mubwana. Ntabwo ari bibi, iyo umugore ashinzwe ibintu byose mumuryango, ariko niba ashaka kubyihanganira, noneho birabona ibyo yari akwiriye - byaremwe kubandi.
Urahagaze iruhande rwambere
Ako kanya reservation yo kubika - ibihe aho umuntu uhora abura kukazi, akinjiza kandi yinjiza umuryango neza - ntabwo ari mumafaranga. Nibisanzwe rwose ko ikora nkumutunzi kandi ntabwo afite umwanya uhagije kumugore we. Turimo tuvuga kubantu hafi ya hafi yayo, ariko icyarimwe ntiruba mwinshi - bimanitse ku bibuga, utubari, siporo, aho ari hamwe na souse yawe. Muri iki gihe, ibyihutirwa byumugabo bishyirwa kugirango barrirs na horizon bitagaragara.Nubwo waba wifuzaga gutekereza ukundi - abagabo bato (kandi ntibizigera bihinduka. Umugore ushaka kugira umuryango usanzwe, uko ibintu bimeze, mubisanzwe, ntibikwiranye. Kurandura abo badamu, ubwana bwayo bwateje imbere imyumvire itari yo.
Yavugana nabi n'abakozi ba serivisi.
Ni gake, ibyo umugore yifuza kugira umuntu utagira ikinyabupfura, utagira ikinyabupfura, utagira ikinyabupfura kandi wishyira hejuru muri satelite. Ariko nibyo rwose abirasi kandi birengagiza abakozi ba serivisi, nkabategereje muri resitora. Niba nta bujurire nk'ubwo buri muntu - ntugomba kubeshya, bisaba igihe gito. Mu ntangiriro yumubano, abantu bose bagaragaje ibintu byabo byiza, bashaka gukunda mugenzi wabo, ariko mugihe umukandida nigice cyujujwe neza, umufatanyabikorwa aratsindwa, isura yukuri yumuntu iragaragara.
Umuntu ahora atanyuzwe
Guhora utinyuka abantu nkaho bafata ingufu. Ntabwo bihagije ko buri gihe cyo kugirira nabi, urashobora rero "kwandura". Ntibahora banyuzwe nabagabo bafite intege nke, nta ntego bafite, nta cyifuzo cyo gutera imbere no gushyira mubikorwa muri uru rubanza. Ntabwo aricumu, hakurikiraho umugore kumva urukuta rwamabuye. Ariko ikibi kuruta byose - intangiriro yumugabo idafunguwe no kumva ko yangiriye nabi inyuma yabandi bashobora gutsinda umugore mugihe - kugirango yemeze, amaboko agomba kujya kwimuka.Hirya no hino kurwanya umubano wawe na we
Niba ukunda umugabo, ariko ibidukikije bivuga ko utari umugabo n'umugore - ugomba kubanza kumva umutima wawe kandi ntukemere ko abandi bangamira. Ariko niba kubyerekeye kuba umugabo adahuye namagambo kubayifite ibitekerezo kure yawe, birakwiye kubatega amatwi bitonze. Urukundo rukora nka anesthesia mumitekerereze isanzwe, kandi wenda kuba muri leta mubyukuri ntubona ibigaragara?
Niba abamurwanyaga bavuga koko bashyigikiwe nimpaka na logique, noneho birakenewe kuyifata kumaboko no kureba uwatoranijwe wenyine. Arashaka rwose.
Nta rukundo
Niba usuzumye icyiciro cyabagore bafite amarangamutima gusa, ntabyitayeho, ntanubwo bumva ko ari hafi kubadatera ayo marangamutima. Niba usuzumye abantu ntabwo ari n'umutima wawe gusa, ahubwo usuzume umutwe wawe, reba uburyo umuntu yitwara, ibyo akora kandi atihutira kumena umubano na we. Ntihakagire ishyaka rya bose batwara hagati yawe, nkuko nshaka, birashoboka, birashoboka kwerekana icyubahiro no guhumurizwa mubijyanye nubuzima - gusa kuri iyi sano birashobora gutuma igihe kirekire.Umubano wawe ni "wumye"
Umugore usabana kandi wishimye ntabwo ashobora kwihanganira igikundiro kandi ahora atanyuzwe. Niba mumibanire cyane ntukureho, urwenya kandi ubworoherane nigimenyetso kibi. Niba nta kibazo gikomeye kiri muri couple, cyanga cyane - birashoboka cyane, umugabo ntagukwiriye.
Niba bimwe muribi bintu bihari mubucuti bwawe, abahanga mu bya psychologue baracyatanga inama yo gukora cyane. Niba umufatanyabikorwa usibye imico mibi, hariho nibyiza, biranyurwa rwose, ntabwo byumvikana gutandukana, byibuze niba nta bundi buryo. Byongeye kandi, igice cya minishi gishobora kuvaho, kuvugana numufatanyabikorwa bikababwira ko bitabinyurwa.