9 interuro agomba kuguruka ako kanya

Ababyeyi n'abagabo bazi uburyo bwo gushushanya interuro. Hamwe no kureba cyangwa kumva. Kandi akenshi turabyemera kandi twinjire mubihe muri ibyo bihe ikintu kimwe cyoroshye gisabwa mubyukuri. Iburyo.

"Uri umukobwa!"

Byumvikane neza, kandi nkaho gushishikariza gutera imbere. Bite uko bavuga ngo, Kuva kuri Vovka gufata, ingurube na Dracuna. Ugomba kuba ukonje kandi uko ibintu bimeze kose kugirango usohoke kandi ugire neza, nkuko umukobwa ari ikiremwa kirenze. Ariko, niba umugore wimyaka itanu atarashoboye kwambuka uburere, iyi ngingo ntabwo ihagarika, ariko ikababaza. N'uburenganzira. Bahe mumazuru sandalwoman, mwana wanjye! Kuberako mubyukuri aritegura gusa ubutaka kugirango bikomeze byumvikana: "... umunsi wawe ni umunani wa Werurwe."

"Ntabwo ndi ahagije"

Iyi tweet, nkitegeko, koresha nyirarume 40+, igihe uhagarara kugirango ushushe umutwe wumukobwa udashobora, kandi sinshaka inshingano. Umugore ukuze azahita yumva amayeri, ariko umukobwa muto, ikibabaje, ntabwo buri gihe. Ibyaremwe bidafite uburambe bisabwa kumenya neza, bisezeranya abantu bose kubabarira kandi ntibakiringira, kandi bambaye ibirenge bakurikira nyirarume ku nkombe yisi. Ku umutekano ku mibereho ye yo mu mwuka. Ariko kugira ngo tubungabunge ibitekerezo n'ubuzima, birahagije kugarura ubuyanja: "Yoo, urakoze kubera kuburira!". Nibyiza, ballet muri campol ntibazababaza.

"Kuva icyo gihe ntinya umubano ukomeye, ububabare bumwe"

Yoo, kumenyekana byerekana ko uri ishyirahamwe ryo mumutwe. Dufite imyumvire myinshi ishoboye kwifuza cyane kandi byose. "Ntibisanzwe kandi bifite agaciro, fata!" - Umutima uvuga cyane, cyane iyo afite imyaka 15. "Ibi ni yego, ububabare buzaba bwinshi - bushobora kubikemura muburyo bwose byera bikomeye ku ntebe; Ntabwo ari byiza guha amato kuri sch)? " - ihuye numutima wubwonko bwubwenge. Yoo, mumyaka 15, umutima n'ubwonko ntabwo bihujwe hafi muburyo ubwo aribwo bwose.

"Urukundo ni iki?"

Yemera gusinzira nawe ndetse rimwe na rimwe ajya muri firime. Ni iki kindi ushaka? Ibi ntabwo ari ibimenyetso ... nibyo? Abantu muri rusange bivuze iki munsi yibyo bibanza bikoreshwa? Ku mugore wuje urukundo (kubwimpamvu runaka adakeneye ibisobanuro runaka), gutekereza kubitekerezo byo mumutwe birashobora kuba bisa nkibitekerezo byo gutekereza no kwisesengura. Ariko mubyukuri ni urundi rwitwazo, rwo kudatanga raporo: "Yego, uri imwe gusa mu ngeso zanjye ubunebwe guhinduka." By the was, kwikinisha mu magambo biravurwa neza na lime izunguruka pin.

"Mfite ibihe nk'ibi mu buzima ..."

Ivumburwa rikomeye ni formula ya bose, rishobora gusobanurwa no kubura amafaranga, kandi ridasobanutse, kandi utoroshye, no kutitaho ibintu, kandi ni ubuhemu. Ibi byose kuko bisaba inzira zimbitse muri yo, ugereranije nuwo wowe ubisabye impuhwe zawe ntarenze kurakara dwesola. Reka dufungure ibanga rito: W. We. Burigihe. Bene. Igihe. Kandi rero boot, boot!

"Twabaye kumwe na we igihe kirekire"

Imvugo ya kera yicaye ku ntebe ebyiri. Kandi aratangaye cyane niba atagutuza. Kandi mubyukuri, ni ukubera iki ukwiye guhangayikishwa nuko abantu bakunda (bivugwa) igihe kinini numutungo bigabanya undi muntu, niba ibi byose ari "kuri cheque? Ariko niba ugifite impungenge gato, noneho intebe izagukiza. Ndetse n'indorerezi ebyiri. Imbogo ziguruka ziguruka, birumvikana.

"Uri mwiza cyane, ariko ..."

Manra mantra cyane kuri manipulation mubihe bitandukanye, kugeza gutandukana. We, nk'uko byari bimeze gushimirwa, yemeye icyubahiro, cyanganye neza, nticyabujije burundu, kandi byumviraga ... ibyo byose ni "anesthesia" bitari intangiriro ku buryo runaka bwo gutandukana. Iyi nkuru ifite itegeko rimwe. Icyuma. Ati: "Niba avuga ko atari ibyawe, abona ibinyuranye nabyo." Kandi ubundi itegeko rimwe, nukuvuga, na hamwe. Teflon. Bita "gufata isafuriya". Ibikurikira, turizera, kandi nawe ubwawe uzabyumva.

"NYAGASANZWE"

Duhereye ku cyiciro "Kumenyekana kenshi ntabwo ari ukuri ko byoroshye, ariko muri rusange bihagaritse igihano." Mubyukuri, nta kumenyekana hano. Ibi ni umwitero usanzwe. Sim umwanditsi we atangaza ko ashobora gukora byose. Ibindi bizakurikiza imyitozo ifatika yo kwiyongera. Shyiramo boot. Kumuraho.

"Nkeneye igihe cyo kumenya ..."

Birasa nkaho bitera inkunga: bivuga kubushobozi bwo kwerekana no kwifuza gushimirwa kubyumva. Twiciriye urubanza ubwacu, kandi twibeshye cyane. Nibyo, umugore ukeneye "kumenya hanze" azagaragaza wenyine ndetse no mu mpande imwe "azamenya." Abenegihugu b'imibonano mpuzabitsina y'abagabo bakunze gukoresha iyi nteruro gusa. Mubyukuri, akenera umwanya wo gushonga ibisimba, jya kumupira wamaguru, wicare mu kabari hanyuma uhindagurika hamwe nibindi ba nyirane. Muri rusange, igihe mwiza wawe azabaza igihe, "kugirango abimenye," urashobora guhita ubyitaho neza. Twaba dusaba urumuri, kuko aremereye kandi mwiza. Ariko ntidusaba. Nkuruvyo ...