Ikinyabupfura ni, Kubwamahirwe, ntabwo ari ubwiza bwabantu, gusobanukirwa no kwigisha no kwiga mumiryango itandukanye bibaho ukundi. Mugerageza kuzamura umwana wikinyabupfura kandi huje ubwoba, twubaka byukuri kumvira, gukora amategeko ya robo.
Ntugahinduke imirimo ku zindi
Iyo umwana agaragaje ikibazo cya Blatator, aryamye hasi ya supermarket cyangwa ajugunya muri mabberby, ababyeyi akenshi ntibamenya icyaha bakayihindura ku barezi, abarimu, inshuti, ndetse na kamere y'umwana ubwe. Ariko, uburere bwubupfura ninshingano yababyeyi gusa.Porofeseri Frederick Ruviyua, Umwanditsi w'igitabo "Amateka y'urupfu: Kuva kuri Impinduramatwara kugeza uyu munsi" yaranditse ati: "Byaba ari byiza ko umuryango utaziguye, ushimishe umuryango w'ubunyabupfura, hamwe n'abaturanyi ndetse nabo baziranye Urugero bwite, kuko igitekerezo kidakoreshwa kizazana ibisubizo. "
Uri isi kwisi yose, isanzure rye. Ibyo umwereka kuva kuvuka bizatangazwa mubuzima bwe bwose.
Ubupfura = kubaha
Kuki umwana ashobora kuvuga "iyi nyirasenge" kandi ntibishoboka "iyi nyirasenge"? Kuki udashobora kuvuga ngo "Nubwohehe", ariko ukeneye "Ntabwo nkunda"? Ikinyabupfura ni, ubushobozi cyane cyane ubwabwo bwitondera no kubaha abandi bantu ndetse no mubwa kabiri kugirango bimenyere isi. Kuganira "Impungenga" ntabwo bikwiye kuko bishobora kubabaza auce. Umwana arashobora kubitekereza, ariko birakwiye kuvuga n'ijwi rirenga - iki nikibazo cyo kurera no kugira amakenga.
Abantu bose baratandukanye
Kubantu batandukanye twiyambaza muburyo butandukanye. Noneho, nkumwana uvuga inshuti, ntibishoboka kuvugana na mwarimu. Uburyo yakira umuturanyi ntabwo akwiriye cyane kuba nyina w'umuturanyi. Ihame ryingenzi ryitumanaho iryo ari ryo ryose ni ukubaha nawe no gutangaza.Igihano: Ntumwange
Abana bose rimwe na rimwe bitwara nabi. Hama hariho ibishuko byo gutangaza ijambo "ribi" cyangwa imyitwarire mibi itaziguye kandi tureba reaction. Ubu ni ubundi buryo bwo kwiyegereza wenyine.
Abaterankunga ba psychologue bagira inama: Niba umwana arahiye cyangwa atangaje, akeneye gutukwa, asobanura ibyo yakoze nabi.
Nta rutonde rusobanutse rw'ubuhanga bwo kwigisha ikinyabupfura, kubice byinshi ni ikibazo cyumvikana; Ni ngombwa gusobanura impamvu amategeko agomba guhanwa kubera kutubahiriza. Nibyo, ikibazo nyamukuru ni ubutware. Hatariho ubutware bw'ababyeyi, ntibishoboka kwishora mu burezi - nk'uko Anya de vi viaria, umuryango wa psychologue.
Gushima kenshi
Nubwo umwana yitwara adasanzwe, komeza ube urugero rwumuco wikinyabupfura, kandi nagaruka mubuzima butuje, ntiwibagirwe kumushimira. Afata umuryango wa Mama - Murakoze kandi ushimwe. Dill, kubona abatanduye, nubwo byatunguwe cyane - sobanura impamvu bishobora kubaho no guhimbaza icyubahiro. Ku myaka 2-4, birakenewe no guhimbaza no kuri buri "urakoze" - kandi bizajya muri iyo ngeso. Ntabwo ari muri reflex kugirango vuga "urakoze", ni ukuvuga ko murakoze.
Uyu munsi, ikinyabupfura cyukuri ntigifite umwanya wo gushimira, gusaba ubuzima - ibi nibihe byagaciro. Ariko, imyitwarire myiza iracyakenewe mubuzima bwihariye, bwumwuga. Akenshi twumva "nyamuneka", uko ndabishima. Mu ikinyabupfura umwana gukura by umuntu yishimira na bijanye ubwe n'abandi, bikaba bisobanura ko igihe ari gusa umutungo, ariko imico myiza - imibereho.