Inkingi yacu, Ella Darzay, ifite impano idasanzwe. Azi kwandika kubyerekeye ibintu bisanzwe no mubihe bisanzwe (kubyerekeye abarakariye abagenzi, ibijyanye nigihunyira, ibimenyetso, kubijyanye nabyo byanze bikunze bitera ibiganiro byumuyaga. Reka turebe niba iki gihe kizageraho. Tumaze gukora inzoga.
Kubwimpamvu runaka, akenshi usitara kuri enterineti ku ngingo zijyanye namazina ashimishije nka "inshuti yawe ibikomoka ku bimera. Icyo gukora? " Hanyuma na gato: "Inshuti yawe ibikomoka ku bimera: Nigute wakwitwara?!" Igihe cyose nibaza, ariko soma witonze. Kandi ndumva ko ntacyo numva na gato.
Ukurikije aya masomo, ibikomoka ku bimera byose umusazi rwose, aho bibaye ngombwa gufata nkabana bato. Mubibi - nkuriya kumusazi. Kuri Brown kandi icyarimwe hakomereye cyane:
- Yoo, gerageza ntubabaza inshuti yawe! N'ubundi kandi, arashobora kubabaza umubano wawe!
- Buri gihe ugire isahani y'ibimera mubigega! (No mu mufuka - isukari).
- Jya muri resitora idasanzwe, urye carrot casserole, ubucuti nibyingenzi, kandi igikoma ushobora kurya ikindi gihe!
- Niba inshuti yawe ivuga ko ibisimba biri ibisimba, kandi wowe kugiti cyawe, kubera urukundo rwawe, ikuzimu utegereje kutavuga rumwe nigitekerezo cye, noneho byibuze ntukatongana! Nyuma ya byose, ubucuti burahenze.
"Gerageza kugaragariza amaso y'incuti yawe mu ikoti ry'ubwoya, birashobora kubabaza cyangwa gutatanya." Reba mumyenda ya Wardrobe yawe ikozwe nta gukoresha uruhu cyangwa uruhu rwinyamaswa.
N'ibindi
Ariko ibyifuzo ubwabyo biratangaje cyane, kandi ko aya mabwiriza atanga umutungo winshuti nabakomoka ku bimera. Ninde udafite intego yo gutuka abakene cyangwa kubateregura ishusho yabantu bakunda imipira. Ahubwo! Barabatera inkunga cyane! Bagerageza kugabanya ubuzima, bahindukirira abapfu beza, bakoraho kandi basakuza ku ngingo zimwe na zimwe. Noneho turimo tuvuga kubyerekeye ibintu bikaba.
Njyewe rero, kurugero, ntabwo nkunda meloni. N'amafi y'inzuzi. Na cilanthole. Kandi nzi ko twe, ntabwo tutinye, ntanumwe cyangwa babiri, na byinshi. Tekereza usomye ibisobanuro byingamba nziza hamwe natwe. Hanyuma utangire kwitwara neza. Hisha ko muri cilantro. Abonye resitora ya Jeworujiya, hindukira mu modoka yegereye, hanyuma gitunguranye Kinza izasimbukira muri resitora kandi izatera? Kandi iyo duteguye (rimwe mumyaka ibiri, nyuma yo guteka bisanzwe bizashyira ibyatsi muri omelet) kumwanya wa "uburyohe bwa KILAENT bingana kuryoherwa nigicu, bityo ukarya wenyine" witonze Bizeze kandi ugerageze guhindura ikiganiro kuyindi ngingo. Yatanzwe? Byakunze?
Sinzi, ahari umuntu uturutse ku bimera (cyangwa ndetse n'ibindi bisigazwa byinshi, gusaba imbabazi nke, nubwo bigomba no kwitabwaho ko abantu bose) gutya. Igice giteye ubwoba kidatera inyama mubitekerezo kandi ukagerageza kugukurura kuruhande rwawe. Ariko urareba - nkaba nyuma ya bake! Nibyo, baratangaje, ariko mubyukuri kubera ubushake bwabo bwo kwihanganira abantu urumuri nubarabara.
Ibikomoka ku bimera byinshi ntibikeneye gukora ingengabitekerezo yabo imirire yabo. Ntabwo bakunda inyama, kurugero. Cyangwa ntibishoboka kubera impamvu z'ubuvuzi. Kandi ntituzi ko zimwe mu nshuti zacu kandi tuziranye harimo ibikomoka ku bimera. Kuberako mubyukuri bashishikaye ko umuntu arya gusa aramutse ayamenye. Ubwayo yitondera ko bitoroshye gutumiza salade hamwe na shrip, ariko kubera ikizere ko inkoko atari nziza. Bitabaye ibyo, ntuzabitekerezaho. Neza, shrimp. Biraryoshye!
Aba bantu, abantu batuje kandi beza, barashobora kwiyitaho. Ntutange izina nyuma yubutumire bwamavuko cyangwa ubukwe busaba gukora menu yihariye, ubwoko nk'ubwo. Bashobora kubona ibiryo bikomoka ku bimera muri resitora iyo ari yo yose. Nubwo ibirayi bya fry mu muntu uwo ari we wese, mubyukuri! Iyo gutembera gusura abantu batazi guteka nta mavuta na Mayoyo, barashobora gufata salade nipaki ya paste ubwabo.
Noneho abasigaye ntibagomba gutekereza, uburyo bwo kwitwara hamwe nibikomoka ku bimera. Kuberako iki nikibazo cyo gusiganwa no gusiganwa. Kuva mu cyiciro cy '"uburyo bwo kwitwara n'umugore" cyangwa "uburyo bwo kwitwara hamwe n'umukinnyi." Erega, ibikomoka ku bimera ntabwo ari indwara, ahubwo ni ikibazo cyo kuryoha.
Kandi igisubizo cyiki kibazo gishobora kuba kimwe: kwitwara hamwe nkuko bisanzwe. Ntukambare hamwe nabo, kimwe na tube yanditse. Ariko ntugwe mu buryo buremereye kandi ntukavuge ko bashinja amahitamo, kwiga ko inshuti yawe itarya inyama. Ingeso nziza, utitaye kumpamvu zituma baterwa - iki nikibazo cyumuntu, ntabwo ari rusange.