Byemezwa ko hari ubwoko bubiri bwa daffiodils: kwerekana kandi bihishe. Ubwoko bwa mbere biroroshye cyane kubimenya, kubera ko abantu nkabo bagaragaza kumugaragaro imyitwarire yubusa, bukoreshwa kandi bukaze, mubisanzwe bifitanye isano na Narcissism. Nahishe Narcissus, ariko, ntigaragara. Birasa naho byoroshye kandi byoroshye, ariko imbere "guhisha" kwihesha agaciro cyane.
Mubisanzwe dafdils yihishe ubwazo zifatwa nkifuzwa kandi byoroshye. Muri icyo gihe, imico yabo yihariye yitiranya inzitizi. Mugihe ba Narcissus yo kumenya ko ari hejuru yuburinganire hamwe nuburyo bugaragara kandi butangaje, umuseke wihishe kugirango umenyeko bigoye.1. Bafite ubukana bwa pasiporo na Family
Narcissus yinjiye mu makimbirane, ushaka kubibona kandi yishimira gutungurwa, birashobora kuba inzika kuri kimwe mubyo ukeneye. Iyo ukeneye ubutoni, azavuga "yego" kandi akwemeza gukemura ikibazo, kandi ntagomba guhangayika. Noneho ni "ifuro" wenyine wenyine, kuko bizatekereza ko igihe n'imbaraga zacyo.
Bizirinda gukora ibyasezeranijwe, hanyuma tugerageza kudafata terefone mugihe ugerageza kumuvugisha. Kandi iyo amaherezo uyibona kubwimyitwarire nkiyi, azatangira kurahira no gutongana ukuntu yaremerewe akazi nuburyo wagombaga kwerekana ibivugwa mu buryo budafite ishingiro igihe cye kivuga igihe cye. Kandi niyo abikora ibyo wamubajije, urashobora kwizera udashidikanya ko azabwira abantu bose uko wabitayeho kandi ukigaragaza uwahohotewe.
Bamwe mu banyarugosi nabo ntakibazo bafite bwo gukoresha, bitera icyaha. Bakoresha manipulation nkabo kubona ibyo bashaka. Kurugero, niba ashaka ko ugumana na we murugo, arashobora gutangaza ko yumva amerewe nabi. Niba ambwira ko mu gihe ntakintu kimubaho, Narcissus azasubiza ikintu nka: "Nibyiza, genda kandi ugende neza kumara umwanya. Gusa ko wari uzi, mfite ikibazo cyo guhumeka, kugira ngo npfe mu gitero cya asima igihe icyo ari cyo cyose. "
2. Ntibura impuhwe
Kwerekana kandi bihishe daffivil ifite egocentric kimwe kandi ntakinisha abandi. Ku bijyanye na daffidil y'ibanga, ibi birashobora kwigaragaza mubyukuri ko bitumva, kandi kandi ntibigaragaza ko bashishikajwe numuntu cyangwa ikintu cyose kidamureba muburyo butaziguye. Akenshi bakaraba ibyo abandi bantu bakeneye, nubwo bishobora kwigira kukwitaho. Ikigaragara nuko kubabaza nabandi bagerageza kubashyiraho ibibazo byabo.3. Birakabije
Interactive Narcissisis mubisanzwe yumva cyane kandi udashobora kwihanganira uburyo ubwo aribwo bwose bwo kunegura. Bahuye n'amagambo mabi kuri bo, bazaburanishwa (kandi, mu gukora ibi bisobanutse neza byo kwinezeza no gukoresha impaka zo kwirengagiza), ndetse no mu bihe "umuntu usanzwe" akora neza uko ibintu bimeze. Mubisanzwe bagerageza guhisha umubare bahangayikishijwe nuko banenga, kandi ahubwo bakivuga batitayeho.
4. Ntibashobora gukora umubano mwiza.
Imiyoboro ya Dafractive ifite impungenge nyinshi mugushinga umubano nabandi bitewe nubugizi bwa nabi bwo kwihesha agaciro. Bashobora no kwirinda umubano kubera ubwoba ko kunanirwa bishobora kutihanganirwa cyane. Abashakanye barcissiani-intobe basuzumwa no kutanyurwa no guhungabanya ikintu runaka (bitandukanye no kwerekana imise milfdine, bitwa imbaraga, ubugome no gutesha agaciro).5. Barashinja abandi, kandi ntabwo ari bo
Umuseke w'amakimbirane uzagerageza gushinja umuntu wese hirya no hino mu mezi yabo, ntuzigere wemera inshingano z'umuntu ku kuba "bitagenze neza."
Bazashinyaguriza ababyeyi babo kuba batabahaye amahirwe ahagije mu bwana, kandi shebuja nuko abaha amafaranga ahagije. Bazashinja inshuti zabo mubyukuri kuba batabafashe guhaza abantu bakenewe, kandi bafasha mu rukundo badashobora kwinjira mubucuti nabo.
Niba usanga urimo ukorana na daffidil iruhande rwawe, burigihe ukeneye kwibuka ko bikwiye guhora ukurikiza ubwenge kandi utabyitwaramo mumarangamutima. Birakenewe kandi gusobanukirwa neza kwihesha agaciro no kwirinda gukoresha wenyine.