Kwinjira mubusabane bushya, twumva twishimye kandi dufite ubwoba. Dufite ubwoba ko tuzatanga umwanya munini kandi dushishikajwe nundi muntu cyangwa ntakintu kizabaho, kandi tuzababara. Ariko, hari ibibazo bishobora gufasha kumva niba umubano wacu uhoraho cyangwa uza. Yerekana ko abantu munzira nziza yo kubaka umubano muremure, wishimye?
Ku ntangiriro, biragoye kumenya uburyo bwo guteza imbere ibindi tumenyana numuntu uwo ariwe. Nk'uko abahanga bavuga, kugira ngo bamenye uburyo ingaruka ze zose zizagenda, 15 ibikorwa bihuriweho, nko kwinjira mu ishyaka, igitaramo, ifunguro cyangwa kugenda. Nyuma yubu bunararibonye, ishyaka ryundi muntu rigera kurwego rwo hejuru, noneho hatangira kugwa, biganisha ku gutandukana, cyangwa isano iri hagati yabafatanyabikorwa irakura kandi ikorana.Emera amakosa
Imyitwarire n'imyitwarire itandukanye nabyo bigira ingaruka zikomeye kubitsinzi mumibanire hagati yabantu. Ni ngombwa cyane uburyo tubona ubwacu tujyanye nundi muntu. Ku ruhande rumwe, turashaka rwose ko umukunzi wacu tubona muri twe ibyiza, kandi kurundi ruhande, turateganya ko dushobora kwiba ubwacu, kandi ibitagenda byose bizemerwa.
Kuba hafi hagati yabantu babiri biriyongera iyo tuzi ibibi byacu. Kubera iyo mpamvu, turabyemera, kandi, nyamara, ntugange umubano. Abahanga bemeza ko inzira ivamo izava muri stage yo mu buryo bufatika, izerekana uburyo abafatanyabikorwa bumva bamerewe neza. Niba abafatanyabikorwa bumva bamerewe neza mugihe hamwe nibyo bakunda, umubano uzakomeza.
Nk'uko ubushakashatsi bwakorewe ku ruhare rw'abashyingiranywe, abashimangira umubare bameze nkundi banyuzwe n'imibanire. Kumenya ibisa byerekana kuramba. Isano hagati yabafatanya ni ngombwa gukomeza umubano wigihe kirekire. Ihame ryo "gukurura ibinyuranye" rikora mugihe cyo kwibanda. Clarkves (2007) yerekanye ko iyo abashakanye basa nibitekerezo byuburezi nubusabane bwo gutandukana, ibyago byo gutandukana bigabanuka.
Umubano wihishe
Ubwiza nigihe cyacu bigira ingaruka kubitekerezo byiswe. Ikigaragara ni uko ibyo tubika amashyirahamwe n'amashyirahamwe ya kahise, duhita tureka umubano nundi muntu. Niki kigaragaza ibyiyumvo byacu, mubindi, kumwenyura, guhuza cyangwa guhuza amajwi. Nk'uko abashakashatsi bavuga ko ibikorwa byiza bihishe bijyanye na mugenzi, uburyo bwizewe bwo kwizirika muri iyi mibanire.
Ubushakashatsi bwakozwe, bwasabye guhitamo byihuse amagambo yishyuzwa n'amarangamutima ashingiye ku mafoto yerekanwe na mugenzi we. Igisubizo cyihuse hamwe namagambo meza yerekana imyifatire myiza kubafatanyabikorwa. Kandi abafite imyifatire myiza kuri buriwese batangaje ibibazo bito mubucuti mugihe runaka.