Rimwe na rimwe, ikinyoma Reba uko ubwayo kiva mu rurimi. Birasa nkaho ibintu byose bizoroha kuri buri wese, buriwese arabikora, kandi muri rusange ni utuntu duto. Ariko nubwo atazigera ahinduka, kuba ugomba kubeshya ibi bibazo 10, byerekana ko umubano wawe atari mwiza cyane.
Kubeshya kubyerekeye kwinezeza
Ntabwo bigoye kwitwaza ko dushimirwa nimpano ye. Kandi ntugomba guhangayikishwa nuko azababara cyangwa ngo asubize ibibazo bigoye. Ariko niba akoze ikintu nkuko yabimenye, niba utavuze? Ntabwo yumva abahangayikishijwe, nuko bicuza nyirabuja, azatekereza ko kubera ko ari mwiza kuri wewe, bivuze ko bizakorana nabo.Kubeshya gahunda zawe z'ejo hazaza
Asutswe nijoro ryerekeye aho uzajya, ukora iki, kandi nawe, nawe: "Yego, yego," tegereza urebe. " Igihe kirekire uzakurura hamwe nukuri, niko ikigo cyikiyaga cyubatswe nacyo, kandi ibisigazwa byacyo birababaza. Ntukabikore gutya.Kuryama kuri leta ya psyche yawe
Kongera impungenge, kwiheba cyangwa syndrome yateye imbere-ku gahato, bitandukanye n'indwara z'umubiri, ntizijugunywa mu maso, ariko ntibazanyuramo, cyane cyane iyo bagerageje kubihisha. Twese dufite uburenganzira ku nkoko z'umuntu ku giti cye, ariko ababo bagomba gutangwa mwizina.Kubeshya Urukundo rwawe
Urukundo ruratandukanye. Urukundo rwa Platonic, kurambagiza urukundo, ishyaka ryumuyaga cyangwa ikintu mu mwuka "Yewe Mana, mbega umuntu, nshaka umuhungu wanjye." Nibyiza kuvuza mubyukuri verisiyo zawe kandi niba ushaka urukundo ruto, guhamagara kandi ntukihute kugirango umenyere n'ababyeyi bawe, kandi niba ubishaka kandi ucecetse hano hariya.Kubeshya Kudakunda
Ni ubugome.Kubeshya aho ukomeza
Niba utamuteguriye gutungurwa, noneho biragaragara, hariho ibintu bimwe mubuzima uhisha nkana umuntu ukunda. Mu nyigisho, ni umwe mubantu bakomeye mubuzima bwawe. Niba rero ugiye muri cafe, kandi kukibazo "urihe?" Mu buryo bwikora gusubiza "mu iduka ryatangiye", birakwiye kugenzura - mwese muraho neza?Ibinyoma Kubijyanye nuburyo twakuvugana
Imana hamwe nayo, hamwe nubukangurambaga bwa Tramisu. Ariko ubu niba ufite terefone ya kabiri yihishe neza cyangwa imeri yibanga, kandi ntukorana na Maty Hari, ibintu byose biri hano.Kubeshya ku imari yawe
Hisha ibibazo byamafaranga yawe, imyenda, inguzanyo, inyemezabwishyu - ububi nubuswa. Hisha uburyo bwawe - ikimenyetso cyurwego rwo kutizerana umukunzi. Amahitamo yombi ashishikajwe no guhindukirira ibibazo niba utinze kuganira kwabo.Kubeshya kubyo mubi
Ikibazo ni ikihe? Ibintu byose ni byiza. Byagenze bite nawe? Ntacyo, - ibiganiro bimenyerewe? Urukundo ntiruzemeza telepathis. Ariko bikubiyemo gushigikira ababo. Niba ubwiravugishije ukuri "Ndumva mbi," kandi mu gusubiza uzabona ikindi kitari inkunga, bizaba ari ibibazo bye. Ibyo ari byo byose, mu gihe uvuga ngo "Byose nibyiza, byose ni byiza," uri, mbere ya byose, waba witwaye, haba kwiheba, cyangwa gusenyuka ubwoba.Kubeshya kubyo ukomeza inshuti
Birumvikana ko ari byiza kubwira abantu "twatandukanye n'inshuti," ariko niba utavugana kandi ukaba utagiye kuvugana nabo byoroshye kandi uvugishije ukuri, uraryamye. Ntabwo ari ngombwa kugirango ubu buswa, ubahe ibyiringiro bitari ngombwa, cyangwa biha inshingano zawe. Nibyo, kandi igitekerezo cyubucuti ntabwo gifite agaciro. Birashoboka rwose kuguma kuryoha no kuba byiza, gusa kuvuga neza kandi bishakishwa amahirwe kuri we.