Umwanditsi w'iyi nyandiko yemera ko umugore agomba no kwita ku mugabo we. Niba kandi adakora ibi - ibi bizakora ikindi. Twanze kubazwa aya mabaruwa kandi muri rusange twemera ko ubuheburayo bwubatse byibuze atari bwiza. Ariko, ibimenyetso nibisobanuro byagaragaye ko ari amatsiko kuri twe. Turatangaza nta fagitire.
Ntiyumva
Urataha ugatangira kuvugana numugore wanjye, umunsi wawe wari umeze ute. Umuyobozi wumupfayongo, na bagenzi bawe - ibinyoma bidafite ubushobozi. Nyuma y'akazi, wirukiye mu muhanda ufite umunyeshuri mwigana, utabonye imyaka makumyabiri, yarasize uruhara, akingura, akingura Syalkovo. Cyangwa ugerageza gusobanura igishushanyo mbonera cya Bakerarugendo murugo ko waje kwitwara nawe kuroba. Kandi mu buryo butunguranye urabona ko arunama kandi agatanga ahantu heguye, hari igitekerezo mu mbuga nkoranyambaga. Mu bihe bibi cyane, arakubwira inyandiko ifunguye: "Kuki umbwira iyi myanda?". Ntabwo umwitayeho. Ariko ntacyo: mubyukuri ntabwo uri umusore woroshye, ufite icyo ubwira. Kandi uzabona rwose umukobwa uzabishaka. Nibyiza, kuko abantu muri rusange bashimishije cyane mubisanzwe, cyane cyane abagabo.
Itwara ubusa
Buri gihe atangira kukubwira ikintu cyose. Ikintu umaze kumva inshuro mirongo ine. Ukuntu yagiye gutembera mumashuri yisumbuye. Mugihe yari afite ubwoba bwo kunywa imyaka 15 (kandi kuva icyo gihe inywa cyane cyane, bitandukanye nawe). Nkuko nyina yahannye imyaka 10 kubera ikinyabupfura. Mugihe yakoraga mu bwana butwara kugendana, hamwe nibisobanuro byose neza kugeza kumazina. Oya, inshuro zibanza byari byiza kandi birashimishije. Ariko, uko bigaragara, kuva icyo gihe nta shyangana mubuzima bwe byabaye. Kandi niyo kubwimpamvu zidashoboka gutandukana numugore, mubuzima bwa muntu bibaho, ntibikwiye gutega amatwi yitonze undi?
Ntushimwe
Ntacyo bitwaye kubyo ukora: kumanika akazu, guteka ifunguro, andika igitabo cyinyongera cyangwa ugataha kare kare hanyuma uzane umushahara - byose birahari? Wowe, muto wo kugukubita kumutwe? Nibyiza, yego, mubyukuri, iki nikimwe mubikenewe byumuntu - kugirango ashimirwe no kubashima. Niba kandi ibi bitabaye murugo, urashobora gusanga undi mugore uzakora buri gihe: "Uri mwiza." Ubuswa, birashoboka, ariko bikora ibibazo.
Uhuze
Yahise areka kwandika igihe na wewe, no mu rugo, n'ibindi byose. Ibintu bikomeye cyane: Yandika ibitekerezo mu mbuga nkoranyambaga, ikibi cy'umuntu kuri interineti. Cyangwa ugira umukino wa mudasobwa. Cyangwa kurwana kugirango usohoke ibihingwa byororono bidasanzwe. Niyo mpamvu idategura, ntakora imibonano mpuzabitsina, yibagirwa gutsinda no gutatanya, aho bibyibutsi. Kandi kubwimpamvu runaka ukeneye umugore, ntabwo ari agronom cyangwa umuderevu wa lagg-3 umurwanyi.
Mama hafi
Mubuzima bwawe byabaye cyane, mama benshi. Mama yaje koga arahaguma. Mama yagiye kwicarana n'umwana - kandi buri munsi. Urya kuri mama buri wikendi. Mama (Bihitamo, by, Mama; inshuti ukunda, uwahoze ari umugabo, umutware kukazi cyangwa umuvumo arashobora gufata umwanya munini) hamwe nawe burigihe! Hano, muburyo bwiza, ugomba gukora gusa, ariko niba bitunguranye bidashoboka, hariho inzira. Kuri ICYITONDERWA: Nta mahirwe yo kuri nyirabuja azakumenyesha mama.
Ntabwo yambaye neza
Urataha, aragenda, ahura, reka tuvuge hamwe nabakobwa. Kandi uhita ubona ko byarashushanyije, mu mwenda ugufi, amavi meza yambaye ubusa. Kandi ijya kukazi mu ipantaro na Thongs kugirango hataba ipantaro itagaragara. Impumuro, ihungaho kandi ishyirwaho. Ni ryari uheruka kumubona murugo? Yambara ku isi yo hanze, kubakorana, kubakobwa bakobwa, kubagenzi basanzwe muri metero, birashoboka ndetse no mu mukundwa. Kandi murugo ujya mumirimo itangaje, muburyo buteye ubwoba, muri t-shirt irambuye ya t-shirt ya siryir akomoka. Mu gihe cy'itumba, ntabwo yogoshe amaguru, kuko agerageza nde? Kuri wewe? Byiza! Reka undi mugore agerageze kugutegurira, azategura ukuza kwawe, gukuramo hari ibirenze, Frank parufe yatoranijwe kandi yambara imyenda y'imbere.
Ntugaburire
Urya icyumweru kinini cyibanze? Ubushize umugore akeneye ubushakashatsi bukomeye mbere yubukwe? Firigo ifunze hamwe nihungabana? Ifunguro rya mugitondo rishyushye uheruka kugaragara mubiruhuko, muri hoteri "byose bikubiyemo"? Ntabwo rero bizagenda. Ibiryo biryoshye bifitanye isano nigitsina na rusange hamwe nibyishimo byabagabo. Niba adakugaburiye, agaburira undi, biracyari byoroshye cyane.
Irengagiza Imibonano mpuzabitsina
Ni ryari wabikoze bwa nyuma? Ibyumweru bibiri bishize? Umwaka mushya kenshi? Afite umutwe? Yari ananiwe? Afite akazi kenshi? Ngomba kubyuka kare ejo? Ntabwo ari mumyumvire? N'ubusobanuro? Ntabwo a nyirabuja utigera abivuga, ariko hari amahirwe make kuri yo.
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