Umuntu umwe wigisha wa interineti yashyizeho ibikoresho hamwe na subtitle "ibibi kwisi kwisi byisi bijya mwishuri kugirango baryo abantu bose." Nyuma yo gutanga amabwiriza yo kumena urwenya, abahagarariye abanyabikoresho batangiye kwerekana ko ibi atari ugusebya, ahubwo ni amagambo ya gicuti, kandi kubera ko badashaka kubabaza umuntu, - nta kintu na kimwe bashaka kubabaza, - nta kintu na kimwe bashakaga kubabaza, - nta kintu kibabaza hano. Niki kibi muri "subtoding ya gicuti"? Ubona gute useka wenyine? Icyifuzo "Kanguka wenyine" akenshi wumva ababa intoki za farusi, Lukine, urwenya nandi masoko. Igikorwa cyo gusetsa ni ukugaragaza akarengane rusange, gabanya uko ibintu bimeze, gukuraho impagarara. Ariko kudakubita uwo bibabaza, ntabwo ari ugushimangira urwego, ntutandukane abantu kubwubashywe kandi abashobora kwinezeza gusa, nkuko bidafite umunezero gusa. Kuvangura (gushyigikira ivangura) urwenya. Ingingo.
Ubutumire kumuntu uvangura kugirango witabire ibikomere - birashira byibuze. Iki nikintu cyoroshye cyane - kugirango ushireho ikinyabupfura cyawe no gucika intege kwawe "kubura urwenya" uko wahohotewe. Ubundi se, iyo ibintu byose bijya mu ndege ya "urwenya" - Nigute byababaza, sibyo? Cyane kuva ta "z'iruha" cyangwa "ubuswa" mubyukuri "bisekeje", nibyo? Abantu bafite ibyo cyangwa ibindi biranga umubiri birahari kugirango bahuze abandi, sibyo? Ati: "None se kuki babona urwenya rubabaje kuri aderesi zabo, birasekeje cyane - bitandukanye na benshi. Umugore wuzuye ntabwo abyina ngo acike abandi, ariko kubera gusa kubyina? Urakomeye ?!
Uwahohotewe, arwanya, ninde ugaragaza ko atanyurwa - ni akaga. Arashobora gukurura abakoze ubutabera. Muri rusange, abantu bake bashaka kumva ko ari umututsi kandi, cyane cyane, ntamuntu numwe ushaka guhanwa. Ibintu byose, muburyo, kumva ko bibabaza abadatera inzika - nabi. Ariko abantu basetsa muri ubu buryo ntibatera kumva bafite ingirakamaro, bakomera, bakomeye, barasanzwe, amaherezo, amaherezo. Urwenya narwo ni uburyo bw'igihano. Ariko ikintu kimwe, iyo dutsengurutse umukozi wangiritse cyangwa turushaho kwiga cyane kubagabo - ntibishoboka ko babura imbaraga n'imbaraga zabo kubera urwenya.
Amaherezo, ubwenge burashobora kwibasirwa (nubwo duseka kukibazo - ntibisobanura gukemura). Ariko urwenya hejuru yabantu binini, urugero, kwemeza ibikomere, urwenya kubyerekeye "abana bato" stereotypes yuburinganire kandi, icyarimwe, kwiyambura abategarugori uburenganzira bwo gukora amakosa. Tugomba cyangwa guhora tuba mu mpagarara, gutinya ku mutima no gusetsa, kuko guseka gusetsa imbere, bigusetsa, cyangwa ngo bigushoboze kubikora, byoroshye kuzamuka kuri Calvary yawe hamwe numwenyura ushimishije . N'ubundi kandi, ibi ntabwo bikubita - ibi ni "urwenya" gusa, verisiyo yoroheje y'ihohoterwa rishingiye ku mitekerereze, isobanura - kubera "mu bwoba" ni ihohoterwa rikorerwa ibanga.
Guseka nikikorwa cyiza. Physiologically, inyoni ndende, birashimishije cyane. Urwenya hejuru yabahohotewe bitera ubuhemu, nubwo igihe yari asanzwe ashimisha uwatanyaga, yari asanzwe ashimisha kumva ko ari indashyikirwa mubwenge bwe. Hejuru y'intege nke ziraseka kuko birashoboka. Kandi mu buryo butunguranye ntibishoboka, nemeza igitambo cyo kubyara urwenya.
Oya, mubyukuri, utekereza ko nasekeje muburyo bwumubiri wanjye? Ndasekeje kuko nataye ibiryo, ntutinya umunwa? Amaraso yanjye ya buri kwezi, aherekejwe na spasms, kandi reaction yanjye itamererwa neza? Kandi, uragiseke, ndasekeje kubera ibyo unsebya, hanyuma nawe utesha agaciro ibyiyumvo byanjye? Ndasekeje cyane, yego. Birumvikana! Tanga ibinini muri spasms, banderlogs, niba ushaka "gushyigikira". Kwikunda nikintu cyiza mugihe kitajyanye no kwihesha agaciro. Muri make, nzi ko batatanye. Mu mwuga wanjye, nibyiza birafasha, ariko buri gihe ndaryama. Nta kibi kiri mu gihe nzabona isafuriya itaha yatwitse asetsa no kwandika inshuti: "Ndi nyina w'ikiyoka! Pan aratsinzwe, Pasta ararekurwa kandi yifatanye n'ingabo zanjye! ". Ariko igihe barimo uburozi ku ishuri kubera imiterere ya gihanga n'ubunini bw'ikirahure kandi bahimbye urwenya rwose - sinari mfite impamvu yo kwicisha bugufi. Ntakintu gisekeje mumutwe wanjye. N'uburenganzira bwo guhindagukana ku buryo nzabaho niba urenze ibirahuri, nta muntu. Kandi oya, ntabwo ngiye kwemeranya nukuntu igitekerezo cyo gutsinda igiterago cyanjye gisekeje. Wibuke: "Useka wenyine" - Ntabwo "useka hamwe nabakozeho." Ntugashyigikire abakubabaza. Ntabwo usekeje. Ibibera nawe ntabwo bisekeje.
Guseka birashobora kuba ibintu bitunguranye kubintu bitunguranye, kubitekerezo bibabaje, bidashoboka, bitihanganirwa, - mubyukuri, ntibishobora byanze bikunze bifitanye isano no gusetsa cyangwa ikintu gisekeje. Muri rusange, iki kandi nigisubizo gisanzwe kubibyabaye ku isi ikikije. Ariko "Ndaseka ubwawe" mu bantu bagusebya - bisobanura "guseka hamwe natwe ku buryo twatukatiye," twikubise, "tugire umutekano, twemeze neza". N'ababikoraho Gusuzugura ntabwo bisekeje. Guseka ko utukana - bisobanura kumvikana nikibazo kandi ukemerera igikomere gukomeza, mugihe bigomba guhagarikwa. Ntutinye kuba serieux. Ntutinye gusa naho urambiranye cyangwa urambiwe. Hariho impamvu nyinshi zo guseka. Ariko urugomo rwagukoreye ntabwo arimwe murimwe.
