Umwanditsi n'umwanditsi Anna Kozlova yatangarije imiyoboro rusange, isa n'ubuzima bwa nyina ntabwo iri muri sinema n'ibinyamakuru by'abagore. Twifuzaga kuvuga ko dutangaza nyuma yicyifuzo cye, ariko baratekerezaga kandi bahitamo kwemera ko twemera gusa.
Ndumva meze neza kubabyeyi, simbyitayeho kuri lick. Kubwibyo, abagore bose baguma muri Ubwenge bwera kandi bahuriza hamwe bahita bagutumira ngo usohoke - uri. Iyi nyandiko ntabwo arinyigisho kandi nta cyifuzo, ni inkuru gusa yerekeye amarangamutima nabonye kuva igihe cyavutse kuva ivuka ry'abana banjye kandi ntiyemerewe kandi ntiryabenye kandi ntiyigeze afata nk'abantu cyangwa ngo atere abantu kandi atigeze atera abantu hafi yanjye cyangwa ngo atabisobanukiwe cyangwa ngo atere. sosiyete. Clip yumwaka mushya kubyerekeye ikibi cya Santo yakozwe mu rubanza rwanjye.
Umuntu wese azi ko abana bigoye, bigoye, bisaba kwiyanga. Gusa ikintu ntamuntu numwe uzakubwira nuko abana bari munsi yimyaka itatu bararambiranye.
Nababajwe cyane no kwishora mu mwana muto, ariko abandi bantu basaga nkaho babibona. Bapfuye bazize ubwuzu muri kimwe mubitekerezo by'umwana, kandi byantwaye umusazi. Natekereje nti: Icyo kiremwa ndi, niba ntakunda kumarana numwana wanjye bwite. Nkumuntu mukuru ashobora kwica icyicaro cyinzu, abayoborwa no kugaburira, ibisasu no gukaraba, ndacyatumvikana.
Nakunze abana banjye, ariko nashakaga guhunga igihe cyose, nanjye ndi vinila. Byongeye kandi, buri gihe habayeho umubare wababyeyi muri psychoisi yibyumba bikaze, byerekanaga urugero rwiza. Muri rusange, inkingi n'ingorango by'ibitaro, inkingo no mu biganiro n'ibitaro bivuga ko ari babikuye ku mutima. Kandi kubwibyo, nanjye ndi vinyl ubwanjye.
Hirya no hino, harimo n'abandi "" beza ", ku buryo byagaragaye neza: Ntabwo nkwiye kubona ibyifuzo bwite, usibye icyifuzo, kugira ngo umwana ari mwiza. Byongeye kandi, inyungu zanjye hafi ya yose zasaga nkibangamiye imibereho myiza yumwana. Ntushobora kwitoza muri salle (wowe, ni iki, cyabyaye gari ya moshi?), Ntushobora kuva mu rugo (kandi watekereje uko umwana adafite mama?), Ntushobora kuba ibikorwa byimibereho (kandi uzava mumwana ku giterane runaka, aho abantu bose bazagukorora?!), ntushobora no kuvugana numwana, aho kwicara kuri mudasobwa!).
Igihe natangiraga kujya hanze hamwe na stroller, natunguye uburyo abantu badasanzwe kandi batamenyereye batangiye kunjyana. Umukinnyi wabaye imbarutso yabemereye kuvugana nanjye, umpe inama, kandi akenshi unegura. Nubwo nasaga nkaho njya arira cyane "Mfasha, sinzi icyo gukora !!!". Nabwiwe uko nkwiye kwambara umwana n'icyo yamuha nabi, naciwe intege kubera ko ntashobora gutuza umwana iyo atakamwe, cyangwa ako kanya, divayi ).
Abaganga nabo bambonye muri njye, nibyiza, batandukanijwe mubitekerezo, mubi cyane - udukoko. Urugero, igihe umuhungu wanjye yagwaga abona ihunga, umuganga wo mu bitaro yanyeretse urumuri kuri X-Ray kandi abaza rwose kubijyanye no gutwita. Ibi byose byasaga nkaho nashizeho umuganga, natwitega, none umuganga ahatirwa kubabara.
Ubuzima bwanjye bwose nyuma yo kuvuka bwabana bwasaga nkaho nahaye societe uburenganzira bwo kundeba no guca ibikorwa byanjye. Ibisabwa byampaye, nubwo bisa nkaho bidashoboka, njye, nyamara, bizeraga bivuye ku mutima ko bishoboka kubahiriza ihame.
Naje mu muganga w'amagufwa ku yakiriwe, arabaza, kandi ibyo ntajyana n'umwana kuri physiotherapie? Kandi ni ukubera iki buri munsi mumikino makumyabiri ntabwo nkoresha imikino ngororamubiri yaka kandi igitambaro cyikaramu no guhinduka, ugomba gufata intoki zawe? Igisubizo "Nta gihe" cyari igisubizo kibi cyane, yahoraga akurikiza igitekerezo: "Niba umaze gutangira umwana, ugomba gukora." I Winbergarten Nabajijwe impamvu ntari amasogisi ya gicyuma na pajama? Niba watangiye umwana.
Ariko nubwo byari biteye ubwoba cyane. Biteye ubwoba cyane ni uko hari amajoro abiri mugihe ababyeyi bose bakora ibi byose. Nabo, ntabitandukanye, ntabwo bari abanebwe kandi bakunda abana babo. Nahoraga mbwira kubyerekeye ba nyina. Tanya - Byakozwe neza! Inshuro enye mu cyumweru zitwara umukobwa i Perovo kumashuri yumuziki! No ku cyumweru nacyo cyo gushushanya! Nongeye kumva icyaha cyo kuba inshuro enye mu cyumweru ndashaka ku cyumweru ndashaka, telefoni gusa ni inkunga yanjye, cyane cyane kuva ku ya 10 kugeza 12, iyo hari spongebob.
Byari bibi cyane hamwe no gutumanaho kugiti cyawe. Iyo abantu twihuye gusa kukazi, namenye ko mfite abana, babanje kwibaza, kandi sinibwiye iki? Ni ukuvuga, basaga nkibisanzwe batangira kuvuga mumagambo: Mwaramutse, ndi a'Aka, njye, ni mu nzira, hariho abana!
Ndankomere cyane kundusha ibibazo: abana bawe bameze bate? - urugero. Birashoboka, iki nikibazo cyinzirakarengane, ndetse n'ikinyabupfura, ariko nashoboraga kugira gahunda isuzuguro. Ibitekerezo byukuri ko, usibye abana, kumbwira kubyo, nanjye tuvugana kubyo, nanjye tuvuga icyo, ntakindi kintu gishimishije.
Mubyukuri, ntubaze bagenzi bawe, umugabo wawe ameze ate? Kandi nyoko ameze ate? Kandi uburozi bwawe bwa cervixy ari gute? Kandi kubyerekeye abana gusa bifatwa nkibyemewe ndetse ni itegeko. Kandi igisubizo nyacyo gihora nkiki - kurambura iminwa mumwenyura utarya neza hanyuma uvuge kurota: Yego, ni byiza! .. (Niba uvuze ko bakubonye, abantu bakanguka).
Bose bashishikajwe nuburyo abana bamara mugihe mama akora? Mubisanzwe iki kibazo kivuga kugirira impuhwe abana. Niba uvuze ko abana bafite nanny kandi ukamwishyura amafaranga menshi, abantu bazunguza imitwe. Kubwi ko umugongo ku kazi, ibibazo byahoraga byumvikanyweho: Kuki ubyara abana kubasiga kuri Nanny bakajya kukazi? ..
Urugero, urugero nkurugero, numvise ibihe bigoye byubuzima bwawe, numvise ikintu kimwe. Niba mubijyanye numwuga, isura, uburemere ndetse no mu mibonano mpuzabitsina yo kurwanya ikibi, hanyuma hamwe nabana muburyo ubwo aribwo bwose. Buri munsi, abagore bashya n'abashya bifatanya n'amarushanwa yitwa "umubyeyi mwiza", nta no bakekwaho ko isiganwa ritazigera rirangira, kandi nta gihembo.
Inkomoko y'Inyandiko: Anna Kozlova
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