Izh Izh yatugiriye hamwe nigitekerezo cya marcoon yapfuye. Ibuka Demotivator: "EEE ... kuki nkeneye marcoon yapfuye? Ndi umukunzi wanjye cyane! "? Kimwe.
Byose bijyanye niki - birashobora no korohera gusobanura bimwe mbona ko ari ngombwa. Iyo twegereye abantu - ntacyo bitwaye, kurambagiza, gukundana cyangwa kubara mu muryango - urashobora kugenda inzira ebyiri.
Inzira ya mbere ni ugugura abumva. Ni we kandi ni nyamukuru kumahugurwa yumugore. Uhuye namakoraniro - urareba kandi witwara muburyo runaka (cyangwa wambaye amajipo, uramwenyura ucecetse, cyangwa uzunguza ibitugu ucecetse kandi ugura imodoka nkunda), kandi - mu buryo bwongera ubumuga bwabantu Urashobora, ugabanye amahirwe yo kwanga. Kandi ugabanye umwihariko wawe - ariko hano ntushobora gukora ikintu.
Ariko hariho ikibazo cya marcoon yapfuye: Abagore benshi nabagabo ntibashobora kwizirika mu ikoraniro batangije ibintu byabo cyangwa ntibashobora na gato.
Ku muntu - nk'urugero, kuri njye, - kubabaza no kutishimira cyane ko uri umugore usanzwe uzatagira amatako kandi, amwenyura, akishimira umuseke. Ibimpaye byose byo gukora imyitozo isanzwe yumugore sinshobora gukora, kuko bivuguruza intego zanjye, indangagaciro n'inzira zawe wenyine. Kandi intego zanjye, indangagaciro n'ishusho ubwacu kuri njye ni ngombwa kuruta gukenera gushyingirwa cyangwa kuba mubucuti.
Kandi ibi bivuze ko mfite marcoon yapfuye. Kandi nzakundana nayo: ni ukuvuga ubufasha bwo kubaka ibiganiro, gushakisha ingingo rusange, urwenya rwose no gushishoza mu wundi muntu, kandi ni njye. Nyuma yo gusoma uyu murongo, Facebook ntazavuga rwose ati: "Ariko buri gihe mbona!". Urashobora kuba. Urashobora kwandika no gusoma, urashobora no gusobanukirwa ibihana, kandi ushobora no gushima umugore kuba ari umunyamwuga mwiza cyangwa imvugo ishimishije. Cyangwa izi gukora Kushidama. Na 95% by'abantu basobanukiwe neza, kandi urwenya rwanjye ruzafatwa nkigitugu, ariko nkubugizi bwa nabi. Kandi mfite amahitamo - kwanga gusetsa kugirango umuntu abeshaho cyangwa ashakisha muri 5% yabantu bumva neza. Kandi ibi nibyo rwose byicyerekezo cya rackaja yapfuye - mu kwanga gukora kuri benshi no mu gushakisha no gushimangira amasano make. Uyu murimo ufite muyungurura - kandi ntabwo bafite umudendezo wo kuba muto cyane, kuko rero ntawundi uzaba. Kandi ntibagomba kuba ubugari cyane.
Mubero ukavuga, uhereye hakurya yo gushyikirana no kumenyera, ukeneye umuntu uzemera marcoon yanjye yapfuye kandi azamwishima kuko nawe arwanya matoke yapfuye.
Kandi ibi bivuze koroheje umubare wabakandida bashobora kuba abakandida hamwe nibitekerezo byo gushakisha kubwiza bune. Kandi kongera amahirwe yuko ntazabona umuntu na gato.
Ariko, iyo mfashe ubu buryo bwo gutumanaho no gukundana no kubigira amahitamo yanjye akomeye, nibyiza kuruta niba nkomeje kugenda na racon wapfuye, ariko simbona kubikuraho. Kubwibyo, igitekerezo nyamukuru cyinyigisho za marcoon yapfuye nizi zikurikira: kwemerwa no gukunda matoke yabo yapfuye, wige kumuvugisha no kumenya abafite.
Byoherejwe na: Adrian Izh