Ubwenge bwabantu "inshuti ishaje iruta abantu babiri bashya bazi byose. Ariko abahanga mu bya psychologue bizeye ko mubyukuri aya magambo ari kure cyane. Hariho icyiciro cyitwa "inshuti zishaje", aho ikwiriye kuguma kure. Kubwinyungu zawe. Noneho, hamwe nibyo abantu kuva kera nibyiza kutavugurura itumanaho n'impamvu.
Abafatanyabikorwa mu bucuruzi batizewe
Niba umuntu yagushyize mubihe wabigizemo uruhare mugukemura ikibazo runaka, ntabwo rero kubara kubufatanye, ahubwo no kuvugana nawe. Niba kandi ushaka rwose guha umuntu amahirwe ya kabiri (cyangwa iya gatanu), birakwiye gutekereza neza, waba witeguye kwihagararaho wenyine kandi igisubizo cyonyine kubibera. Biragoye guhitamo gucana numuntu natangiye urubanza, cyangwa ibyo uzi kuva nkiri muto. Ariko abahanga mu bya psychologue bizeye ko "bimaze guhemukira", uyu muntu azabikora inshuro nyinshi. Ntugire ibyago, jya kure udafite abo bantu.Abaturanyi cyangwa abavandimwe bahinduye ubuzima bwawe ikuzimu
Kubwamahirwe, akenshi bibaho ko ari abantu ba hafi basimbuwe nta shami ryumutimanama. Ahari, benshi bazwiho uko ibintu bimeze iyo ibibwana bimwe byagushizeho, kandi amaherezo, mukiruhuko cyumuryango, ntabwo washimishijwe. Kandi tekereza ko wakoze nabi, ntacyo bimaze. Ahari iyi idasanzwe niyo yaba ababyeyi bawe kubwimpamvu runaka. Cyangwa arashaka kugukuraho kurutonde rwabazungura, shiraho abavandimwe bose kukurwanya.
Kandi, ahari, muri buri nzu yo kubaka ubwoko bwa "nyirakuru wa dandelion y'Imana", abwira abaturanyi b'abatari abaturage. Kandi birashoboka cyane ko nta kibi cyakoze kuri we. Rero, muri ubu buryo, azatanga atinyuka mubuzima. Shira umva aba bantu kera kandi ukemure ejo hazaza.
Amababi yishuri aho umubano utagize
Niba nabonye mu nama y'aba barangije, n'abahoze ari abanyeshuri babitekerezaga ubuzima mu ishuri, ahubwo bihutira ku ijosi, ahubwo babihutira kubara kandi bakabikura bonyine kandi babisiga bonyine hamwe nibuka. Birashoboka cyane, bafite ibyiza gusa murwibutso, kandi uzahora wibuka ibyo bihe byijoro wabigezeho. By the way, hamwe nabantu nkabo nibyiza kutabonana, uburyo bwo kumenya ubwoko bubanziriza.Abakobwa bakundana bigishije abatwara amagare
Urashobora gutongana igihe kirekire, hari ubucuti bwumugore cyangwa udafite ubucuti bwumugore cyangwa atariho, ariko burigihe hariho abadamu basenya umubano no kuganisha kuri cavaliers yabandi, ndetse n'abagabo. Niba kandi ufite ibyo, kandi bongeye guhura munzira yawe, ntukihute kugirango ukingure umuryango wubuzima bwawe. Kandi niyo hashize igihe kinini, kandi ubuzima shyira ibintu byose, bihagije kugirango wibuke ububabare aba bantu bakuzanye. Niba badafite uburenganzira bwo gutabara mubuzima bwawe bakayimena rimwe, ntushobora gushidikanya, bazarongera nongera kubyungura byoroshye.