Impamvu imwe yo guhagarika kwanga

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Saba hafi umukobwa uwo ari we wese ukiri muto kwandika ikintu kuva mubintu icumi yanga, kandi ibintu bine bizabera kubyo yanga.

Kubintege nke, kubuswa, kunanirwa, kuberako nyina cyangwa umugore cyangwa umugore mubi. Benshi baranditswe mu bijyanye n'imico, ibice birasezererwa mu buryo bwenze: "Nanga."

Nubwo buri kimwe cyasomwe kandi rwumva inama za psychologue ziva kuri TV: "Gusa ndakwikunda, kandi byose bizaba byiza kandi biba mu buzima."

Nyuma yizi nama, banga kurushaho. Noneho kuberako badashobora kwikunda. Ariko ibi, nkuko twibuka kuva kuri formula rusange, byoroshye.

Mubyukuri, ntabwo ikora. Nta muntu n'umwe mu isi, ndetse we ubwe, ndetse na nyina n'umukobwa w'amaraso, ntibashobora guhatirwa kwikunda. Gukunda cyangwa kugaragara, cyangwa ntabwo.

Urashobora kugerageza kureka kwanga. Ariko gutekereza imbere yindorerwamo ntibizafasha. Kandi nta marozi nyamukuru kuri uru rubanza.

Ukeneye igipupe. Inyamaswa zose, nziza. Iyi doll ni ibicucu, ibicucu, ntibifata. Afite ayo makosa yose wowe (n'undi wese) yanga. Ubona gute usuzugura, ntugasuzugure, ntukabure ibiryo biryoshye nurugendo, yarose imyaka itatu? Ibi nibyiza, guhana umuntu udafite imbaraga, ubumenyi, ikintu icyo aricyo cyose. Mubwire n'ijwi rirenga. Tekereza umusaza. Ubwiza bw'umugore ni bumwe, bubi, kuko gusaza byamufashe imbaraga, ubu yahanganye cyane, uri, mubi! Birakenewe kuyihana, kuko uzaba umwe. Nibisanzwe, wange umuntu nkawe? Bite ho kuroshya?

Noneho umukecuru ni umwana. Komera kandi uzi ubwenge, ntiyabikoze, kandi nta muntu wayirinda, urashobora guhana umukobwa wumufuka uko umutima une. Ibyo rero ntibigera bamwenyura! Urashobora no, kwishima no kwishima, niko na gereza cyane. Muburyo, umukobwa ararira, yanga? Niba wanze iyo kurira, birakenewe, ibi biteye ishozi, mugihe umuntu akubabaje avuga ko ararira, uzi ko biteye ishozi.

Nibisanzwe kwanga umuntu mubi.

Cyangwa ntabwo?

Uzi icyo mubyukuri utari cyo?

Mubisanzwe, urira, konsole. Guhobera kurinda. Kuvuga ko bigoye kubaho, no gutenguha cyane mugihe ntashobora gucunga, kandi rimwe na rimwe bifasha kujyana nintambwe nto, kandi rimwe na rimwe ntabandi bantu batubaha akarengane, kandi ntibashobora kwizerwa. Guhumuriza gutaka. Arakenewe cyane.

Hanyuma ufate iki gikinisho nawe, mubwenge cyangwa mubyukuri. Azaba muto wowe, nkumukecuru nuwo mwana. Iyo ufite ubwoba, kubabaza no kubabaza, azishyura. Kandi uhumuriza, ibicucu kandi birababaje, kandi umenye neza gutanga ubufasha. Biragoye kubyihanganira, no muri Chagelter nto, birashoboka ko bizoroha.

N'impamvu yo guhagarika kwanga imwe gusa. Urwange bidasanzwe. Cyane cyane ku ntege nke, ubupfu, ubuhanga cyangwa ibyo umuntu ababaza. Umuntu uwo ari we wese. Nawe, yego, na we umuntu uwo ari we wese.

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