Birashoboka ko nta muntu udahangayikishijwe n'itariki ya mbere. Hariho ibitekerezo byinshi mumutwe, ibyinshi muribyo bikubiye uburyo bwo kutareba ibicucu no gushika intege imbere yuwo watoranijwe. Mubyukuri, ikintu cyonyine ugomba gukora nukwifata mumaboko yawe no gutuza. Shita imyumvire yose mu mutwe, kuko itariki y'iki gihe atari yo mbere, kandi amategeko menshi amaze igihe kinini ashaje.
Itariki nkuko parade
Abakobwa biragoye kugerageza gukora ishusho kumunsi wambere kandi bagerageza gukomera kubikoresho byose - niba agatsinsino gafunguye, niba hari imiterere, niba hari maquillas, bitagaragara, nibindi Ibibujijwe cyane, kandi ntacyo bimaze. Kandi ntakivuguruza umubare wibitekerezo byerekana ko abagabo bakunda / badakunda imisumari ndende / ngufi / idahwitse / ibice, nibindi.Noneho, ibitekerezo - abagabo, nabyo, abantu bafite uburyohe nibyifuzo byabo, kandi buriwese afite ibyabo. Abagabo umwe bakunda abagore bafite imyenda ihanitse, abandi - balaunes idafite ishusho. Kandi niba idakora muri salon ya manicure, ntazareba ibara ryibice. Naho agatsinsino, niba atariyoza gato kandi ntirigoye kuri iyi ngingo, hanyuma inkweto ni ikibazo.
Ariko ntibijyanye na byo. Intangiriro yitariki yambere ninama numuntu muzima nyawe ufite uburyohe nuburyo bwawe, imibereho yawe nigitekerezo cyawe. Birashoboka kumvikana kubeshya Uhager, ugerageza kwishora kubyo ukunda no kumenyera icyifuzo cye, ibyo, muburyo bumwe, ntanubwo bisobanutse? Kubwibyo, bike kandi byishimo - shyira ibyo wumva neza.
Kurya inshuro nyinshi gusa
Umugabo yabanje gutanga ahantu kugeza ubu, kuburyo umudamu yashoboraga kwemera icyifuzo cyangwa wanze. Witondere neza umugabo atanga ahantu heza ho guhitamo, guhamagara hagati muri cafe, kandi ibirenge cyangwa byashyizwe hejuru biraguhamagarira kugenda muri parike. Ariko niba hateguwe rimwe na gahunda yabakuze abantu bigenga, noneho icyemezo cyo kunyuraho cyane, neza, nkumuntu nuburyo bwo kwishyura fagitire.
By the way, iri tegeko ritangaje rwose, ariko rigoye ubuzima. Kuko Abagore benshi basabye Ihuriro: "Nibisanzwe kwiyishura wenyine?". Ibitekerezo bya societe mubisanzwe bigabanywa - bamwe bagaragaza umuntu ufite ikibindi, abandi kumugore batangaza ikirango ". Kandi nta gisubizo kiboneye kuri iki kibazo - hano buriwese ayihitamo.
Hariho kurya kugirango yerekane ikibi, ntakimenyetso byerekana ko umugabo azishyura umushinga w'itegeko - igikorwa nk'iki kidategeka umugore. Yari asanzwe "kumutuka" hamwe na societe ye, igihe namarana umuntu. Ariko niba umerewe neza kwiyishura, noneho ubikore - kandi ureke umuntu ashaka, aratekereza.
Ingingo zo kuganira zigomba kuba "byoroshye"
Niki gishobora kuba igicucu kuruta gutekereza kubiganiro mubiganiro? Politiki - Ntibishoboka, idini ni kirazira, amazimwe n'ibibazo ku kazi - nta kuntu. Gato nkabazwa. Ku bijyanye n'ibiganiro, urashobora gukurikiza amategeko rusange gusa: Ntukirengagize gusa ibitekerezo byerekana ibyo uvuga, kandi ukagerageza no kutagerageza gusa kuvuga, ahubwo no kumva undi. Byose, kuriyi ngingo zose zirangira.Kirazira ku gusomana no gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina
Amabwiriza yo gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina no gusomana ni muzima kandi kugeza na nubu, ariko ni ngombwa? Niba usimbutse mu buriri icyarimwe - Umugabo azareba ko byoroshye, gukurura igihe kirekire - azabura inyungu. Ahantu hose ibyifuzo bitangizwa gusa, bite ku mugore? Ese koko nta mpungero zintege nke zamagorofa n "" abishaka "?
Mubyukuri, iyi ngingo iraryoroshye. Kurugero, niba umugabo adafite intego zikomeye, kandi yishyireho intego yo kuryamana numugore runaka, kabone niyo yaba ageze mu gice cye mu mubano we, azasiga umudamu kuri we bidakwiye. Ibinyuranye, inkuru izi imanza nyinshi zubukwe bwiza, aho imibonano mpuzabitsina yabaga kumunsi witariki yambere.
Kubwibyo, ntiwagomba gushyiramo imipaka isobanutse kuriyi ngingo, ariko umva ikibazo numuntu. Niba wumva ko kuba umugoroba wa mbere hamwe na we nibisanzwe, urabishaka, hanyuma ukore kubijyanye no kwishyira hamwe, naho ubundi.