Gusoma ibinyamakuru byababyeyi-ababyeyi, kandi nkaho abana bato nabangavu bahishe ikintu kubabyeyi babo, kuko batinya igihano.
Mubyukuri, nta gihano, kandi abana bakuze bakuze bafite amabanga atazasangira nababyeyi babo. Kandi twasangiye natwe.
Nakunze kuvuga umubare nyawo wa mama winyamaswa zawe.
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Simvuze ko mfite umwenda w'amakarita y'inguzanyo.***
Mama aracyazi icyo naryamanye numugore. Kandi sinkeka ko nzamubwira rimwe.
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Mama ntacyo azi kubigeragezo byanjye.***
Ababyeyi ntibigera bamenya umubare w'abakundana. Kandi ko igitabo cyanjye hamwe nuwahoze ari umugabo cyatangiraga imibonano mpuzabitsina.
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Sinavuze ko ndi mu mibanire n'umugore nanywa itabi. Nyina wa kabiri yavumbuwe ku bw'impanuka.***
Ayo hitchhiking ari bose b'Uburayi mu munyeshuri. Mama na papa bumvise verisiyo twagiye mu imashini yandika.
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Kubyerekeye ibyo njya muri psychotherapi. Kubera we.***
Mkomeza ibanga ko nanditse igitabo kivuga ku muryango wacu. Niki, cered mu gitabo, nubwo waba uri intwari nziza?
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Ndacyahamagarira Mama ibiciro bike byo guhaha, kuko arimo guhura no kubaho - kubaho. Nubwo we ubwe yanyigishije, tubayeho rimwe, urashobora kugoreka amafaranga, kandi birashimishije (akenshi ntibikenewe) ikintu ntikizakunuka cyane.***
Uwo munsi umwe najyanywe muri Detox.
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Ntabwo mbwira icyahawe kabiri.***
Kugeza igihe aba nyuma batabwiye ko nkora imikorere no kubona impamyabumenyi ya psychologue. Imyaka 20 yihishe ko nanywa itabi. Nibyiza, muri rusange, ntibazi ibyanjye hafi ikintu cyose.
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Hisha ababyeyi banjye ko umuhungu nahuye mu myaka 2 ishize, nuko bibe ku munsi umwe yamujyanye kugira ngo arebe ababyeyi be kugira ngo amenye uwo ngiye gusura (yari urugendo, bityo Jyewe mfite imyaka 10, ntabwo nerekanye umuntu), mperutse gufungwa kitazwi kubera kwica hamwe nabakobwa.***
Imyaka 23 ishize ku ya 1 Gicurasi hari urubura. Ababyeyi bari ku kazu, ndi murugo. Kubera ikirere, ntabwo nagiye gutembera hamwe na Egor Uruhinja, ariko mpitamo kubishyira mu kaga ka bkoni, umwuka uhumeka. Amavuta y'umuyaga yashenye vase n'amashami y'imibavu kandi amena isahani nziza muri serivisi, twahungabanye gusa na mama: 29 Mata, papa yabaye isabukuru. Nizeye umwuka wanjye wafashe umwambaro we (yagaragaye gusa). Igitangaje ni uko gufata neza kandi neza. Kandi mumyaka 15 gusa, nyuma yakazi gakomeye, Seam yaragaragaye. Nasuye ababyeyi banjye. Mama yatunguwe - ni gute iyi sahani yamenetse cyane, kandi ryari? Nabwiye. Mama ntiyizeraga igihe kirekire, baravuga bati: Ndasaba iyi serivisi inshuro ijana, zabibona. Ariko ibisobanuro byavuzwe.
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Ntabwo mbwira uko nishyura amafaranga yijwi. Ntabwo navuze uko najyanye ninshuti ziva mu nyanja ngaho jyewe jyeshye kandi noyuhagira nta byose (neza, ubuzima bwite kuri ibi byari urugomo, nkuko tutarimo). Kandi ko ifoto ye yambaye ubusa namaboko ye yashyizwe muri blog izwi cyane. Ibintu byose ni umwere, ariko nyina azi bidashoboka.
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Simbwira ko imyaka itanu yagiye muri psychotherapiste.***
Kuva kera cyane, kugeza kumunsi wa karindwi, bisa nkaho ukwezi kutabivuga kubyerekeye inda - ntanubwo wambere cyangwa icya kabiri.
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Ntabwo azi ibyo nakuyeho gukuramo inda.
Ingingo yateguye Lilith Mazikina
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