Impamvu 9 zitagomba kuba itunganye

"Bikore neza cyangwa ntugerageze na gato," inkanda yongeye kukwangora. Ntumwumve, nyumva. Icyifuzo cyo gutungana cyangiza imiterere, kigabanya umwuga we, ukinga umuhigo wo kwiyubaha no kukubuza inshuti. Twabaruye impamvu 9 zo guhagarika guharanira icyifuzo. Yashoboraga kubona icya cumi, ariko yamaze gushushanya itunganijwe.

Biragoye kubaka umubano

Itunganijwe muri sisitemu yo guhuza imikoreshereze ifite amanota abiri gusa - "gutungana ubwako" na "ntibikwiriye ahantu hose." Hamwe no kwihanganira zeru, incoti ntoya yo gutunganirwa iragoye kubaho no kubaka umubano uwo ari wo wose, uhereye kumuryango. Umusore yagiye kuri scrap gusa kubera ko ifarashi ye atari igicucu, gutunganirwa byirukanwe, kuko akurikira imbere yakazi, inshuti zikabarwa mubyirengagize, kuko badashobora guhuza akabari gatunganijwe.

Byoroshye kumva nkabatsinzwe

By the way, kubatunganye ntibisaba bike. Kandi rero, akenshi birashoboka kumumenya yicaye mu mfuruka no kurira ubuzima bwe bwo kubura. Kubera ko kudahuza amahame ya zahabu mu buryo bwikora bireba ikimenyetso ko ari umurinzi wa none.

Ntibihanganira ibintu bitunguranye

Mubyukuri, hari ikintu gikunze kujya gukurikiza gahunda, kandi niba umuntu utuje azunguza ikiganza agatangaza ko azamanuka mu ngaruka nkizo, kandi ko azamanuka mu mbaraga zamakuba ku isi kandi akura aho kwiruka.

Bafite imbaraga zo kwihesha agaciro

Abatunganya ubutungane bisuzuma bashingiye kubyo bagezeho no gutsinda. Niba kandi intsinzi zidahagije, ntibahobera kandi ntibazagutoza ubwabo bombo neza, kandi bahita batakaza icyubahiro ubwabo. Kuki wubaha uku gutsindwa?

Ni kwiga bike

Kuberako kwiga - bivuze kugerageza ikintu gishya, ikosa, lag, kuzuza ibikomere hamwe nibibyimba nigihe gito cyo kuvange inararibonye. Ubutungane ntabwo bufata ibi. Kubwibyo, akomeje gucika mumurima we kandi ntanubwo agerageza gutera intambwe kuruhande.

Bakeneye kwemerwa

Bakiri umwana, bagendeye ku nkono kugira ngo bahungabanya amashyi y'umuyaga wa mama na Papa, bigaga ku ishuri impaka eshanu kandi b'icyubahiro, muri kaminuza zarwanaga na diploma itukura. Wamenyereye gushimwa no gukwirakwiza vuba, kandi umuntu ukuze uhanganye arakenewe nkumwuka. Akenshi irabashimira ibisigaye byose - umunezero wo kukazi, umunezero wo kwicarana ninshuti nibindi byidagadura bidatanga umusaruro. Kubwibyo, kubwa "kandi urangije!" Gutunganya birashobora gutanga inyungu zayo.

Batunganywa

Kubikorwa byinshi bakora, gutunganirwa ntibikenewe. Ariko biracyagoye guhagarara, kandi gutunganizwa mwijoro ryimbitse biratera akazi mu nyubako yubuzima.

No gukora cyane

Ingaruka zumvikana rwose yingingo yabanjirije iki. Kubura gahunda na gahunda kandi itumanaho ryabantu biganisha ku kuba umutunganya vuba umutungo wacyo kugirango usobanure inyandiko kandi gahunda y'ibice by'indabyo ikurikije indabyo, hanyuma ikagashya vuba. Hanyuma ntushobora guhagarara mugitondo uva ku buriri.

Birasa nabo ko isi irengana

Nibyo, mubyukuri arenganya. Ntabwo abatunganye gusa bagerwaho gusa, ariko kandi bamenetse abapadiri banduye baje baza kukazi gusangira, kandi na batanu nimugoroba bamaze kuryama ku gikaro muri parike. Kuzunguruka birashobora gukorana ninyuma yibumoso, ariko icyarimwe ufite ibitekerezo bya miriyoni hamwe namahuza. Ubusanzwe abiteganya bafite igitekerezo gito, kubera ko kamere yabo itabemerera gutsimbataza igishya, utazanye gutungana uwabanje. No gutungana ni kimwe na horizon, bitagerwaho.