Kugirango ugere ku ntsinzi mubuzima no kwiyerekana kuva kuruhande rwiza, ntabwo bihagije kugira isura nziza kandi ishusho ishimishije. Byongeye kandi, niba urebye abagore bamenyekanye kandi baratsinda, noneho dushobora kumenya ko benshi muribo badafite isura nziza cyangwa ibishusho bitangaje, ariko muri byose haribintu bitangaje, ariko muri byose hariho imbaraga zidasanzwe, benshi bita igikundiro cyangwa charisma.
Umugore ufite charisma agaragara kure, ntibishoboka kutamenyeshwa. Bimaze kugaragara, ibitekerezo bikikije bifite agaciro kumuntu we, nubwo isura yayo ishobora kuba kure. Umugore nkuyu arakomeye kandi meza, ntakintu kibi muri cyo - ni ntarengwa.
Hamwe numugore nyawe, ndashaka kuvugana inshuro nyinshi, ndetse nabagore bifuza kumenya ibanga rye rirambuye, ariko mubyukuri nta ibanga rimwe rihari - biri mumitanya kandi bihoraho na we.
Kuba umugore mwiza ushobora gushaka umuntu uwo ari we wese, ugomba gusa kubishaka cyane.
Nyuma yo kwiga abagore benshi beza, urashobora gutanga ibimenyetso umunani kuburyo abantu bose bahuriza:
1. Umugore mwiza ntabwo ushidikanya, ahora yizeye ko atavuguruzwa.
2. Ikintu cyingenzi mumugore mwiza nuko ahora yizeye muri we. Ntukitiranya ibi ufite kwigirira ikizere bibabaza, Narcissism, aranga imico y'uruhinja. Nibyishimo kandi byumvikana neza - arazi neza aho agenda, iki n'impamvu abikora. Kubantu hafi yabantu, bagaragaza ko bashimishijwe kandi nyabo.
3. gushyikirana numugore mwiza. Abantu babona inyanja nziza, kandi byose biterwa nuko umudamu nkuwa aregwa neza, ahora ahantu heza h'umwuka kandi yiteguye kubisangiza abandi. Kandi ibi byose bibaho bisanzwe. Umugore nkuyu ntabwo ayobora ibiganiro ku buremere burenze, ntarangiza umuntu kandi ntamanza.
4. Umugore nkuyu arashobora gushimishwa abikuye ku mutima inkuru yumubavuga, none, ikibabaje, ubwo bwoko bwikigero ni gake cyane, ni ngombwa cyane.
5. Umugore mwiza ntuzigere uhagarika Umuganiro - Aziyumva kugeza imperuka, noneho azashimangira amakuru yingenzi yikiganiro, azatanga inama zibishinzwe niba ari ngombwa. Kandi nyuma yiyo kuvuga kuri we icyo bikwiye kuvuga.
6. Ishusho yayo yo hanze ihora itekereza kubisobanuro - ni mwiza kumpapuro zimisumari, ariko ni kwiyoroshya, ni bo bomton.
7. Ijwi ry'umugore mwiza ni mwiza, kubera ko abagabo bazi "gukunda amatwi."
8. Kandi inyungu nyamukuru zayo nuko yerekana ko yubaha abandi. Ntuzigere utera umuntu.