Nubwo urukundo ari ibyiyumvo bitangaje biganisha ku miterere y'ibyishimo, biherekejwe no kumva neza kandi bidashira, ntakintu gihora cyiza, kandi mubihe byinshi byose birangirana no kumva ufite imibabaro. Ubuzima ni eferna bwo kumara ku mibabaro kubera kubura urukundo, urukundo rudasanzwe cyangwa urukundo rudashoboka.
Iyo umuntu akundana, yabanje kubeshya, hanyuma byanze bikunze abandi: Oscar Wilde
Kuki dutanga ubuzima nurukundo kumuntu umwe, niba buri munsi ushobora kwishimira ubukuru bwubuzima, uhe rukundo, inshuti nabandi bantu, utigeze wumva ibyiyumvo byo gufuha, kwifuza cyangwa umubabaro. Niba umuntu atekereza gutya, agomba kugerageza kwiga inyungu ntarengwa kuva buri munsi no kwitondera amasomo akurikira azagira ikibazo mugihe umuntu "yinjiye murusobe rwurukundo."
1. Ingendo ku isi
Ntabwo ukeneye kubura umuntu kubura umuntu, kumva ufite inenge cyangwa irungu. N'ubundi kandi, nibyiza kujya mubitekerezo aho bahoraga bifuza gusura, cyangwa kwimura igikapu hejuru yigitugu hanyuma bakajya "aho amaso asa" kugirango abuze iherezo kugirango atungure. Iki nikimwe mubintu ushobora gukora mubuto. Mugihe cyurugendo, urashobora kwiga byinshi kubyerekeye umuco, imigenzo, ibiryo hamwe nubundi buryo butandukanye bwo gutekereza kwisi yose.
2. Iga indimi
Urashobora gufata umwanya wanjye wose wubusa mubikorwa bitanga umusaruro mubyukuri, bitazafasha gusa mugihe kizaza gusa mubikorwa, ariko nanone bizana imbere ibikorwa byubwonko numurimo wimitsi. Ubushakashatsi bwururimi bushya burashobora kugorana kandi busa nkaho butabanje, ariko nimufata imbaraga, ubwonko buzatangira gukuramo igitekerezo gishya kandi buzatanga amashyirahamwe menshi namashyirahamwe yururimi rwamahanga.
3. Tegeka amasomo ahora ashaka
Utitaye ku mwuga cyangwa imyaka, ntabwo bitinda kwiga ikintu gishya. Niba umuntu ashishikajwe no kubyina bigezweho, guteka, gutekereza cyane, abthist cyangwa abudatekereza, agomba kwiyandikisha kumasomo ya mbere aragerageza buri gihe gutera amatsiko. Niba kurangiza amasomo bigaragaye ko inyungu itazimiye, irashobora kuvuka ko umuntu yagiriye ubuzima.4. Gerageza ibikorwa byabakorerabushake
Noneho ubumarane, tuzatekereza ko icyo gihe cyose cyakoreshejwe mu mibanire yashize, hamwe namakimbirane yabo yose no kutumvikana, birashobora gukoreshwa, kurugero, kugirango ufashe abayikeneye bose. Kurugero, kuki utabaye umuganga mpuzamahanga, ufasha abantu kwisi cyangwa mumakimbirane. Urashobora kandi gutembera mu gushyigikira gahunda zo kubungabunga ibidukikije, kugarura amashyamba cyangwa guhinga ibimera, kurinda inyamaswa zo mu gasozi zibangamiwe no kubura cyangwa gukora mu bubiko bw'ibidukikije.
5. Witange byuzuye kubyo ukunda
Nukuri abantu bamwe bumvaga ko bashoboye cyane mukarere runaka, kurugero, mu kunegura kwa firime, umuziki cyangwa ibihangano. Kandi rwose ni. Nubwo bisa nkaho bisa nkaho byabanje, gusa imigenzo no kwihangana birashobora guhindura umuntu muri uru rwego mubikorwa byose byubumenyi. Kandi bizafata umwanya munini, ariko byose nukuri.6. Menya abantu benshi batandukanye
Ntibikenewe ko tujya ku rundi rukundo rw'isi kugira ngo duhure n'abantu benshi, buri kimwe kifite inzira, ingengabitekerezo, ingengabitekerezo, ibitekerezo, n'ibindi bizoroha kubona ko buri muntu ari isi ye bwite , kandi icyo ugomba guhambira numuntu mubucuti bugoye kuruta uko wabitekereza. Birashoboka rero kubona ibintu byimbitse kandi bifatika.
7. Kumenya
Byumvikane gusa, ariko gukora isesengura ryukuri kandi biga byinshi kuri wewe - ibi nibintu bikenewe gusa byerekeye kwibagirwa muri societe ya none. Kumenya uburyohe bwawe, ibiyobyabwenge, inyungu, kimwe nibintu bibi byose bigira ingaruka ku miterere yawe, ntabwo bifasha gusa guhitamo gufatanya, ahubwo bizafasha kandi gufata ibyemezo byiza kandi, amaherezo, wishimane.
8. INCUTI
Iyo umuntu yisanze mufatanyabikorwa, mubisanzwe umubano winshuti akenshi urashira, kandi ibyo bihe byo kwinezeza, ubushakashatsi nibitekerezo byahoze, bikaba bike cyangwa bicika intege. Birakwiye kwishimira inshuti zabo, agaciro k'ubucuti nibihe byose mugihe ushobora kwinezeza no kwishima udakeneye umufasha.
Biragaragara ko ari wenyine - ubu nuburyo bwiza bwo kwishimira ubuzima. Kubwibyo, ibintu byose mubuzima bigomba kubonwa nkuko biri, kandi ugerageze kubona ibihe byiza muri byose.