Umubano nikintu kigoye. Nta buryo bukwiye bwo kubaka no kubateza imbere, kandi nta buryo bwo kwemeza ko ibintu byose bizagenda nkuko bikenewe. Dutanga inama nke gusa kumubano, wavuzwe neza mubuto bwanjye.
Saba uburyo umuntu wa hafi ashaka mubyumba
Neza. Imibonano mpuzabitsina ni igice cyimibanire myiza nubusabane bwiza, bityo mubyumba uhora ukeneye gushyikirana, kandi ntukeke guceceka ko ashaka "kimwe cya kabiri." Kurugero, benshi bahoraga bashaka kugerageza ikintu muburiri, ariko barabihishe, biteye isoni kuvuga. Noneho, niba ukomeje ubuzima bwimibonano mpuzabitsina buri gihe bushya kandi ushimishije, bizatuma haba umunezero haba mubyumba no hanze yacyo.2 Guma vuba
Nukuri, buri wese azavuga ko igihe yabonanaga bwa mbere numukunzi we, ibintu byose byari bishimishije kandi bishimishije. Bombi bagiye ku matariki, bahurira mu tubari bakunda no ku birori kandi bakoze byose bakora cyane.
Reka ukuri mumaso: Ubwahozeho birarangiye. Ariko ibi ntibisobanura ko bidashoboka gutaha rimwe na rimwe. Ubona gute ugenera umunsi wubusa kugirango umara umwanya mwiza, nkuko wabikoraga mbere - kurya, kunywa no kwinezeza.
3 guta imigenzo kuruhande
Uyu munsi, abantu ntibagitangira ku nshingano gakondo. Birakwiye kwibagirwa uburyo Mama yavuze ko ibiryo, guteka no gusukura arinzira igana kumutima wumugabo. Umugabo uwo ari we wese ugezweho arashima umugore wigitsina, ukomeye kandi wigenga ushobora kumurwanya.Kubwukuri abagore bagore, rimwe na rimwe babitaho. Kubwibyo, byibuze kugirango utegure ifunguro rya nimugoroba umugore we abereyemo umugabo wese. Abashakanye bashobora kubahana inzozi zabo kandi baharanira hamwe ni couple izagira umubano urambye kandi wigihe kirekire.
4 Kuba ushyira mu gaciro, ibyiringiro kandi byiteguye gukora cyane
Nubwo inzozi zumwana, nta gikomangoma cyiza gikurura ifarashi yera, kizatwara umugore mubuzima bwa buri munsi. Ni nako bimeze nabi kubagabo - ntibagomba kwitega inkweto ya lobun kugirango iganire ku mwamikazi.
Nibyo, ibi ntibisobanura ko dukeneye kumvikana kumiterere yambere. Ukeneye gusa kubona umuntu umwe, utaba udashaka kwiyumvisha ubuzima bwawe. Muri icyo gihe, ntukibagirwe ko guhitamo iyi mbuto bizagora gusa gushakisha gusa.
Ugomba kandi kuba umwirondoro no kwizera udashidikanya ko kuri buri muntu hari umuntu "wawe". Ntakibazo na kimwe bidashobora kwemeza ko bazamara ubuzima bwanjye bwose bonyine cyangwa ko nta rukundo nyarwo - rubaho kandi rusaba gusa akazi gakomeye. Imibanire yatsinze isaba abafatanyabikorwa bombi gukora imbaraga nyinshi; Niba kandi bakundana rwose, ntibizigera bisa nakazi.
5 Nta mibanire ibiri isa.
Nubwo abantu benshi bakunda kugisha inama inshuti cyangwa abavandimwe babo mubusabane, birakwiye kuzirikana ko umubano wose utandukanye kandi icyakora buriwese kubandi. Birumvikana kandi ko abantu bose batazumva impamvu umuntu aje muburyo runaka.
Ukuri nuko nta siyansi nta bumenyi bwimibanire myiza. Nibyiza gukomeza ubuzima bwimibonano mpuzabitsina n'amatariki ashimishije kandi bishya, byubaha inzozi zandi kandi ujugunye imigenzo ya kure. Urukundo nukuri rwose kandi rimwe na rimwe rwanduye, kandi cyane cyane nuko ukeneye gukora ibituma wowe na mugenzi wawe bishimye. Kandi ibintu byose bizaba byiza.