Ibibazo byo hagati haracyari ibibazo. Ntahombo cyibihaha, byose birananiza bihagije, bibera ahantu harwaye. Nk'uburyo, habaho ibibazo byo hagati bibaho mu bagore mu buryo butunguranye. Ejo Ejo byose byari byiza, abantu bose batunganije byose, kandi uyumunsi ubuzima busa nkaho uzimye imitwe kumutwe! BENSHI kubwimpamvu zimwe zemeza ko ibibazo byimyaka yo hagati ari ibinyoma. Oya, ikibabaje, ntabwo. Kandi kimwe cya kabiri cy'abagore na bo barwaye "igitero".
Nigute ikibazo cyubuzima bwa hagati gishobora kwerekanwa? Atangira imyaka 40. Umugore nawe ureba neza 25, kandi birasa nkaho kugera ku ntsinzi runaka muburyo bwihariye kandi bwumwuga, mu buryo butunguranye amenya ko hari icyo yabuze. Oya, na none, kuruhande rumwe, ibintu byose birahari, ariko kurundi - ni bike byagezweho, kandi 40 gusa ni 40 gusa! Ubwoba, ubwoba, gutandukana! Umugore atangira gushaka ibimenyetso byo kwegera ubusambanyi ... Ahantu hinkle, ahandi kilo yinyongera ... Muri rusange, atera ubwoba, bakamurwanya, nkuko biva kuri Isazi, ntushaka kuyifata no kumenyera! Icyari kimaze ku bushake ejo, uyumunsi kirashobora kurakara kandi ntikitanga umunezero.
Turareba hirya no hino tutagereranywa nibyo urungano kandi ukagerwaho. Akenshi bitangira gusa nkaho ibyiza byose, birashimishije bimaze inyuma, hanyuma gusaza gusa, bidashoboka, ibibazo ...
Niba umugore ufite ubuzima aribyiza, biratekereza mbere ya leta yose ya endocrine, ikibazo kigenda neza. Kuba hari ibibazo byose hamwe niyi sipuke birashobora kugora inzira yikibazo. Iyi ntabwo ari indunduro, nkikigereranyo, glande ya tiroyide, byongera amarangamutima n'amarangamutima ...
Niba abana bamaze gukura, umugore ahura ikindi kibazo: mugihe ukeneye kurekura umuhungu wanjye cyangwa umukobwa wanjye umudendezo. Kandi ntabwo buri gihe bibaho nta mukundwa. Umutekano muburyo bwo gushimisha umuntu nicyo gikiza kwiheba muriki kibazo ntabwo ari gusa.
Intego gusa kumuryango umwe, nkitegeko, irerekana ibintu bidashimishije. Abavandimwe batangira ubuzima bwabo, kandi nyina ntibazi icyo gukora kuruta kwifatira. Mu rubanza iyo abana bakiri bato, ibibazo byo hagati bishobora gukomeza kubabaza cyane. N'ubundi kandi, harakomeza imbaraga, kugirango mwigume mu ntoki. Birumvikana ko ntamuntu numwe uzatanga 100% ko aya mahitamo azakora. Ariko, abana bato, nkitegeko, biganisha ku mugore ukomoka mubitekerezo byihebye.
Ibibazo bigira ingaruka ku mibanire n'uwo yashakanye. Niba ibintu byose bitagenda neza, guturika bishobora kubaho cyangwa ikintu nkicyo. Ntukureho urutugu! Ntukihute guhindura byose, kugenda, kumena. Tegereza gato, witegereze, ushyireho uburakari ibyo ntakunda, ntibikwira kandi bikatekereza uburyo bwo kubikosora, gutera imbere, gusubiza mu buzima busanzwe, kuvugurura ...
Agakiza kari he?
Birumvikana ko ufite! Ubwa mbere, birakwiye kugerageza gutuza kuba abantu benshi banyura mukibazo cyo hagati. Ntabwo ari amahano, nubwo atamerewe neza. Shakisha mubuzima bwawe ni iki kigushimisha, kikakuzanira kunyurwa: Abana, akazi, ibyo bakunda, ingendo, nibindi. Reka nzere neza kugira ibyawe! Niba nta nkaya, shaka!
Reba imbere. Emera rimwe na rimwe kugirango woroshye, utitayeho, usekeje, igitsina ... byibuze igice cyisaha nisaha buri cyumweru. Niba wabuze ikintu, menya neza ko ufite ishyaka ryiza muburyo bwamasomo rizana amarangamutima meza, kuruhuka, kuruhuka na buzz.
Gerageza gutekereza ku byiza, ntuzazuke, ntutakaze umunezero wo kubaho.