Kuva mu bwana, tumenyereye imyumvire imwe n'imwe sosiyete itegeka. Ariko ibihe birahinduka, abantu barahinduka, kandi imyumvire imwe n'imwe iguma kandi igatera ubuzima bwacu, ikatanga ibintu byimbere kandi bizana ibyo bahindura mumibanire hagati yabantu.
1. "Gutandukana na" Umugabo "n" "Abagore"
Umugabo agomba kubahiriza ibipimo bidasanzwe umuntu wenyine. Umugore agomba kubahiriza ibipimo byuzuye umugore gusa. Umugabo ni umuhigi, ukiri muto, cyane, ntabwo yihanganira. Umugore ni umubyeyi, umuzamu wumutima wurugo, yihanganira, urukundo. Ntibishoboka kwihanganira iyi myumvire.
Niba umugore yinjije byinshi (bigaragaye kubona amafaranga) kuruta umugabo, nkurikije inyandikorugero mbi kubisobanuro rusange, ibi ntibikiri umuryango. Kimwe na firime "Moscou ntabwo yemera amarira." Hashobora gushaka umuryango nkuyu na Kosos, kandi mubi, umuntu wa Alphonse. Nubwo mumuryango nkuyu, abantu bose basezeranye nibyo arushijeho guhinduka.
Muri buri muntu, imico runaka yashyizweho, ifatwa nk "igitsina gabo" cyangwa "igitsina gore ntigikwiye gufunga impande ze, nubwo bidahuye nigishushanyo cyashyizweho na societe yashyizweho na societe yashyizweho na societe yashyizweho na societe yashyizweho na societe yashyizweho na societe yashyizweho na societe.
2. "Mu ntambara iyo ari yo yose iburyo, undi aribeshya"
Ni ukubera iki mu makimbirane yose dushaka abanyabyaha kandi kubera ko igikorwa cye (urubanza) ruhuye n'igitekerezo cyacu, kigerageza kugihana no kwerekana ikintu cyiza? Nta burenganzira kandi butari bwo. Hariho abantu bafite ibitekerezo bitandukanye, imanza, ubumenyi, amadini, nibindi. Ntibishoboka kumenya aho ukuri. Kandi si ukubera iki. Ni ngombwa kubyumva no kubyemera, abantu biroroshye gukorana.3. "Kunegura no kwamaganwa bigomba gutuma umuntu arushaho kuba mwiza"
Kubwimpamvu runaka, abantu bizeye muri societe yacu muri societe yacu, niba izuru ryumuntu yongeye gukosorwa, azakosorwa rwose kandi azarushaho kuba mwiza. Gusa sibyo. Urashobora gusunika umuntu gusa no kunegura no gucirwaho iteka. Nibyo, kandi birashoboka ko udatunganye. Umuntu wese arashobora kwitwara nkuko ashaka kandi atekereza ko ari ngombwa.
4. "Tugomba kumva abasaza, kuko barushaho ubwenge kandi bafite ubwenge"
Inkuru zisekeje cyane zibaho mugihe mama cyangwa nyirabukwe batanga inama yo kwita no kurera umwana. Birumvikana ko abantu kavukire ntibagira inama nabi, ariko bibaho ko ubumenyi bwabo nubuhanga bwabo bishaje gato kandi mu kinyejana cya 21 ntibikiri ngombwa. Ariko bakomeje gutanga inama. Kandi ntushobora kutumvira, kuko bazi neza.
Ababyeyi nabantu barakuze cyane kuruta kubaha nibindi byose, ariko ntutegekwa kumva ibitekerezo byabo niba utoroshe igitekerezo cyawe. Mumaze gukura ukagira uburenganzira bwo kurera abana bawe, imyambarire, isukura inzu, koza amasahani, nkuko ubitekereza ari ngombwa. Kandi ingingo.
5. "Umuryango udukura mu rwego!"
Dukunze gutekereza: "Ni iki kizavuga ku kazi niba narashyize kuri iyi myambarire?", "Uzatekereza iki niba mvuze igitekerezo cyanjye?". Dufite impungenge, mbere ya byose, ibyo bazavuga no gutekereza niba tudahuye n'ishusho y'umugabo utunganye, mugore wanjye, umukobwa wanjye. Shyira akandira icyo aricyo cyose. Ariko kuki abantu bashyira iyi "societe" ubwabo?
Sosiyete ni agatsiko k'abantu bafite ibitekerezo byabo, kandi bikaba, kurwego runini cyangwa ruto, mumushyire.
Kuraho imyumvire yari ikeneye imyaka myinshi ishize, ariko ubu ntabwo byumvikana. Noneho uzabona ubwumvikane bwimbere nibyishimo mubucuti nabandi!