Uwahoze ari umukozi FBI Jack Schafer yandikaga igitabo "akubiyemo igikundiro akurikije uburyo bw'imirimo idasanzwe." N'ubundi kandi, birabujijwe (ni ukuvuga igikundiro!) Hirya no hino ni ikintu cyingenzi. Kuri bose. Noneho rero, umva kandi wibuke.
Sharfer kandi yumvikana ivuga uko watsinda hafi umuntu wese kubucuti, urukundo, kugabanuka gukomeye cyangwa ku nyungu zumubyeyi. Uburyo bumwe nuburyo bumwe bufasha fbrovtsu mugutangaza nabi nabatasi bo muburusiya. Ntabwo tubona impamvu zituma tutazaba mata hari Hari, kandi nta modoka idakenewe yinda.Ibinyoma by'ukuri
Imiterere y'ingenzi! Manipulations yose isabwa na Schafer ikorwa bivuye ku cyifuzo kivuye ku mutima bwo gushaka inshuti, amakosa. Impuhwe zonyine kubamenyereye mugihe umugabo afite kimwe cya kabiri. Niba udafite, ntabwo bikwiye gutangira. Icya mbere, ntabwo ari byiza kubeshya, icya kabiri, biracyatinze cyangwa nyuma yo kugwa mubutumwa.
Ntabwo ndite
Ubwa mbere ukeneye kwerekana umuntu ko ufite umutekano. Amasaha menshi kuva mubana yiga kugendana numuntu wihariye akavuga ati "mubi". Yazamuye ibitugu, abamugaye bamugaye, bakurikirana iminwa, kugenda mubucuruzi. Isura nkiyi irahamya kwitegura kurwana no kuganira kwinshuti ntabwo bikwiye cyane. Rero, mbere, tugororoka, turuhuka mu maso hawe. Icya kabiri, ntabwo twishyura umwanya wawe bwite. Reka tuvuge ko ushobora guhinduka kugirango buri munsi ugendere kuri lift hamwe na mugenzi wawe mwiza, ariko kugirango utangire uhora uhagarara mu mfuruka.Ibimenyetso byiza
Hano hari microenies itanga abantu kumenya ko ufite urugwiro. Uku ni ukuzamura vuba aha, kumwenyura bivuye ku mutima, amaso make mu jisho, gukwirakwiza umutwe w'impande, kunyeganyeza umusatsi, icyarimwe hamwe nijisho ryijisho). Erega ukuri, nibyiza, birumvikana ko reba ikigereranyo kiri mu gitabo. Ariko, muri rusange, birasobanutse. Winjiye mucyumba kimwe hamwe na "ikintu": Derg Ijisho, Inyenyeri yonyine ikangirira kandi ikamera kuruhande, nka labrador yubwenge. Urashobora kwitoza imbere yindorerwamo.
Amatsiko ya Barbar
Niba umuntu utazwi, igihe cyose kigwa mumaso ye, gifite umutekano, ariko ntikiramenyekana, biba amato. Ibyiyumvo bisanzwe byamatsiko birashobora gushyuha, nanone gukora ikintu gishimishije. Reba kuri terefone ntabwo ikoreshwa mumasomo yo kugerageza. Ariko, kurugero, niba ubonye ikaye nini ugatangira gushushanya, cyangwa uzahindura rubik cube mumaboko yawe, bizashobora gutinyuka kubibazo ninama.Unkunda
Urashobora kubanza gutangira ikiganiro. Ikintu cyingenzi mubiganiro nuguhita cyo kwimurira ibitekerezo bye ku mubwira. Ugomba guha amahirwe umuntu kugirango uvuge ibyawe, shima cyangwa wicuze. Kurugero, nimugoroba, hafi umuntu wese ushobora kuvuga ati "birashoboka ko usanzwe unaniwe." Ntabwo unaniwe? Neza! "Tugomba kuba bigoye cyane gukora cyane." Noneho ubu amaze gushimwa. Kandi aho kugirango igikombe kikaze, urashobora kwishyura ishimwe ryabandi. ("Numvise ukuntu umuyobozi yagusabye"). Ubundi buryo bwo guha umuntu kubibona - gukora amakosa no kwemerera kubikemura: "Noneho ufite ikimenyetso, ndakeka ko 200%! - Oya, 150% gusa "- op, kandi wize amakuru y'ibanga kandi unyerera umuntu.
Byinshi
Kugirango ubone ikintu uhuriweho numuntu, birahagije kwitondera imyenda. Ku ntwari ya T-Shirt ya karato - Wow, nanjye nkunda "Futurama"! Niba ufite ubumwe rusange, noneho uburambe hamwe burashobora kuremwa. Ikintu nyamukuru nuko itarambiranye. Abantu bahuriza hamwe umunezero rusange ningorane rusange. Urashobora rero guhunga hamwe nigice cyakazi igice cyisaha kare hanyuma uzenguruke ice cream. Cyangwa jya kuri firime iteye ubwoba hanyuma ukande hamwe nuzuye mugihe cyibihe bibi cyane. Ubwoko bwose bwindege kuri paraglider nacyo nikintu cyiza.
Ihame ryo Gusubizwa
Abantu, ndetse bagira ijwi riranguruye ko ntamuntu numwe ugomba kugira ikintu kubantu, burigihe ushaka kunga amanota. Igishimishije, ni ingirakamaro no gutuma umuntu atoneshwa, kandi asaba ubufasha. Ibyo ari byo byose, ibyifuzo bito kandi bifatika kandi bijyanye no gushimangira isano. Urashobora kurambura umugabo uva kumeza uturanye cyangwa ukarengana bwa mbere kuri mashini hamwe nibinyobwa. Kandi kuri "Urakoze" Ntabwo "Nyamuneka", ariko "Nibyiza, ntiwamfasha?". OP, mubi Cyangwa umusabe kohereza ikoti yawe iminota mike, fata umufuka wa chip wo mu iduka - Noneho atekereza ko uri amafaranga kandi, bidasanzwe, biherereye kugirango ukomeze umubano. N'ubundi kandi, imyenda, bitandukanye n'abatanga inguzanyo, ntukibagirwe.Guhishura amatwi
Abantu bake barashobora gutega amatwi bitonze. Twahoraga turangazwa, noneho kumajwi yubutumwa bugufi, noneho mwijwi ryawe ryimbere. Niba ugerageza byibuze bibiri bya gatatu kugirango wumve neza inkuru ze, noneho uzerekana umuntu wunvikana kandi wunvikana. Emeza ubwitonzi bwawe, mugihe uvuga ngo "Yego" na "Yego", ubaza ibibazo bisobanurwa, nka "Noneho uravuga uti: Garuka ku mucyo?!" Yunamye kubanyamira, yimuke ibintu kumeza ko nawe ushobora no gukoraho amaboko. Ariko iminwa idahwiruka amaso yumusambuzi izamuha kumva ko atagushimishije rwose. Nkuko, birashoboka, umaze kubona ko inama zose zashyizwe ku rutonde zishobora gukoreshwa kugirango urekure kandi utere abantu. Birakenewe gusa gukora ibinyuranye.
Dosage
Abantu biroroshye guhishurwa niba uteye intambwe igana no kwerekana frank ubwayo. Ariko nubwo byaka gute imbere, "ari kimwe cya kabiri!", FBI irabivuga: Ntabwo ari ngombwa gusuka icyarimwe ubuzima bwanjye bwose. Cyane cyane ku mato. Nkuko, inama zishimishije zo kwiyuhagira, uburyo bwo gutandukanya intore kuva kuri extrovert. Gutangira kuvuga utazanye interuro kugeza imperuka. Extravert, birashoboka cyane biragusoza, kandi intore zizaceceka. Rero, hamwe numwuga wa Intovers. Bakeneye umwanya ku giti cyabo kandi barebe umutekano wawe igihe kinini, hanyuma nabo bashyigikiye, kimwe nabandi baturage bose. By the way, igitabo kivuga uburyo bwo gukomeza impuhwe zatsinze, nuburyo bwo kwiringira mugihe hahuye kurubuga rusange, aho amayeri hamwe nibimenyetso n'ibitekerezo bidashoboka. Muri rusange, ikintu cyingirakamaro, niko ugomba kwiga kugenzura imigendekere yijisho ryawe :)