Kuraho imyaka - Tanga inzira kandi ntabwo ari Hami. Simbukira mu musarani utagaragara utwite, ntutekereze kuri nyina ufite umwana udasanzwe. Cafe igomba gushobora kwinjira mu kagare k'abamugariye no gusura umusarani. A, mubyukuri, he?
Umusaza wageze mu za bukuru na Madamu ugeze mu za bukuru, imbuto ze zisaba icyubahiro, zishobora kubaho ubuzima bwabo bwose nk'umugati n'ikarito nto cyangwa bibi. Inda itwite ntabwo yafunze, ntugusubize kandi usubize. Inyuma yumwana igomba gukurikizwa no kutabangamira abantu - ntazi kwitwara umwana we, reka inzu yicaye, hamwe na mama cyangwa umunaniro, nkuko ubishaka. Kubera ababana n'ubumuga, ubucuruzi buto ntibukwiye kubabara - ntabwo ba rwiyemezamirimo babona ubuzima muri abo bantu
Impaka zisa nkizindi cyangwa nkeya zumvikana cyangwa zishyize mu gaciro, mubyukuri zibura ingingo imwe yingenzi - ingenzi cyane, byukuri, kubijyanye no kwicisha bugufi byihariye kandi byimirangamutima yicyubahiro cyabantu. Ibyinshi ntibikwiye kugerwaho ukundi, uburyo bwo kugera kubaha umwuga cyangwa kubahiriza igitekerezo cyawe mubibazo byihariye. Ibivuka biteye isoni, bifite ubuzima imbere yukuntu icyubahiro cyabantu kiguye, cyane cyane ntabwo ubushake bwe, no mubikorwa byabandi.
Nkuko yariho, umudamu w'umudamu abaho, ubu afite ikibazo cy'ubuzima, akenshi aherekeza ubusa, cyane cyane imyaka y'ubukene y'abakene (kandi niba abanyamabere bake batandukanye?). Ntabwo igwa mumaguru kandi ntabwo igiye gukora, ariko imbaraga zazigamye ubu mumodoka rusange zizamuha amahirwe yo kwimuka mubisanzwe kugeza nimugoroba no kutagwa mubihe biteye isoni kubera ububabare nintege nke. Abatanda n'abana babuze mu musarani atari ukubera ko ari uburenganzira bwabo bwihariye, ariko kubera ko bigoye kwihanganira igihe kirekire, kandi nibatiba bafite imibabaro, icyubahiro cya muntu kizababara. Kutungurana, nyina ntazatangira guhangana numwana, ahangayikishijwe cyane no guhangayikishwa nurugendo cyangwa mu buryo butunguranye, uyu mugore afite intege nke, uyu mugore arababazwa, ntashobora gusubizwa mubitero byamarangamutima - bimaze gukora uwanyuma usanzwe atuwe n'icyubahiro cya muntu.
Ibyo ari byose bireba abantu kubangamizi, hamwe nibibazo byo kureba (abanini ko igiciro kibaza, nubwo igiciro) cyangwa kumva. Ni ngombwa gufata ubusanzwe ko bashaka ubuzima busanzwe, bafite ubushobozi bwo gukoresha serivisi zitangwa kubantu, kuko ari abantu. Mubisanzwe ntabwo ukurikiza intege nke zabo.
Birumvikana ko ibyo byose bivuze ko nyirakuru nabo badafite uburenganzira bwo kunyeganyega, kandi nyina ni itegeko ryunguka gushaka abandi kwifasha cyangwa gushimisha umwana. Ariko abo nabandi baracyakenewe kandi mubisanzwe basimbuka mu musarani nta murongo.
Kubaha icyubahiro cya muntu nuko nayo ijyanye cyane no kudakoresha ubwandi kwirwara no kwibasirwa n'intege nke, ibintu bidashoboka guhinduka mu bihe biriho, kutituka, ntuzubake ibitekerezo bibabaje. Kandi, mumbabarire (nubwo mubyukuri ntashaka gusaba imbabazi) niba utemera kubaha icyubahiro cyabantu nkibanze, nka axiom, ubwo iterambere ryanyu ntirikwiye. Ufite lag. Ndasaba amasomo yo gukosora hamwe na psychologue nziza. Birashoboka ko utazimiye.
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