Ati: "Umuhanga mu maboko yawe kugirango wogeze" - Ihame ry'Inama Nyiricyubahiro. Kandi sawa, niba haribijyanye nibibazo gusa, ariko uherutse kwinjira muburyo bunini "kugirango wumve" muri psychologiya no kuzamuka mubugingo bwabandi. Nta basabusi, mubisanzwe.
Impanuro ziteye ubwoba zatewe na psychologute yabatezo nijambo "gusa", bitarenze ibyo badatsinzwe.Birababaje gusa, bizakorohera
Umuyobozi udashidikanywaho w'igitabo cyacu. Ibintu byose bifatwa kubabarira ikintu icyo ari cyo cyose, umuntu uwo ari we wese: Umuntu uwo ari we wese: Kuva mu bupfumana ku gitsina cyangwa ihohoterwa ry'umubiri, kugeza ku kigeragezo cy'ubwicanyi. Kubabara, amaherezo, amazi aratwarwa, kandi abantu bateguwe nka robo, ntibabe umunebwe, bakabandike buto muri buto izimya inzika, kandi ubeho neza.
Guterana gusa
Inama nziza, rimwe na rimwe zifasha. Ariko mugihe wongeyeho kugirango ufashe cyangwa gusangira uhangayikishijwe nibyo udafite bihagije kubintu byanjye (igihe, amafaranga, ubumenyi, ubuzima), byumvikana nkushishinikira. Gusa guterana kandi niki? Isuzuma rizashira, abakusanya ibitero kubyaha bazahinduka ikinyabupfura kandi beza, Nyirarume azapfira muri Kanada, ansize amafaranga menshi, kandi muminsi mike yinyongera, kandi muminsi mike yinyongera, kandi muminsi mike yinyongera, kandi muminsi mike yinyongera, kandi muminsi mike yinyongera, kandi muminsi mike yinyongera, kandi muminsi mike yinyongera, kandi muminsi mike yinyongera, kandi muminsi mike yinyongera, kandi muminsi mike yinyongera, kandi muminsi mike yinyongera, kandi muminsi mike yinyongera, kandi muminsi mike yinyongera, kandi muminsi mike yinyongera, kandi muminsi mike yinyongera, kandi muminsi mike yinyongera, kandi muminsi mike yinyongera, kandi muminsi mike yinyongera, kandi muminsi mike yinyongera, kandi muminsi mike yinyongera, kandi muminsi mike yinyongera, kandi muminsi mike yinyongera, kandi muminsi mike yinyongera, kandi muminsi mike yinyongera, kandi muminsi mike yinyongera, kandi muminsi yashizweho amasaha 28? Kandi, birababaje, wabonye angahe, Bwana Counter, nasenya iki?Gusa
Nabayeho, wabayeho imyaka mirongo itatu, kandi sinarinze. Noneho wasabye umujyanama mwiza, kandi wikubise mu gahanga: semen semenovich! Arihe ahari buto yo kwinjiza urukundo? Bimaze kwiruka guhonyora. Mbega umunezero, ko ibintu byose byoroshye!
Kuba hejuru yibi
Oya, ntabwo muburyo bumwe, burenze kugirango busesure abandi, kurugero. Kandi hejuru y'ibitizwa nawe. Bamwe bo hejuru ko ugomba kwicisha bugufi, ntushobora kuba, ariko ugomba. Igishimishije, ni bangahe abagore biciwe n'abagabo babo bari hejuru ya "zakidonov yabo" mu buryo bwo gukubitwa no gutukwa? Ntugashishikarize rwose!
Tekereza ku mibanire
Ni mu buhe buryo? Urashaka ko nishimira ibyago byumuntu cyangwa kuburyo hari byinshi - kandi kubwibyago bye, kandi kubana bapfa mumakimbirane ya gisirikare? Cyangwa wenda, kubera ko mu Buhinde, benshi mu baturage barakubitwa, icyubahiro cyanjye kizahita kibura cyangwa gusana bizakora?Tekereza wenda wowe ubwawe ugomba kubiryozwa
Niba umujyanama yemera ko tutigeze tubona iyi nteruro, "yego kugirango mpime, sinabikuyeho, ntabwo ngiye kuzigama, byibuze ... Njya kuri uburozi Divayi! ". Mu mihangayiko, ntidushobora kumva ibibera, ariko imihangayiko ntabwo ihoraho, kandi imyifatire yacu myiza kuri abo bajyanama.
Gusa shaka / kurongora / kubuza umwana
Kandi niba bidafasha, gusa usunika umugabo, umugore cyangwa umwana mumuhanda hanyuma ugerageze ikindi. Washakaga kuvuga? Ntabwo? Igitangaje, kubera iki? Ibintu byose bigomba kuba byoroshye!
Mbere yuko byari ngombwa gutekereza
Birashoboka ko byari ngombwa, gusa kuvuga iyi nteruro mugihe gikomeye mugihe ukeneye ubufasha n'impuhwe - ntabwo ari byiza cyane. Kandi, yewe, mubyukuri yakubwiraga mbere. Ntabwo ari munsi ya kimwe cya kabiri cyigihe bidashoboka kwizihiza, ntamuntu wahagaritse ibintu byabantu, kandi kugenzura isi yose birashoboka - Umugani mwiza.Reka reka uko ibintu bimeze
Iyi nama akenshi itangwa cyane ntabwo tuzibuka imanza mugihe byari bikwiye. "Umwarimu uteye ubwoba avuza imbere ku buryo yanditse kandi akanagirana, kandi ntibishoboka guhindura ishuri hano, kuko ntahantu mfite, kandi sinshobora guhindura umukoro hamwe na gahunda yanjye y'akazi! Nigute, ni gute nshobora gukiza umwana? " - "Urahangayitse, reka rero ugende mu bihe, byose bizaba bikwiye." Dashtototh.
Gusa uyihamagare irindi jambo, kandi umubano uzahinduka
Nibyiza, niba ibintu bidashobora guhinduka mumuzi, cyangwa ntabwo ari bibi cyane, kuki utagerageza. Ariko kuki uhimba eufumsism kubitero bitotonga, ibitero, ikinyabupfura, ubunebwe, nibindi nkibyo no kwitwaza kubikora? Nibyo, nyuma ya byose, banga na Euphemiramu, kuko ibintu bizakomeza gukomeza nadke.
Fata inshingano
Irateganijwe gusa muburyo bwo "kwiyitirira ko rutahizamu atagize uruhare muri icyo gitero." Sadavinovat muburyo bwo gupfunyika ikinyabupfura. Urye wenyine, tuzashima. Niba ufite inshingano kubikorwa byawe, ntibisobanura ko igikorwa kibi cyundi muntu kijyanye nawe atari kibi kandi icyo uwabikoze atari cyo nyirabayazana.Ibitekerezo nibyiza
Ntabwo muburyo udacika intege kandi ukareba inyungu zishobora kwigira mubihe cyangwa uburyo bwo kuva mu gihombo gito. Yego oya. Abafana b'Inama imitekerereze inyuma yinteruro hari icyorezo cyingenzi kugirango wicare, wishimire ibihe bibi kandi, cyane cyane, ntukayangize uko umuntu wisi - ari we utishimye. Kandi uzi icyo, duhe ko inama zose zashyizwe ku rutonde zifite ishingiro rimwe.
Muri rusange, niba inama ikubiyemo ijambo "gusa", mubisanzwe ntirishobora no kumva.
Kandi by the way. Abahanga mu by'imitekerereze bagize uruhare mu nama ntibatanga. Ahari urugero rwo kubajyana?