Dufite inkuru mbi kuri wewe. Umubano ni akazi. Buri munsi, kimwe kandi gifite umuhigiko kimwe nko gukaraba ibyokurya. Akazi kagomba gukorwa, kabone niyo yaba ananiwe kandi arakaye cyane. Amakuru meza - niba witegereje isuku yibanze, ibintu byose bizahinduka.
Ineza ifatika n'ikintururo, igomba kwemerera gutandukana, ntukice hamwe ndetse wenda kubatura.Ntukabe umugome
Ibintu byose biroroshye cyane: Ntibishoboka kutatongana. Buri buzima bwumuryango bukuweho na tapi yamasogisi, yabibwe hamwe na menyo idahwitse, guhamagarwa kumafaranga yakoreshejwe kumubiri, kuri terefone utunguranye saa yine zidasanzwe kuri am nubusa, kandi ntibyaba bitangaje kugirango tuganire kuri ibyo byose kumabara yiyongera. Ariko hariho isura yoroheje hagati yuko ari ngombwa kuganira kubibazo, hakenewe kurekura abashakanye na kace kibaze. Ninde utagezeho? Ninde uhora ava mumisatsi mu bwiherero bwimigabane? Ninde udashobora kubona amafaranga, guteka amabuye, gutwara umusumari? Ninde utajyana umukobwa hano, amaherezo? Iyi ni sadism ntoya yo murugo, irwaye umubare wabasazi wabantu. Murugo Ihohoterwa rikorerwa mu ngo amababi akomeretsa, nk'ububiko n'umucanga cyangwa ububiko bwa terefone ya chubby. Ariko ntukore ibyo.
Nubwo waba ufite ukuri, umwiherero
Nubwo waba uhora ari byiza. Nubwo waba umaze kuvuga inshuro igihumbi ibintu byose bizarangira. Ibyo ari byo byose: Kuberako, kumwenyura no gusaba imbabazi. Kuberako hano biracyari amagambo atatu, kandi ntibishoboka gukosora ibintu na gato. Amaherezo, umuntu agomba kuba umunyabwenge, kandi kuki utaba undi muntu. Impamvu yamakimbirane yawe ntabwo ari ngombwa, kuko ikintu cyingenzi, mubyukuri, urukundo gusa no gushaka kubana. Kandi ubwibone (n'amarangamutima "Nkwiye" ni, ari) ku muntu uwo ari we wese atazanye umuntu.Ntuzigere uvuga ngo "Nanjye naravuze!"
Wowe ubwawe uracyatunganye, kandi niba uca uceceka ukabarwa umubare wubusa wakozwe mugihe cyo gutanga raporo, bigaragaye ko byibuze bitarenze uwo ukunda. Kuberako twese tudatunganye.
Ntucike iyindi nshuti
Inshuti zari umukunzi wawe kuri wewe. Kandi, niba ukomeje mumitsi imwe, uzaba nyuma. Nibyo, ibi ni umwirondoro. Cyangwa aba ni aba basinzi, ubugingo butari tekinoroji, hamwe ningeso zikonje, amazimwe abakobwa babi. Kubwimpamvu runaka, igice cya kabiri cyayongereye kandi wemera ko bayishyigikiye. By the way, nawe yaguhisemo, iki gice. Bitekerezeho.Ntutinye
Ntamuntu usaba kwigomwa guhora (nubwo massage ya buri munsi yibirenge ntabwo ibuza umuntu), ahubwo yinangiye mubyifuzo, amahame nibyifuzo byumufatanyabikorwa - ntabwo bigoye kandi burigihe bifasha cyane. Niba kandi byageze igihe kugirango ushire ibyo byifuzo, amahame kandi ukeneye kure kurenza ibyabo, ibiciro ntibizaba.
Ntukavuge umufatanyabikorwa
Ntabwo ukeneye gutegereza ko, reka tuvuge, bizahora guteka. Kandi azahora yishyura ibikorwa. No gushaka amafaranga. No gukomanga imisumari. No gutwara imodoka. No koza amagorofa. Hanyuma umanike akazu. Hanyuma ikindi. Mu kurangiza, sweet izarwara kandi igomba kurya ibihuru, bikurikirwa no mububiko. Cyangwa urwaye ni mwiza, kandi ntamuntu uzamanika igikoma, gushaka amafaranga, kwishyura fagitire, gutwara umusumari no gukaraba hasi. Nibyiza, cyangwa vuba vuba cyangwa nyuma, umuntu ni ibintu binaniwe aho bizeraga ko "ugomba" kubaho rimwe gusa kubaho kwawe.... ku musozi no mu byishimo
Umuntu wese azi gushyigikira umufatanyabikorwa mugihe ubuzima bwe bufite urufunguzo kukazi, kwiyongera bigomba kongera imbaraga, imishinga igenda neza kandi ibintu byose bigurishwa hamwe nifirimbi. Nubwo, birumvikana ko atari abantu bose, kuko ibintu nkibi bifitanye isano niminsi yisaha 12 y'akazi, imitsi no kutitaho. Ariko gerageza ushyigikire umuntu uri hafi yo kwirukanwa, mu kwiheba, mu gihe shobuja ari umuswa wa hysterical, n'abayoborwa ni abanyamaguru b'abana kandi b'ubwonko. Biragaragara ko reaction ya mbere ari gutenguha na "kandi navuze!". Noneho ni byiza cyane mugihe bidakabije kwibuka indahiro yubukwe.
Gusomana. Umuvuduko. Lasoo
Nibura buri munsi. Niba udakoze ibi - undi muntu azabikora.Urukundo nuburyo bwo gutsinda umusumari no kumanika akazu
Ushaka ko aribyo, kandi ko byari byiza - kora ubwanjye.
Kuruhuka
Rimwe na rimwe, ugomba gusa gusohoka no gufunga umuryango inyuma yawe - ariko hanyuma ugagaruka. Ikibazo nuko tekiniki biragoye cyane gukora. Kuberako mugihe kimwe kizahinduka "Nagiye kwa Mama," mu rundi - "Tugomba kunywa hamwe n'abahungu" kandi amaherezo ntibizakemura ibibazo byose, ariko wenda ndetse no kongeramo ibibazo, ariko wenda ndetse no kongeramo. Kandi nubwoko, gukora ikintu gitandukanye cyane, tekereza kandi uceceke rimwe na rimwe bibaho rwose. Inzira nziza zo gufasha ingendo ndende zubucuruzi. Ubworozi bw'akazi mu kibaya cya Mongoliya, itangizwa ry'igihingwa gishya muri Siberiya, kubaka umuyoboro wa gaze mu burengerazuba bw'Ubuhinde.Guteka, nubwo nta mbaraga zihari
Niba waje murugo igice, kuko umuyobozi ari igicucu cya hysterical, nabayoborwa - abanebwe bafite ubunebwe - abanebwe bafite ubwenge, noneho rwose biragaragara ko mugenzi wawe ari mubi. Kandi ntabwo byakozwe byumwihariko, ni amategeko yubusa. Kandi hano ukeneye guhumeka, kanda amenyo yawe kandi icyarimwe umwenyure witonze, uzane icyayi, guhobera, konsole kandi wishimye. Kuberako noneho umunsi umwe ikintu kimwe kizakora nawe.
Shakisha umwanya
Uhuze? Akazi kenshi? Byose kimwe, ugomba kubona umwanya wo kwita kubafatanyabikorwa. Ifunguro hamwe na bombi cyangwa, kurugero, kuryama muburiri na ihuza - byibuze kubiciro-kugeza-guma igice cya kabiri ntukibagirwe ko uri mwisi.Exy
Kandi ingingo hano ntabwo igura imibonano mpuzabitsina gusa, nubwo nayo. Mu ntangiriro yumubano wanyeganyega kuva umunezero gusa kugirango ube hafi kandi ufate ku ntoki (neza, cyangwa ikindi gice cyumubiri). Iyi myumvire igomba kwibukwa rimwe na rimwe no gushaka (ariko ntabwo byigana!).
Kuvuga
Gusa ukeneye kuvuga byinshi bishoboka. Kubijyanye nakazi, kubyerekeye umusumari no gushushanya igishoro, kuri gahunda nibuka, kubyerekeye urukundo n'ubwoko butandukanye bwa kawa. Kurangiza, ninde wabigira icyo uvuga?