Umuhanga mu by'imitekerereze ya Biyelorusiya Pavel Zygmantovich ku bijyanye n'icyo ribuza umuntu kuba umubyeyi mwiza ku bana be kandi ni izihe ntambwe ashobora gukora kugirango abe umubyeyi mwiza.
Niki ukeneye kuba umubyeyi mwiza? Mbere ya byose, birumvikana ko kwifuza.
Ariko hamwe no kwifuza kwabagabo benshi, ishyano, ntabwo ryashyizweho. Bisa nibi nibisobanuro bimwe (ni ukwemera, nibishushanyo bimwe, ni imigambi yo kumenya).
Kimwe nubwoko bwose bwibikorwa, ibi bigira ingaruka cyane imyitwarire. Kandi bigira ingaruka, ikibabaje, ntabwo aribwo buryo bwiza.
Imitego yica
Umushakashatsi w'Uburusiya Abramova G. S. yahishuriye ibice icumi by'ibi bimera yise "umutego wa se."
imwe) "Umutego Intego yoroshye" - Umugabo wemera ko kuba papa ariroroshye cyane - ukeneye kugaburira no kwambara umwana.
2) "Urugendo rwo gutunga" - Umugabo yemera ko umwana agomba kumwubaha mubyukuri; Mugihe kimwe nta bwumvikane ko kubaha umwana bivutse bitewe nimyitwarire ya Data.
3) "Umutego Mubisanzwe" - Umugabo yemera ko ari ngombwa kubahiriza amahame amwe, kuba ibisanzwe bityo ntibifata umwihariko wabana babo.
bine) "Umutego Ukuri kw'imbaraga" - Umugabo yemera ko impaka nyamukuru mubiganiro ari imbaraga cyangwa kwerekana imbaraga. Aho imishyikirano - iterabwoba.
bitanu) "Imyaka yoroheje" - Umugabo yibanze ku myaka y'umubiri nk'igipimo cy'iterambere (ati: "Ndacyari muto, ndashaka kugenda," Ntaramenya, "reka nyina abane na we");
6) "Impano Umutego" - Umugabo yemera ko impano umwana aribwo buryo bwiza bwo kwerekana urukundo rwawe; Nyuma yo kwerekana intera yimpano kuva umwana.
7) "Umutego wo kubaguzi" - Umugabo yemera ko umuryango ukenewe kugirango ureme ibintu byiza; Ntabwo azirikana ibyiyumvo n'ibyifuzo byabandi bagize umuryango.
umunani) "Umutego wo hejuru ya" - Umugabo yemera ko umurimo wingenzi ushobora gukemurwa cyangwa ku ngufu ("ku mugabo") cyangwa muburyo ubwo aribwo bwose. Amahitamo, kurugero, kuganira ntibyemewe (kuko ari "igitsina gore").
icyenda) "Umutego wasanganyamabereho hasi" - Umugabo yemera ko ari mwiza gusa kubera ko ari umuntu, ntukeneye gushyira mubikorwa imbaraga zinyongera.
10) "Umutego w'ishyari ku bana" - Umugabo yemera ko ubwitonzi bwe bwose bwita kuri we, ntabwo ari abana.
Uburyo bwo gutsinda imitego
Kimwe n'indi myizerere, izo myizerere irashobora gukosorwa - erega, ni ukwemera gusa, ni ukuvuga ibitekerezo bimwe bidavuka kandi / cyangwa bidahindutse. Baje, bazagenda.
Twabibutsa hano ko impinduka mu myizerere ari ikibazo kitoroshye. Biragoye, ariko ndashimira.
Kugirango usobanure uburyo bwo guhinduka, ugomba kwandika igitabo cyose, niko biduhanishwa cyane.
Ubwa mbere, ugomba kwiga gutekereza neza. Sober - Ibi bivuze hamwe nibikorwa bike byo kugoreka bitandukanye. Kugirango utangire, ndagusaba kubimenya hamwe ninyigisho zanjye za stapap "psychologiya yamakuba," aho nsobanura birambuye uburyo ibitekerezo byacu bidutera kutishimira nuburyo bwo gutekereza mubitekerezo byawe. Kanda hano.
Icya kabiri, birakenewe gukoresha ibyize. Kurugero, tekereza urebe ko umugore, uza kukazi nyuma yisaha, ntabwo ategetswe guteka na gato; Byaba byiza utetse kwisangira - kandi ntuzicara mu bashonje, kandi ubuzima bwawe buzuzura ubuzima. Birakenewe gutekereza buri munsi no kureba isi nta moteri igoreka (uko bishoboka kose, birumvikana).
Nibura wibuke - ibigereranyo byacu ntabwo buri gihe byerekana ibintu neza, akenshi tuba twibeshye cyane kandi niho cyambureye ubuzima bwawe.
Data mwiza
Nibyiza, muri make kubyerekeye ba se beza. Umubyeyi mwiza arashaka gusohoza imikorere ye y'ababyeyi yuzuye. Yita ku iriba-kuba ya umwana mu mice yose - kandi dusaza (feed, wash), no mu vy'akanyengetera (w'umugabo, akanampobera), na imyitwarire (kwigisha, Urwinjiriro, guha isomo), existential (gusubiza ibibazo byose, harimo Biragoye), kandi nibindi.
Ntamuntu ushobora kuba Data mwiza - Ntibishoboka. Kubwibyo, ntukeneye kumva ufite ibyiyumvo byo kwicira urubanza kuba atari byiza. Nibyiza gukora ikintu cyingirakamaro kandi / cyangwa wishimye.
Umubyeyi mwiza ntabwo ari mwiza. Arakora ibishoboka byose, kandi bike. Ibi birahagije kubita ibyiza. Ntabwo ari intungane, oya. Gusa - byiza.
Kandi mfite byose, urakoze kubitekerezo byawe.
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