Gushyingirwa ntabwo ari urukundo, amabahasha n'amafaranga hamwe n'ingendo zihuriweho na Ikea. Mu mibanire y'igihe kirekire, kumara byinshi, hari ukuntu bitemewe, hari ukuntu bakomanze ku ishusho nziza ya Mama-data-imbwa. Ariko nibyiza kubimenya ku nkombe.
Gushyingirwa ni amasezerano yemewe
Ntunywe izuru. Ntabwo ihagarika urukundo no kwizerana n'ibyo. Ariko usibye gukundana, aya ni amasezerano yemewe. Uyu muntu azabona ibintu byawe byose, niba ikirere kizagutwara, azagereranya inyungu zawe niba udashobora kubikora wenyine. Nyuma yo gutandukana, nta burenganzira azagifite ku bana kukurusha. Niba ushaka gutandukana, ugomba kubikora ubifashijwemo niburanisha nubwoko bwose. "Umubano" nicyo hagati yawe, kandi "ubukwe" nicyo hagati yawe na Leta.Ntubaze "Kubera iki?"
Imyiteguro yaba yarabaye ikintu cyose, ntukibaze "Yego, gute, kuki, kuki byagenze?". Nta ngingo muri ibyo, usibye neurose. Mubisanzwe nta gisubizo cyiki kibazo. Tekereza neza icyo gukora.
Nta batsinze mu makimbirane
Ariko meze neza! Kandi ntabwo ari ukuri! Ni irihe tandukaniro. Umaze guhindura induru, mwembi wabuze.Ntabwo izahinduka
Niba washakanye na gahunda yo kugera kure cyane kugirango mvuge, noneho mbabajwe, ntibisobanutse neza ko wahisemo uyu muntu, kandi ntabwo ari wowe wahita ukwiranye kubipimo byinshi. Ndetse impinduka ni nyinshi, zigoye cyane, kandi usanzwe uzi uko ukora ibintu byose mumutwe wawe. Guhindura nkana undi muntu kandi ntibishoboka na gato.
Umubano ntugomba kumara ubuziraherezo kugirango uyishyure ibyo
Sosiyete, idini n'umuco biradusaba: Uzabura igihe ishyingiranwa ryanyu ryananiranye. Ariko na nyamara benshi barwango - bitinde bitebuke. Nibyo, twese duhora twifuza kwizera ko ubuziraherezo. Ariko, niba ibintu byose bitandukanye, ntugomba kugerageza kurokora ishyingiranwa mubiciro byose, kuko de byibuze icyiza kuruta ibindi byose. Oya, nta cyiza.Gusinzira Kurakara - Ibi nibisanzwe
Ikibazo gikeneye gusinzira. Kugerageza gukemura amakimbirane, ubungubu, iyo irari ryatetse, kandi ejo mugitondo kugirango ubyuke saa 8h00, kure kuva ikora neza. Rimwe na rimwe, abantu bakomokaga ubwabo basigira bonyine, ndetse bakanasinzira. Ahari mugitondo gitaha nacyo kizaba kizabaho icyo.
Uburakari ni bwo bworoheye
Niba wumva ko ubyitse, ibaze "Ndakaye iki?", Na "Mfite ubwoba cyane?"Ntukizere umugabo wawe kwihesha agaciro
Uratekereza ko ari nziza, ubwenge, igikundiro, gisekeje - kuko atekereza. Iyo umuntu agusanze hamwe nurukundo, urumva ufite umutekano. Umva ko amaherezo wabishimye. Kandi byose bizaba byiza. Ariko iyi ni "nziza" murindi maboko yabandi. Niba kandi igitekerezo cye kiguhinduye kuri wewe (kandi bibaho, reba paragarafu ya 5), kwihesha agaciro bizasenyuka nk'imibare y'ikarita.
Abana bahindura byose
Wowe n'umugabo wawe, n'ibyo byose hagati yawe. Ibyo byose hagati yawe na leta. Ibyo byose hagati yawe nuyu muntu mushya aho kurya metero ni uburebure. Arataka, asaba ikintu, azapfa niba utamwitayeho amasaha 24 kumunsi. Niba mwemera ko ibintu byose byahindutse kandi ntabwo, ntuzigera, nka mbere, ntuzatishimye cyane. Abana barashobora gukora barindwi bakomeye - cyangwa mumezi abiri kugirango basenye ibintu byose, nubwo waba wishimye mumyaka icumi ishize. Ibintu byose biterwa nawe.Niba avuze ko afite kanseri, uzabura?
Tegereza, ntabwo ari ibicucu. Tekereza gusa ko udafite ejo hazaza, ariko niki kizara cyane. Kandi urashobora kubyirinda - reka tuvuge ko ntawe uzaguciraho iteka. Uzagenda? Niba nahise dusubiza "Oya, birumvikana!" - Byose. Niba isegonda bimanitse, niba mbere na byose byatangiye gutekereza ku buryo kugarura igihe cyo guhindukira - ntukarongore, ntukarongore. Ntabwo uri umuntu mubi kandi ntabwo ari igikoko. Ntugomba gusa kubana nuyu muntu, ibyo aribyo byose.
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