Birashobora bishoboka cyane ko umunsi umwe bamwe mugomba kureka akazi kubwitabiriwe nababyeyi cyangwa abana. Cyangwa azahabwa akazi mu wundi mujyi - ninde ugomba kureka ibyiringiro, cyangwa kuri wewe? Iki nikibazo cyiza kuganira mumagambo unyuze mu kanwa no ku nkombe, kandi atari igihe yapakira. Kuberako akenshi umwe mubashakanye yizera ko uyu ari umwuga we, kandi umufatanyabikorwa ari ukuvuga, pellery, ashobora guhindura isahani yo gukaraba igihe icyo aricyo cyose cyo gukaraba amasahani cyangwa amabati muri supermarket.
Tugiye gukora iki niba umuryango ukeneye amafaranga?
Ntabwo selile yishimye ya societe, ni ukuvuga umuryango - nyirarume cyangwa umuvandimwe, nyoko cyangwa mubyara wa kabiri? Mu miryango imwe n'imwe, iremerwa, ubutabera, kugurisha amazu n'impyiko, kugirango ufashe bene wabo amaraso. Abandi bagarukira gusa ku itangwa ry'ikarita y'ubucuruzi y'umuryango wa microcredit. Ninde nuwuhe mubumbe witeguye gufasha?
Nigute bazana abana?
Reka dusige Montessori wenyine hamwe na Makarenko, tuzasobanura byibuze hamwe nibitekerezo byibanze: nshobora gutsinda abana cyangwa paleolithic numukino? Ikindi kintu gikwiye - Manika urufunguzo rwishuri ku ijosi cyangwa shyiramo umuforomo, Ubuyobozi n'umurinzi? Abana barimo gusetsa gusa cyangwa baracyari papa? Ku bijyanye n'ibitekerezo bye bihuye n'uwawe, urashobora kubona, ureba nyina na papa n'imyitwarire ye kuri bo. Niba mu muryango bimenyerewe kumenya ibibi igihe icyo ari cyo cyose, kandi ni byiza ko yizera ko yareze cyane, noneho arataka abana - arakwiriye rwose?
Kandi ubwiza ni ngombwa?
Kubera ko abapadiri, muri rusange, uburenganzira - ubwiza bwibintu ni uguhangana no gucika intege. Rwose rero ko mumyaka 20, hazabaho bike. Biragaragara ko uyumunsi bisa nkaho utazigera uhinduka, kandi azakomeza guhinduka, ariko reba ku ifoto yibyamamare. Kuri Harrison Ford Reba. Cyangwa kuri Pamela Anderson. Niba kandi ukundana kubwinda yongeweho na chubby, tanga raporo ivuga ko ibyo byose bitari birebire kandi bimaze kuzimira nta rukurikirane.
N'imibonano mpuzabitsina?
Hano hari abashakanye benshi bagerageza gukundana bishoboka, ndetse binyuze "sinshobora" - kandi byose kuko imibonano mpuzabitsina isa nkaho ari ikimenyetso cyerekana intsinzi nkumuryango. Muri icyo gihe, byombi birashobora kwihatira. Ntabwo ibitsina byose ari ibisobanuro byubuzima nubukwe. Kandi hano quarms ntoya: umuntu arashobora kwizera ko rimwe mu cyumweru ari intangiriro yimpera, naho izindi zirashobora kutabona ibibazo na gato.
Ntabwo tuzigera tubyemera?
Kwiyunga ntibishoboka ahantu hose. Ariko ibyiringiro bakunda gutekereza ko "oya" yagaragajwe nijwi rikomeye, ntabwo "atari", ariko "birashoboka noneho." Niba kandi ufite "oya," aho utiteguye kureka santimetero zose, cyangwa ubu, nta myaka 5 - ubigaragaza. Ntuzava mu gihugu ikintu icyo ari cyo cyose - cyangwa ntuzaguma hano kugeza mu mpera. Ntuzareka akazi. Ntuzimukira mu mudugudu ujya amata inka. Ntiwibagirwe kwiga kandi byose byabyiciro "Oya". Hanyuma uhitemo niba ushobora kubana nabo.
Nigute dushobora kurokoka ubuhemu?
Iki nikibazo cyibanze, kandi ugomba gusubiza mubyukuri. Innocent Pronk kugirango umuntu ashobore kubaho kumpande zisi kubindi. Urashobora gutekereza ko inyangamugayo ari ukuvuga byose, kandi ni uko ari byiza kubimenya. Ibyo ari byo byose ibitekerezo byawe bijyanye n'ikirere, ubigaragaza, ntabwo lugowa (na mbere ya byose).
